Hey Kind Hearts!
Hope and pray that you are Safe , Healthy and Happy and doing wonderful in your magical lives!
As you know that know that ,
Life Is SHORT and UNPREDICTABLE!
My Father's only sister my aunt has died five days ago
She was full of life and inspirational in her attitude of life , Unfortunately her children were not so kind to her but his late husband left many farms for her which's income was enough to support her living!
She was hospitalized for few days but her paralyzed body did not respond to the treatment and after three days struggle her suffering ended gracefully and she headed to the next destination of existence peacefully !
According to her daughter in law who was constantly with her in hospital she surrendered as calmly as she lived !
And during these three days she did not discharged any urine or else which could be hard to take care of for her as she was totally unconscious !
My aunt originally belonged to Kashmir situated in higher part of northern areas.
Her mother (my paternal grandma) was widow and had five children .One son (my father and four daughters).
She was so broken and crushed with the cruelties of in laws .Her Husband left quite large property for her and kids and the main would be owner was her son(my father).
To take over the charge of whole property her in laws wanted her to get married to the brother of her late husband who was totally man of trivial habits .
She was threatened by in laws that if she did not married to brother in law they will kill her son .
To save her son she escaped from home one night and her 3 elder daughters !
She managed to bring her three month old daughter (my aunt) along as she was too young to be left alone!
With broken heart and shivering body she walked with two children for few miles and then got the bus to Khanpur (my native village) from where she travelled further to here Sindh .
She (my grandma) grieved upon the departure of her 3 daughters deeply and died when my father(her son) was hardly four years and my aunt (her daughter) one or two years !
My aunt led life full of grief and saw many ups and down but she was always so vibrant and live !
Her company was such fun and she never let her sorrows take over her cheerfulness! May be she turns her tears in loud laughter and did not let anybody feel that she has huge dark space inside!
For her whole life she missed her departed sisters .She starved for love and relationships and this made her very social !
She always make everyone friend and this was proved on her funeral day as there were so any ladies who knew her by her loving and sweet behavior and always visited each other as they have friendship!
My aunt was so caring and kind to me ! She used to visit me often and stayed with us for few days which was pleasure and peace for me as though my parents were in another city but she was here in village near .
For me she was a "mother like" figure !
When in last year of her life she was getting weaker due to illness and could not visit me i visited to her many times .
The shine of her eyes still warms my heart which i used to see in her eyes when she saw me entering her yard!
I loved her and will be missing her warm loving presence around me! May she rest in peace,amen!
Hope and pray that you are Safe , Healthy and Happy and doing wonderful in your magical lives!
As you know that know that ,
Life Is SHORT and UNPREDICTABLE!
My Father's only sister my aunt has died five days ago
She was full of life and inspirational in her attitude of life , Unfortunately her children were not so kind to her but his late husband left many farms for her which's income was enough to support her living!
She was hospitalized for few days but her paralyzed body did not respond to the treatment and after three days struggle her suffering ended gracefully and she headed to the next destination of existence peacefully !
According to her daughter in law who was constantly with her in hospital she surrendered as calmly as she lived !
And during these three days she did not discharged any urine or else which could be hard to take care of for her as she was totally unconscious !
My aunt originally belonged to Kashmir situated in higher part of northern areas.
Her mother (my paternal grandma) was widow and had five children .One son (my father and four daughters).
She was so broken and crushed with the cruelties of in laws .Her Husband left quite large property for her and kids and the main would be owner was her son(my father).
To take over the charge of whole property her in laws wanted her to get married to the brother of her late husband who was totally man of trivial habits .
She was threatened by in laws that if she did not married to brother in law they will kill her son .
To save her son she escaped from home one night and her 3 elder daughters !
She managed to bring her three month old daughter (my aunt) along as she was too young to be left alone!
With broken heart and shivering body she walked with two children for few miles and then got the bus to Khanpur (my native village) from where she travelled further to here Sindh .
She (my grandma) grieved upon the departure of her 3 daughters deeply and died when my father(her son) was hardly four years and my aunt (her daughter) one or two years !
My aunt led life full of grief and saw many ups and down but she was always so vibrant and live !
Her company was such fun and she never let her sorrows take over her cheerfulness! May be she turns her tears in loud laughter and did not let anybody feel that she has huge dark space inside!
For her whole life she missed her departed sisters .She starved for love and relationships and this made her very social !
She always make everyone friend and this was proved on her funeral day as there were so any ladies who knew her by her loving and sweet behavior and always visited each other as they have friendship!
My aunt was so caring and kind to me ! She used to visit me often and stayed with us for few days which was pleasure and peace for me as though my parents were in another city but she was here in village near .
For me she was a "mother like" figure !
When in last year of her life she was getting weaker due to illness and could not visit me i visited to her many times .
The shine of her eyes still warms my heart which i used to see in her eyes when she saw me entering her yard!
I loved her and will be missing her warm loving presence around me! May she rest in peace,amen!
