We are different from each other and react to the same situation differently most of the times.
Our brain works like sponge from very first moment and absorb knowledge from surroundings which help us to learn how to survive.
Our different reaction depends on our learning through our experiences different than each other and genetic difference.
As we have always heard that
"Good or Bad we both have inside us"
I think this phrase depicts that our attitudes shape our lives as whole .
How we deal with negative energy within us depends totally how we see it.
If we are failed to understand that it is a " Pull to keep us down" and if we don't detect it as silent enemy growing within us ,it gets dangerous and harmful day by day.
First mistake we make is to take it as " Swing of Mood" and wait for when it leaves by itself to make us feel better, It hardly happens . Our carelessness let it grow strong and get control of our nerves.
First of all we have to sense and admit that we have negative energy trapped within us.
Next thing is to sort out how we are going to deal with it.
I know it can be one the most difficult task to fight against your own intuition because this negative energy plays with your brain and it takes really a long constant effort to detect ,analyze and defeat it . It requires a keen sharp observant eye (nerve) to keep check on tricks it plays upon you.
It is certain that no one will ever try to let himself down or let his weaknesses take over him .
We all want happiness ,peace and prosperity and we struggle to have it throughout life.
How it is possible that despite of all normalities regarding physical and mental health we still feel low ,ill or lost .
Time to realize what does not belong to you but is in you to destroy you. It is not you ,it cannot be you ,it is negative energy centered right within your brain .
Third step is to decide ways to deal with it .
It is not easy indeed as you will feel as you are mistreating yourself at beginning .
But once you will try hard and get your first victory over it ,you will be surprise to feel amazingly Free and Peaceful afterwards .
Burning down the dark destructive thoughts and rising high from their ashes will make you realize that,
You can do it and that ,
How strong you are !
Sometimes you don't have any negativity but it is applied from outside by someone who wants to hurt you badly .He wants you to feel as trapped as he does ,feel pain as much he is in.It is not your fault but still you have to find way out.
Since previous 15 years i am dealing with such negative energy which is not mine but is applied . I thought i will talk about it in my final years of life but it seems there is no certainty for such future.
How that negative energy caused problems to my life specially to me is long story . If i will stay here i will write it as book some day because it is my personal proud and honorable victory over that dark energy .Otherwise i would have gone mad or died long ago.
It is miracle that i found way out but still i cannot understand How ? because each attack was painful and to make me suffer and die until i was able to cross the pain and started to overcome it. Since 15 years i am dealing with such terrifying energy . And with each day someone mysteriously making me stronger ,wiser ,patient and calmer.
Once again in my life a miracle has happened and an attempt that was meant to perish me added life and strength to me ,How ?
I will share later for sure
right now all i want to say is that if someone has such problem please DON'T GIVE UP BEFORE TRYING!
I had no skill or insight to fight back .
All i had was my unshaken faith on my Creator who has always guarded me and faith in myself as person who is on Right side where God stands beside his man !
I assure you that you will win this war against Negative energy because negative energy is darkness which is not more than an illusion, a trick that can be successful if your faith and will power is weak.
To kill darkness one ray of light is enough .
Your strength springing from your faith is enough to push it away believe me!
This fight can make you stronger as person because it gives you constant struggle to stay attend and keep fighting !
"Practice makes perfect " we know it .
Good advice!
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry to hear you ave to fight against any negativity. I only feel positive energy from visiting you blog.
ReplyDelete"Our brain works like sponge " I need to stop squeezing my brain!
Stay safe my friend.
To be honest dear Joe
DeleteI thought i will loose my blogging friends by sharing this part of my life :)
All the pisitive energy you feel while visiting my blog mostly come from that negative energy
I simply rely on the justice of ultimate Lord and i have seen how he is not just saving me but keeping his promise to do justice behalf of his righteous man
Haha you don't need to aqeeze your brain your brain seems like overflowing glass of reason sense and good humor :)
I think our faith is the key to helping us be positive instead of giving in to negative energy. This post gives us much to think about.
