Hello Dear Friends!
Hope and pray that all of you getting perfect results from your struggles you are doing right now for various aims of life.
It is not always that we get hundred percent out of our efforts ,sometime there remain some more energy to put in to get what we wanted .And sometime different factors affect our struggle negatively .
If we are very much sure that we have given our BEST and still did not reach the end it simply calls destiny and with all my experiences i can say it without any hesitation that If we still except what destiny brought to us and do not let our faith shake that everything happens for the reason things miraculously turn into our favor and it is possible only when our FAITH ON OUR CREATOR IS UNSHAKEN .Believe me and try it dear ones!
In previous year when my eldest son and hubby advised me that i should leave the job [as principal of Junior Mikaza school] because this is effecting the studies of my younger boys i felt bad because i was enjoying my work though lesser when i was appointed only as class teacher in senior Mikaza school .
My eldest son approached me that when i get back from school i am so tired and not in condition to supervise kids in their studies well.
He said "even i was careless until you motivated me and sometime even forced me to study well and now i am bearing the fruits of your devotion mom"
" They are not enough mature to choose what is right and beneficial for them in future " I thought it for few days ponder upon the results of their monthly tests which was getting weaker .Then finally decided to quit the job .
Yesterday My younger son brought his result of ninth grad in which he got First Position i felt that my efforts became fruitful and My youngest one got A+ .He is grad six now .
It made me feel little easy that i am investing my energy in a very Correct way [Grateful to my dear Creator]
There are so many things in my mind that i want to do but right now i am giving preference to my kids ,If life stays after four or five years i will be able to do what i want to do hopefully.
Sharing below some recent photos ,hope you like them.
My younger son [14+] stood first in class ,now in 10th grad!
His result card and shield !
First sunflower in my front yard ,pretty smile of the season
Jasmine likes summers so started blloming with lovely fragrance
Hope and pray that all of you getting perfect results from your struggles you are doing right now for various aims of life.
It is not always that we get hundred percent out of our efforts ,sometime there remain some more energy to put in to get what we wanted .And sometime different factors affect our struggle negatively .
If we are very much sure that we have given our BEST and still did not reach the end it simply calls destiny and with all my experiences i can say it without any hesitation that If we still except what destiny brought to us and do not let our faith shake that everything happens for the reason things miraculously turn into our favor and it is possible only when our FAITH ON OUR CREATOR IS UNSHAKEN .Believe me and try it dear ones!
In previous year when my eldest son and hubby advised me that i should leave the job [as principal of Junior Mikaza school] because this is effecting the studies of my younger boys i felt bad because i was enjoying my work though lesser when i was appointed only as class teacher in senior Mikaza school .
My eldest son approached me that when i get back from school i am so tired and not in condition to supervise kids in their studies well.
He said "even i was careless until you motivated me and sometime even forced me to study well and now i am bearing the fruits of your devotion mom"
" They are not enough mature to choose what is right and beneficial for them in future " I thought it for few days ponder upon the results of their monthly tests which was getting weaker .Then finally decided to quit the job .
Yesterday My younger son brought his result of ninth grad in which he got First Position i felt that my efforts became fruitful and My youngest one got A+ .He is grad six now .
It made me feel little easy that i am investing my energy in a very Correct way [Grateful to my dear Creator]
There are so many things in my mind that i want to do but right now i am giving preference to my kids ,If life stays after four or five years i will be able to do what i want to do hopefully.
Sharing below some recent photos ,hope you like them.
My younger son [14+] stood first in class ,now in 10th grad!
His result card and shield !
Colors pouring in my little garden!
Captured this little black shiny bird through the fence two days ago .They always wander around in this season along with many other birds and squirrels
My neem tree growing quickly
Last day evening sky beauty!
Take Good care dear friends ,stay Positive , strong and happy always.Have wonderful Pleasant life each moment ahead.God Bless You All!
Congratulation to your son, he certainly did very well and you all must be so very proud of him.
ReplyDeleteLove your flowers.
Wonderful pictures.
ReplyDeleteTo invest time and energy into your family is one of the best things that we can do in life. In my opinion it is effort that is well spent.
I can see how proud of your son you are.
Have a great week!
I changed jobs when a principalship was too demanding on my time as a parent. I understand your dilemma. You can always go back to teaching or administration. You get one shot at raising the children.
ReplyDeleteOh Baili - Happy Moments Indeed!
ReplyDeleteMany congratulation to your son, he certainly did very well, you all must be so very proud of him.
I do like your flowers too.
My good wishes
All the best Jan
It's the biggest joy in our life, when our children do well and are happy and satisfied themselves. Sometimes the best choice is that the mother (or father!) stays at home, sometimes it may be economically necessary that both parents work outside the home.
ReplyDeleteIt looks like summer there... Lovely flowers!
Stay well!
Congrats to your son for his hard work! Your decision to be there for your children is the right one. They will be grown before you know it.
ReplyDeleteBetty
Congratulations to your son and to you for sacrificing your career for your sons. It is admirable that you held such a good position yet you put your family first to stay at home. I was always a stay-at-home mom too. My mom used to always say that we are responsible for each of our children's souls in raising them correctly. Andrea
ReplyDeleteCongratulations to your son and to you, great results☺ You have made the best decision☺
ReplyDeleteI’m happy for you that you can find happy moments all around you. Especially you must be proud of your son’s achievement supported by you. It’s not sacrifice but investment in future, I think. Have happy days ahead.
