Hey Precious Friends!
Hope and pray that all of you are giving tough time to all hard times that encounter you in the path of life you choose to walk on .
Though tough times are actual good teachers and bring out best of us .They also add the more beauty and value to the sense of happiness by varying them obviously.
Yesterday was Saturday and since beginning i try to finish all my cleaning ,laundry and all other chores except cooking so on Sunday i can spend more time with hubby .
We share our various home and kids related issues ,list of to do things and sometime memories of past over the cup of tea before the lunch time and evening time .Without saying any particular thing to each other about our relationship we indirectly absorb the joy of being close to each other quietly .
Last day hubby came home quite late [it is very rare as he gets home around 3pm] It was almost evening [almost 6pm] .
I did not felt hungry yet just to be with kids on dining table i took lunch. I was annoyed that he did not even text that he will be late so was little worried too i inevitably texted him that if he is fine .He did not replied and my head was anxious beside which raised anger .
Kids were enjoying their games as their exams are finished and waiting for result so full time fun for few days. I tried to focus on t.v but could not so lied down with lots of prays in heart for well being of him.
Door knocked and i took breathe of relief when i saw hubby entered with his smiling calm face .this sight blew away all my previous stormy moods and sense of peace and gratitude replaced it.
Hubby put his shopping stuff [fruits and vegies ] on the side table and straight came to me .i was sitting quietly and was trying to look like angry ,he said in the market he met with his some very old friends from another city who came here for some kind of work and encountered so he took them into the hotel near and shared nice lunch with them ,
He added that he should have invited them at home but he knew that i must be very tired already and will be hard for me to prepare lunch for three sudden guests so he preferred eating out.
We are married since more than 25 years and had lots of sweet and bitter memories together but one thing that gives me true joy is his care for my loneliness , he never forgot that after marriage i left my beautiful village and lots of love hundreds miles away and came to this small city .He knew that i am not much social [though in good relationships with in laws ] person so he tries his best to give me his caring company whenever i needed [always actually] .
After he told me i was good we both had tea but one thing was not good he was reminding me the anger and annoying of my early years of marriage and i was trying to show that i could not believe that i used to be that stupid before .[Shame on me ] I am glad that we change by the time and hope for all it is for BETTER!
Please take good care friends ,Happy spring to those who received it already and Best wishes for those who are still waiting for it .
Stay happy and Positive dear friends!
God Bless You All!
Hope and pray that all of you are giving tough time to all hard times that encounter you in the path of life you choose to walk on .
Though tough times are actual good teachers and bring out best of us .They also add the more beauty and value to the sense of happiness by varying them obviously.
Yesterday was Saturday and since beginning i try to finish all my cleaning ,laundry and all other chores except cooking so on Sunday i can spend more time with hubby .
We share our various home and kids related issues ,list of to do things and sometime memories of past over the cup of tea before the lunch time and evening time .Without saying any particular thing to each other about our relationship we indirectly absorb the joy of being close to each other quietly .
Last day hubby came home quite late [it is very rare as he gets home around 3pm] It was almost evening [almost 6pm] .
I did not felt hungry yet just to be with kids on dining table i took lunch. I was annoyed that he did not even text that he will be late so was little worried too i inevitably texted him that if he is fine .He did not replied and my head was anxious beside which raised anger .
Kids were enjoying their games as their exams are finished and waiting for result so full time fun for few days. I tried to focus on t.v but could not so lied down with lots of prays in heart for well being of him.
Door knocked and i took breathe of relief when i saw hubby entered with his smiling calm face .this sight blew away all my previous stormy moods and sense of peace and gratitude replaced it.
Hubby put his shopping stuff [fruits and vegies ] on the side table and straight came to me .i was sitting quietly and was trying to look like angry ,he said in the market he met with his some very old friends from another city who came here for some kind of work and encountered so he took them into the hotel near and shared nice lunch with them ,
He added that he should have invited them at home but he knew that i must be very tired already and will be hard for me to prepare lunch for three sudden guests so he preferred eating out.
We are married since more than 25 years and had lots of sweet and bitter memories together but one thing that gives me true joy is his care for my loneliness , he never forgot that after marriage i left my beautiful village and lots of love hundreds miles away and came to this small city .He knew that i am not much social [though in good relationships with in laws ] person so he tries his best to give me his caring company whenever i needed [always actually] .
After he told me i was good we both had tea but one thing was not good he was reminding me the anger and annoying of my early years of marriage and i was trying to show that i could not believe that i used to be that stupid before .[Shame on me ] I am glad that we change by the time and hope for all it is for BETTER!
Please take good care friends ,Happy spring to those who received it already and Best wishes for those who are still waiting for it .
Stay happy and Positive dear friends!
God Bless You All!
Que tenha uma semana muito abençoada.
