Hey Brave Hearts !
Hope enjoying the water from well of life that you been digging since long with the tools of dare ,wisdom and foresightedness :)
Hard work of living never ends though ,it slows down when we be successful to obtain water from our well of life .
Time to sit ,relax and embrace the glory of blessings you have :)
Saying goodbye the leaving moment and cherishing the present one with optimism for upcoming which always remains unpredictable yet mysteriously beautiful is art we learn through our adventures of life!
Sipping the each moment with deep sense of gratitude and peace makes the time light and bright for us to pass by!
Our last two days spent in visits to areas out of city.
On Wednesday we went for shopping to Sukkur city . And yesterday we visited to the rural area to attend wedding ceremony in my sister in law's house.
The under construction road was quite hard and tiring to travel on ,Returning from same rout after few hours made us more tired but we enjoyed the wedding and gathering anyway.
The fasting month of Ramadan is starting from 5th May i think and therefore summer vacation have started early (from first May to First July).
Having hubby and kids close is most precious thing though we all miss my eldest son TERRIBLY :(((
my eldest son sent this image two days back ,captured so nicely ,water looks healing and compelling!
Long summer days offer to do many things that we find hard during winters .
For me this is time to reacquire my hobby of reading .What is most irritating thing about it that my eyesight refuse to be much helpful for this .
When i went my first eye checkup i was hardly 18 and after tests doctor told that my eyes are perfectly fine but blurriness and feeling burdened head is due to neurological problem .
i don't remember what treatment doctor did but since i am here in this city of Khairpur and visited eye specialist many times i got no help or cure .
I asked him to prescribe some kind of eye drops but none he gave by saying that "you don't need it"
Though he gave a cheap eye drop that only refreshes eyes for while but no improvement in vision.
Since one year i am using almond powder in glass of milk in hope that may it make some difference .
Still i am wondering that may be you guys have any idea about treatment for weak eyesight caused by mental weakness!
Hope you guys will take lots of care of yourself and keep enjoying the sipping pure fresh and magically delightful water from the well of life!
Stay Blessed With Strength Of Hope That Grow in Garden Of Faith!
Faith In Your Maker !
Faith In Yourself!
I haven't heard of weak eyesight caused by mental weakness, only eye sight that needs spectacles to correct. I can only suggest you read in a good light, and for short periods so you don't tire your eyes. I hope it is nothing permanent and that you will be rested.
ReplyDeleteYes dear Betty mental weakness can cause eyesight problem
DeleteEither I was not aware of this until I read an article online
I got some time free afternoon and due to heat I have to stay inside and rely on artificial light instead of natural one
When I was in my native town I used to sit under shady tree in our front yard and it was genuine pleasure to read favourite books then
"Hey Brave Hearts !"
ReplyDelete:-) Have you seen that movie?
I have never heard of eye sight issues caused by mental stress. I wonder what to do about it. Stop worrying...ha, easy to say, right? But I think our thoughts affect our physical well-being immensely. I hope you will be at peace. I wish your oldest son lived closer to you. I miss him for you!
Dear Sandi your concern for my lounging to have my eldest baby close is really truly appreciated! !!
DeleteNo my dear friend I have never heard of this movie but I heard or may be I watched a movie "brave heart" if not mistaking
But I will look for this certainly as sounds great as you mentioned :)
I wear glasses when I read and the number is 3 but they don't help with headache that follow reading
Dearest Baili...thank you so much for sharing your son's wonderful photos with us. The barbeque looks so delicious!😊
ReplyDeleteOh I do wish I could offer some advice on your eye problem. Are you taking any drugs for any other problems? I know from experience that many medications have blurred vision as a side effect.
I really do hope and pray that you get to the bottom of the problem soon. It is so frustrating when reading is possible, isn't it?