ReplyDeleteYoko
You are so smart and wise, love visiting here! Congrats to your son!!
ReplyDeleteWell done to your sons, and well done mama also. Your choice has paid off and will continue to do as as your boys grow up. You have given them a solid base to build upon for the rest of their lives. Congratulations to all!
ReplyDeleteCongratulations to your son. You must be ver proud. Thak you for the other pictures.
ReplyDeleteContinued blessings
That is wonderful about your son. You have good reason to be a proud mama. Your choice has certainly rewarded both of you.
ReplyDeleteYour son has a nice and warm smile, Baili. That's great that he is doing so well in school and getting excellent grades. Your first sunflower in your front yard is pretty and cheerful.
ReplyDeleteYour words are always heartwarming, Baili, and touch my heart in just the right way.
~Sheri
Blessings.
ReplyDeleteA wise, but difficult decision. You will not regret giving your love and attention to your children. They grow so fast! Soon you will be able to do what you want and also watch your children become parents, God willing.
ReplyDeleteYou are a sweet and kind person and are very blessed.
I absolutely love the sunflower in your garden, the nice bird drinking from a flower. It lifts my spirits as here we still have snow! It is melting now, but our winters in Canada are far too long! Have a nice day! And thanks for visiting my blog.
And God Bless you too. Thankful for our creator. I look forward to color like you have, here in Wisconsin soon. And such smart kids too! Cute photos!
ReplyDeleteBaili..
ReplyDeletelove the post and
your darling son ..
glad he is doing so well :)
hugs,Patty
And your flowers are so pretty :)
ReplyDeleteIt is so nice for your son to see the results of his hard work. And a proud moment for you, Baili. Happy April!
ReplyDeleteAmalia
xo
The positive energy from this post is crackling! Lovely photo of your son, hard work pays off!
ReplyDelete"i am bearing the fruits of your devotion mom" Music to a mother's ears.
ReplyDeleteYour words beautiful as ever, dear heart. <3
I'm glad your youngest kids are now doing so well at school! Both they and you and their father must be so proud!
ReplyDeleteLovely photos and such a wise post. I thoroughly enjoyed both. Your son is a joy and I congratulate him on his good grades. You are a wonderful mother.
ReplyDeletePretty plants. And it sounds like things are going well.
ReplyDeleteYour flowers are just gorgeous. I can see why you are proud of your son and his work. Good job, Mom!
ReplyDeleteYour son did very well. Congratulations to him.
ReplyDeleteSuch an inspiring post and lovely photos.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations to your son.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations to your son.
ReplyDeleteHi, Great photo of your son. You made a difficult decision to quit a job you loved for the sake of your children and their education. It is nice that they are making great grades now with your devotion. Your garden and the little bird are pretty. I hope you and your family have a nice weekend.
ReplyDeletewow congratulations to your son:) beautiful post:)
ReplyDeletekisses:*
Sometimes we are faced with difficult decisions, although in your case, the end result was worth the sadness of giving up a position. You are justifiably proud of you son's accomplishments thanks i am sure to your guidance.
ReplyDeleteAlthough difficult to chose between your job and family, it's great you are able to see the benefits of stepping back from your job for a little bit. Congratulations to your son on his hard work!
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry you had to leave your job, but you should be so proud of your son and you! You are a wonderful mother! Love your flower pictures! Big Hugs!
ReplyDeleteYou have great sons! You must be proud of them all!
ReplyDeleteIt must have been difficult to leave your job, Baili, but you made an important decision for the success and well-being of your children. I admire any mother who has the opportunity to choose to stay at home and makes that choice. There is no more important responsibility than nurturing the next generation. You are seeing what a difference your close presence in your children's lives has made. That has to be very rewarding! There are seasons in our lives, and each season has its joys and challenges. Before you know it, your last son will be off to university and you will miss this precious and brief season.
ReplyDeleteI experienced deep fulfillment throughout my adult years from my being employed and knowing that I could survive on my own if I had to. I was not blessed with the gift of children of my own, so I was never torn between the needs of motherhood and the demands of my career. As an elementary teacher, I had a life full of children and the opportunity to observe all kinds of families.
I have two sisters who had children, one who worked as a lawyer in a high level and demanding series of jobs and another who worked as an elementary teacher in a difficult and demanding series of schools. My lawyer sister always worked, and my teacher sister left her job when her children went into junior high school. She returned to work after the last child was off to university. My third sister never married and has enjoyed her independent and successful life. My sister-in-law married to my one brother started working while her fourth and last child was in high school in Kuwait. The good news is that all three families' children grew up into amazing young adults. And all we "girls" have enjoyed fulfilling lives, regardless of our individual choices. There were different paths for each of the three families, but the one constant was that each child was surrounded by unconditional love and support from his or her parents and our extended family.
If you bring a child into the world, you have a fundamental responsibility to help that child grow into a happy, compassionate, independent, and educated adult. I think that requires unconditional love, a lot of time, listening, and guidance on the part of the parents, a solid moral foundation, and a framework of belonging to an extended loving family. These things provide children with the freedom to make mistakes and learn from them in a safe way, surrounded by love and people who will support them and stand up for them as they find their way. Aunts, uncles, and grandparents have also been hugely important to our next generation.
Congratulations to your hard-working young scholar. He will look back on these days and thank you (like your older son) when he realizes how right you were to guide him and his brothers and insist on his doing his best! Hugs to you!