Complaint Office ( story ) and (some feelings for friends in trouble in texas and other states)

                    Hello   Dear     Friends!


Hope   and   pray  that   you   are   having   wonderful   time  in   your   lives   inspite   of  all 

 obstacles     in   the  way.  Hope   weather    is    being   less   hard  now   and   life   is   about   to   

settle   back    on   it's   normal   trek .( Hopefully) 



Hope    Fires  are  getting   slow  down  and   environment   of   effected   areas   got   some   relief 

 .My   heartiest   best   wishes  for   all   who  

suffered   and   lost   meanwhile .Nature   has   it's  own   expressions   to   describe   her   moods   

and   behaviors  and   although   man   has   developed    great   command    over   many   things   by   
inventions   and  technology   but  there  are  still   somethings   which   stay   out  of  control  and   

make   men    panic   once   in   a  while  .All   we   can   do   is   caution    to  protect   ourselves  and

keep   praying   for   safety   and  well   being  before  God .

Today   i  am   sharing   about   one   of   my   friend   and   cousin  (from back my native  village).

She   is  little  weird   in   her   attitude  .I  kind   of   grew   along  with   her   though    she   is   ten   

years   elder   than   me . She   belongs   to  a   well   established  (  Financially)  family  and   since   

childhood   got    everything  what   she   wanted .She  was   eldest  of  her  two   siblings   but    

always  so   impatient  ,demanding   and   stubborn .She   never   liked   her    own   toys .Played   for  
 while   and   snatched   from   little   siblings .Her   attitude   raised   with   her   and   she   chose   

man    to    get   married   whom   loved   her   best    friend .   She   did   not   care   about   the   

feelings   of   her   cousin   and   childhood   friend   who  w as  left   heart   broken .


Usually   people   grow  emotionally  and  mentally  along  with   physical    growth   but   shockingly  
her  behavior   did   not   change   with   the   age   and   time.  She   had   man   whom   she   wanted  

and  six   children  3  boys  and  3   girls   along   with   all   worldly   luxury   yet   she   was   

unhappy   ,unsatisfied  and  complainer . 

I   never   saw   such   another   weird   example  .I    had   mixture  of   feelings   for   her  ,anger  

,sympathy   ,concern  and  most   above  PITY  .How   bad   that   she   was   ruthlessly   ruining  her   
life   and   lives   of    people   around   her   including   her   children   who    were   bearing   sick   

abnormal   environment   just    their   mother   was   not   a   NORMAL   person . 

Whenever   i   met   her   i   never   heard   from   her   any   good   about   her   life  ,husband   or   

 children .She    always   keep   complaining   about   everyone  .For   her   husband   she   always   

say   he      doesn't   care   for  me  ,He   is   flert   and   unfaithful . If    she   was   true   in   her   

comments   it   was   most   probably   her   own   behavior   who  forced   him   to  be  like   this   as   

according   to   my   village   friends   she   always   keep   home   in   "fighting " mode  and   remind   
him   that   she   was   the   one   who   chose   him  otherwise   he  was  in  love   with  her   friend.

even  about   her   kids   she   said   "they   all   are   bad  and   selfish   just   like  their   father  etc.


Due   to   her   such   behaviors    relatives   hesitate    to  be   close   to   her   or   to   make  new   

relationships   with   her   grown   up   kids . One   of   her   daughter  who   was  so   precious   and   

pretty   girl   committed   suicide   because   her   cruel   mother   did   not   care   for   her   feelings   

and   forced   her   to   marry   with   boy   who  seemed   impressive   to  her   due   to   his   strong   

economic  status    .Her  daughter    was  in  love   with   her   cousin   who   was   her  fiance   for   two   

years.  She  (weird one)  tied   and   broke  engagements   of  her  all   six   kids  apparently   .His   oldest   son 

 had   fiance   for   more  than  5   years  .All   preparations   were  done   for   wedding   but   

suddenly   she   announced   that   she   will  not   bring   that   girl   as   daughter  in  law   who   did   

not   greet   appropriately   when   encountered  in   some  ceremony. Son    was   same   as   mother 

 and  later   revealed   that   he   developed   his   affair   with   a   girl  whom  he  met  in 

 hospital ( he is male  nurse)

   that  girl   was   only   child  of  rich   family   and   this   mother  and   son   expected   

LOT  from  this  wedding ( dowry system ).  The   poor  girl  who  was  left   behind  died  within  two   years  with 

 unknown   disease .Her   father   had   heart   attack   already .

My   weird    cousin   lives   with   her   husband   who   sleeps   in   separate   room  since   years. 

Unlike   tradition   of  here  her  three   boys   live   separate   and   don't   talk   to  their   mother   

even  on  special   days  .  One   of   her   daughter  is  married  to  a   boy  who  is  in   army 

.Other   the   eldest   girl   is   still   unmarried   and   teaching   in   school .

I   always   feel   sorry   for   her   family   who   paid   for   her   sins .  She   never   appreciated  the   

blessings   that   God   gave   her   or   the   good  that  people   did  to   her .  She   is   

complicated  case  to   solve .I  wasted   lots  of   my   time   and  words  on   her  when   met   

but   what   about   who   lock   themselves  into   a   DARK  ROOM   of   IGNORANCE   and 

 don't   let   any   ray  in  to   enlighten   their   world.



Whatever   we   have  is   not   our   a   DEBT   on  God  from  us    so  he  has   to   give   it 

 back   to   us   anyway  ,   it   is   only   the   GIFT    of   LOVE   from   our  

CREATOR  for   which  THANK  YOU  is   due not   complaint.


Stay   positive  and  never  let   your   faith  shaken  by   tests  that  come  to   reinvent   you   my   friends,love   you  all.

God   Bless  You  All!!! Take  care  please!