ReplyDeleteI can't say about others but for me it worked throughout my life dear Connie
Deleteas i said in many previous posts that my life is filled with incidents which made me realized that THERE IS SOMEONE AROUND ME ,WITHIN ME WHO HAS BEEN SAVING ME MIRACULOUSLY OTHERWISE I WAS NOT CLEVER ENOUGH TO DEAL WITH SUCH NEGATIVE FORCES
i truly wish i can make people understand that faith in your Creator and staying on correct path of life is the only magic that turns everything in your favor ,and i am saying this because of my personal experiences throughout my life
I too had a dark period of negative energy. For me, a daily focus on what I had to be grateful for in my life has made all the difference.
ReplyDeleteit is true that everyone has to deal with dark energy once in a life ,it can be any period of his life
Deleteit takes time to understand that NEGATIVE ENERGY TARGETS YOUR FOCUS AND TRY TO DISTRACT IT IN BLUR FOGGY FEELINGS SUCH AS ANXIETY AND DEPRESSION
Once we find how to remain focus not each day but each moment we learn to defeat it
it took few years to learn that i was not the one at all who i was becoming gradually since we moved here ,everything was good and to be grateful for still there was hidden force creating fog and stress in our mind which caused harm to our family
then i started to stay focus and keep check on my thoughts to analyze what and how was developing anger and anxiety in me
you won't believe it was so easy once i was fully awaken and aware of my thought process
it was beginning of betterment by the grace of Lord!
Sponges (brains) are all different. We deal with problems in different ways.
ReplyDeletesponges are designed to ABSORB information and software installed in their solid parts (Genetic inheritance) help it to go through process of learning and response ,i don't have read it but that is how my own mind puts it and i share this because it is no shame to share what i think of things in world and life
DeleteYes despite of same circumstances our brains work differently because they are already programmed to react differently ,this variety of thought procedure is not for waste but to see how diversity of behavior brings different set of cultures and ways of life ,it is make life interesting and colorful indeed
You write such thought - provoking posts. This is why your blog is fantastic Baili.
ReplyDeleteYou make very good points too. Bad, negative stuff can be channeled and used to think positive things and channel positivity.
Be well and stay safe.
this is so kind of you dear Brain!
Deletei think it is your generosity to encourage me
yes this is so true that negative energy can be channelized and mould into positive one
at beginning it is painful process specially when you are dealing with dark energy which is applied form outside
but what i learnt through my experience is that it makes you even stronger and better than one you were before
i must admit i had great flaw of being ABSENT MIND ,it was so often and common to make mistakes during daily chores and i hurt myself due to this flaw many times
while learning how to deal with it and by improving my focus i have become more confident ,active and better in many ways
this has lightened not just my soul but my life as house wife and mother
I agree with you "to kill darkness one ray of light is enough." It's true! I hope many rays of light enter your life! Take care! Blessings to you!
ReplyDeletethank you dear Angela ,same for you my friend!
Deleteyes this is powerful reality that slightest ray of light can pierce the heart of darkness
it is determined by Lord and this is eternal law of nature which cannot be challenged or denied by creating false illusions
ALL WE NEED IS FAITH ,AN UNSHAKEN ONE AND BELIEF in ourselves
Thank you for such an uplifting, heartfelt post! You have given us the BEST advice:)
ReplyDeleteWell said, esp.in this time period.
ReplyDeleteglad to hear from you dear Susan
Deletei know this is special time for whole humanity and positive thinking is needed
but i think you will agree that life itself is state of war since always and stay same until last breath or until we win it with faith and positive energy within us
after this ugly realities of life seem less harsh
When things are not right and we have to deal with them do we have the answers inside of us as a DNA from our past or does life tell us what to do who knows but we do handle things differently sometimes it works sometimes not all we can do is keep trying
ReplyDeleteMerle.......
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Dear Merle
Deletei would say YES WE DO HAVE ANSWER OF EACH QUESTION LIFE BRIGS FORTH
we need to Ponder ,struggle and find out and Lord has put strength to do all of this right inside us believe me
yes all we can do is KEEP TRYING ,attempts are meant to win eventually or we are in wrong direction ,but before reaching there we have to give our hundred percent
Ups and downs are the way to make us grow stronger and wiser.