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It is good that your husband and you share your feelings and also understand why you each may be angry. My husband and I also will get mad at one another but this is part os being human and we always later apologize to each other and never go to bed angry.
ReplyDeleteReally aprreciate that you sgared this with us, such a real love story, I'm also happily married ☺
ReplyDeleteYou and your hubby are a lovely couple.
ReplyDeleteThrough hard times and good times, there is always hope! Your thoughts are beautiful on your married life that you have written here. Maybe when you are older you can retire back to your country life! My husband retired and we came back to a more country-type area to live. Andrea
ReplyDeleteYour husband sounds like a wise man. He is mindful of your moods and cares enough to allow you to feel better. Very nice.
ReplyDeleteYou are such a wise person, I like what you said about hard life and happiness going hand in hand for a fuller life, so true.
ReplyDeleteI too have learned a lot in a long marriage, and do not like to be reminded of how I was in the beginning! The main thing is that we have learned :) Your husband sounds kind and thoughtful. That is a good kind of spouse to have.
ReplyDeleteI always enjoy the look at your culture that are included in your stories.
ReplyDeleteA story of true love, Baili.
ReplyDeleteIt can be worrying when we expect our husbands to be home and they are very late, can't it. I have been in that situation a few times and remember always feeling as if a giant weight was lifted when I saw my husband's smiling face appear through the door. Marriage is a journey, a lovely journey of many ups and downs....but oh so worth it. It sounds as if you and your husband are a wonderful fit, Baili. May you have a lovely week, lovely lady.
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing this precious moment.
ReplyDeleteMay happiness and joy fill every moment of your life.
It is always a worry when the man in your life forgets to text saying something has cropped up and he will be late home.
ReplyDeleteThe mind goes into overdrive, wondering if he is OK!
Sharing part of your day, how nice.
ReplyDeleteMany men wouldn't text their wives or partner either - and it was nice you were patient and understanding. It always pays to find out the reason before getting too cross.
Lindos desejos aqui! Ótima semana! bjs, chica
ReplyDeleteMy wife also gets a bit worried and chastises me when I do not call or text back when I am at work :)
ReplyDeleteI have been married 21 years.
People do indeed change as I have. I also hope that I have changed for the better.
Have a great week!
Hi Baili, Communication is always the key in any relationship. Balance and respect is a close second. We learn as we go along don't we? Your story has a happy ending and shows true love. I have been married 43 years and 44 this August. We still learn and grow with God's direction. Wishing you a lovely week and Happy April!
ReplyDelete"Though tough times are actual good teachers and bring out best of us ."
ReplyDeleteOur lives experience good and bad and only by having both can we move forward and learn, and I think this continues throughout life's journey.
You have a good marriage, you care for each other.
You are blessed.
All the best Jan
You sounds like such a lovely couple. Your husband seems like a very thoughtful and caring person. And so are you! It's no wonder you are so good together. We change as we get older. Hopefully we are wiser!
ReplyDeleteYes, these are the ups and downs in a relationship. Compromises and understanding works.
ReplyDeleteHello, everyone does have their ups and downs. I try to focus on the good and forget the bad. You are bless with a wonderful hubby and family. Happy Tuesday, enjoy your day!
ReplyDeleteThis is a beautiful love story! Perfect example of how love only endures when there is understanding and forgiveness!
ReplyDeleteThis is very special. I'm in awe. If only...
ReplyDeleteToday in Amble Bay!
This is a very nice story, Baili. Sometimes we do worry and fret about our loved ones. I've had many good times, but also many terrible times through my life, so I could relate to your post. Thank you, dear, for your sincere thoughts. And having a cup of tea seems to always make everything better. : )
ReplyDelete~Sheri
ps that was my daughter, Nel, on the recent post. She took a trip to
Baltimore and loved everything about it. You will see me and my
other daughter on my next post. Have a splendid week, my dear.
I feel the same way if my husband is late and doesn't call. I get worried! ^.^ You have a wonderful relationship - full of love and care for each other.
ReplyDeleteI loved reading this about your marriage... life is never perfect but there are beautiful moments that remind us of the good. How sweet your husband cares about how lonely you are and tries to always be there for you xox
ReplyDeleteNot shame on you!! You had these feelings inside of you, and you dealt with them, when your hubby came home and shared love with you! You have a beautiful relationship! I still think he should have texted you! LOL! Big Hugs!
ReplyDeleteIt is so sweet that after all these years you are still worried when he comes home late and he is still worried that you will be alone. It is a sign of true devotion. Sending hugs and blessings xo Karen
ReplyDeleteThose of us who have wonderful husbands are truly blessed with good fortune, Baili. Your husband is a gem! It's not so much that you were stupid when you were young ~ you are older and wiser now, and if you knew what you know now back then, you would have made wiser choices. I try to remember to be kind and gentle toward my young and inexperienced self because at that early time I was doing the best I could even when I made some "stupid" choices. Sending you a big hug!
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