Sending healing thoughts and prayers your way, my beautiful friend!😊😊
Lots of love and hugs ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Dearest Ygraine i am pleased that you found images by my son beautiful :)
Deleteyes my dear friend i am having many kind of medication since years for my various health issues and there is possibility that they might effected the vision
i love reading so much but since some years constant vision loss has strained my beloved hobby almost
how can i say thank you enough for your warmth of love my precious friend!
you are so kind and sweet!
Sorry to hear about your eyesight problems. I have had some issues myself. Unfortunately, I just do not know enough to give advice. I hope that your eyesight improves.
ReplyDeleteThat barbecue looks very good. I think that you son is doing well!
Have a great day.
this is good that you eyesight issues been resolved dear Brain which is so fortunate indeed specially the way you read books and then write their review so brilliantly is astonishing!
DeleteI've never heard of eye problems due to mental weakness and I find it hard to believe you could have any mental weakness, From your posts you are mentally very strong.
ReplyDeletePerhaps a stronger prescription, or better lighting.
Dear Joe when i was told first that my eyes have no issue but vision blurs sometimes due to insignificant signals that brain send to eye muscles i was 18 and i did not understand the seriousness of problem ,i used medicine for few months and then forgot about it
Deleteafter entering my 30s i again visited eye specialist and then later few others who could only advised eyeglasses
sometimes back i read an article few articles actually that reveal that eyesight problem can be caused by neurological deficiency and i am glad that at least now i know the reason
In the first place you are not mentally weak in any way. Now about your eyes maybe you should talk to your regular doctor. Tell him that eye doctors seem to think there is a neurological problem that affects your vision. He might have some tests he can run to help you.
ReplyDeleteMy dear Emma!
Deletein my last visit almost year ago i asked my doctor to write me some tests that can reveal the actual reason behind but he smiled and said that
"you worry so much "
and he was not even giving me drops for what i argued to him
i think i will have to go to Karachi or Islamabad for better treatment
Can't advise on your eye problem, so sorry.
ReplyDeleteHave you tried used a magnifying glass? I'm sorry you get headaches after reading, as books can be such a source of knowledge, entertainment, and relaxation. Good luck. I like Emma's suggestions of seeing your regular doctor.
ReplyDeleteI love that photo of the river that your son sent to you. Water is soothing!
Dearest Jenny i never tried magnifying glasses though i mischievously used sometimes my father's when he was repairing watch
Deletei am little scared from eye glasses specially when after using one certain number for few months you know that you need to improve number of your glasses
i mean where it will end once it starts ?
and is this really a solution?
So in life we have some good things and some bad things. Our days go up and down.
ReplyDeleteAh life is bundle of smiles :) and sorrows :( dear Red!
Deletebut no doubt that each side has significant beauty and charm !
Oh, that sounds like a nuisance with the eyes. I think this is a situation where it is helpful to live in a modern global world. Go to a doctor with a different healing tradition. A western hospital, or perhaps a Chinese one if you prefer. Doctors have so many ways of approaching things depending on their culture! Illnesses of the body and mind are not simple, like a machine. The approach to it is also significant.
ReplyDeleteYou can also look at the wonderful photo of the water, which your son has so kindly sent you. It will calm your nervous system, I think.
i can agree that living in advanced part of the world can be helpful to detect actual reason of any disease dear Jenny!
Deletei would have found better cure with normal eyesight weakness but it seems that my recent doctor is hesitating to accept or express that my eyesight problem is coming from weak brain signals to the eye(from article)
or may be he thinks i will not be able to get his point of view
anyway i am studying about my problem and looking for the solution which is not seem to be find until now
oh this serene water is soothing my nerves for sure :)
I would definitely get another opinion about your precious eyesight. So sorry you are experiencing these problems with your vision...
ReplyDeleteIt is wonderful thatl your eldest son sends photos. He must realize they warm your heart and bring you joy knowing he is safe and happy. And thank you for sharing them!!