ReplyDeleteHave a great week
without obstacles we would be walking on straight easy path dear Pedro
Deletei think we know the difference between people who lead easy life and people who walk on hard rough road
this is proved that later one grow more and better
You're a fighter and that's a good thing!
ReplyDeletethis fight is beyond my strength dear Debra
Deleteif i had not my Lord with me i would have gone mad or died many years ago
having Him beside me keeps moving with hope and strength and this is good i think
Negativity in our lives is not good, it always pays to rise above it by thinking positive, though difficult at times it can be done, and will be done.
ReplyDeletewhat we pay is our certain kind of innocence or ignorance And energy that we grab by composing ourselves
Deleteit is hard at first indeed ,but once you start to see what are you achieving makes you confident and strong and add more strength to your effort
because it is something only You can do for yourself as it is war inside your head
you have to identify the bad energy and turn it into positive one for your good
Fighting back sure is the way. Life sure can throw crap at you but you got to get a shovel and start digging out. And as for negative, while I'm positive when something is going to be negative lol
ReplyDeletei agree two opposite attracts each other lol
Deletethank you for sweet words Pat
Dearest Baili...oh how this fantastic post resonates within me!!
ReplyDeleteI have been fighting this type of internal negativity for most of my life. It always pops up when I am feeling low, either mentally or physically. And it requires such a huge dose of effort to defeat it at those times.
But, like you, I trust to a much greater power to guide me, and that never fails to help me over the worst times of negativity.
Perhaps, overcoming this type of inner conflict is a huge part of our life lessons?
Perhaps in doing so, we can then progress further along our spiritual path?
Oh I do hope so!
Dear Baili...please do write your life story...I would love to read it!
And I'm certain that it would help a great many other people to understand the experiences they are going through in their own lives more clearly too!😊😊
Have a great day...and please stay safe.
Much love and hugs ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
There is an old saying about our thoughts and what we choose to let in:
ReplyDeleteThink about what you are thinking about.
Blessings to you and your family. 🌸
"Applied Negative Energy"...that is a very eye-opening concept to me Baili. This is a very interesting post for me to read today. I love your life experience and how it teaches me and makes me think!
ReplyDeleteWow Baili would love to read about this . You have a great attitude and it's likewhen you walk into a closet and it's dark but the minute you turn on the light - the darkness poof is gone! It's a gentle but effective shift of perception that brings us light instead of negative energy ...but sometimes it sure seems much more of an effort than a quick shift. I'm finding more and more that the intent to shift to the light ...is easier and easier except.....when I read just too much darn negative news ...filled with fear tactics...ugh drive me nuts...then i know I need the light.
ReplyDeleteYou are amazing! Unique!
ReplyDeleteI wish you a lot of health and God's blessing.
Hugs and greetings from far away Poland:)
Lucja
Lovely and interesting post! Thank you, as always, for sharing your views.
ReplyDeleteYou're so right, Baili! We have to learn to cope with the negativity in our minds. It is not an easy struggle. I think how you have overcome your struggles is inspiring! As is your faith. Sometimes I can't get on top of it right away, but usually I can. For me, it helps to get moving. If I pull a blanket up over my head and stay in bed or on the couch, I'm going to be there for a while. Take care, my wise friend!
ReplyDeleteSão as dificuldades, que nos desenvolvem a nossa inteligência emocional e a nossa resiliência... e nos preparam para o mundo... que nem sempre se apresenta de uma forma fácil ou justa!...
ReplyDeleteSentir medo, não é reprovável... o medo deixa-nos mais atentos e conscientes sobre o que acontece à nossa volta... e se não o deixarmos tomar conta das nossas vidas... ele até nos pode ser útil, pois obriga-nos a repensar em muitas decisões, que poderiam ser tomadas de ânimo leve e por isso, terem consequências, menos desejáveis.
Como sempre, adorei as suas palavras, carregadas de sabedoria de vida, e muita ponderação! Um beijinho grande! Tudo de bom!
Ana