Big hugs, my friend:)
you are right dear Chris about option of second opinion and i will definitely go for it
Deletei am a very blessed mother to have such kindhearted son who is living away from home and family since 8 years but his heart still does not forgot to think about us as warmly :)
his love and care makes me feel better and so blessed not just mentally but physically too
Your sons seems to be enjoying himself immensely, how wonderful is that :)
ReplyDeleteYour eyes, you need to go to have them seen to and tested by another person, and if not satisfied then other - do not muck around with your eyes and strain them. My father was legally blind for over 20 years and his Doctors were of great help to him.
i am sorry about your father's eyesight problem dear Margaret as ability to see things is truly a blessing that allow us to embrace and understand the beauty of nature and fulfilling the all aesthetic pleasures
ReplyDeletei wear glass for reading or for watching t.v though i was asked to keep put them on all the time but i never did so as it seems uneasy to carry the burden upon my ear
it's been almost year since i visited my doctor and i think too that i need to change the doctor
Great photos! I imagine you miss your son terribly like I miss my daughter. It's so good when they came to visit isn't? Hope your son will came to visit soon. My eye doctor told me to rest the eyes. Take over the counter omega 3 tablets. (Fish oil.) He told me to stay away from screens..all screens from computer, tablets or phone. However I am stubborn.
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry to hear of your problems with your vision. I don't know of any solutions to offer you, but I hope that it improves for you. The photo your son sent of the water is lovely and serene.
ReplyDeleteHi, Baili! I'm sorry that your eyes are bothering you. It can be so frustrating. If you can, perhaps you can get an opinion from a second eye doctor. I understand only too well that glasses can hurt your ears. They can hurt your nose too. Perhaps you could find glasses made of lighter materials. That helped me. I use magnifying glasses to read, and I have to read in good light. I have a friend who loves to read, but she is very busy tending her horses and other animals, bees, garden, and working. She listens to books while she works. Perhaps you could listen to a book from some resource on line. It might give your eyes a rest. I think you might check with a different family or primary care doctor. I would be gritting my teeth if a doctor told me that I worry too much! You live in your body and know it better than anyone else. When I'm reading I look up from my book fairly often and focus on something across the room, and sometimes I make my eyes look up, down, and around a few times just to give them a break. Love that lovely and serene photo of the river that your eldest son sent. That BBQ along the canal looks like it was fun. All the best to you as you observe Ramadan! XOXOX
ReplyDeleteTer problemas de visão é realmente preocupante. Espero que melhore.
ReplyDelete"é arte aprendemos através de nossas aventuras de vida!" É muito certo. Gosto muito do rio da fotografia que partilha.
Uma boa semana.
Um beijo.
I'm so sorry about your eyes, Baili. I wish I had some advice for you but I can't think of a single thing. I hope things get better xo
ReplyDeleteHow wonderful that your son is having such a great time and making good friends. We always feel such joy when our children are doing well.
as you know, Baili, I recently had cataract surgery to improve my blurred vision. I'm not sure if your eye issues could be caused by a similar problem and it's unfortunate that the specialists cannot determine the cause of your headaches and blurred vision. And the comment from a medical professional that your eyesight is a mental problem seems like a lot of nonsense to me. As another person already suggested, perhaps some of the medications you take for other issues may be causing this problem.
ReplyDeleteDo you know which was the most romantic barbecue ever?
ReplyDeleteMe and my wife in a desert little island that you can only reach by boat in Thailand.
Great sunset!!
Have a great week.
It was so nice to see the photographs your son had sent you.
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry you are experiencing eye problems ...The Royal National Institute For The Blind (RNIB) does has an information page about various eye conditions, which you may find helpful.
https://www.rnib.org.uk/eye-health/eye-conditions
Thinking of you and hoping you can get your eye sight sorted.
All the best Jan
The photo of the water your son sent you is beautiful. It reminds me of a peaceful stream, river, or brook. He is getting good with Photography. The barbecue looks delicious. I'm sorry you have weak eyesight, Baili. Our eyesight is such an important thing. I do hope you find the right treatment to help you with this.
ReplyDeleteTake care, sweet friend.
~Sheri