Hey dear Friends !
Hope and pray all is good at your corner of the world . We are surprised by mild summer this year specially since August weather is pleasant and bearable and despite the exposure to sunlight is hard overall days are nice by the grace of good God !
I was unable to open blogger and my blog for few days (three i guess) as google would show a lock and content that "your connection is not private blah blah" I though it was because of bad internet that was slow since many days and our devices were unable to connect properly. The internet man visited and he checked the device and said device is okay because my phone is connecting perfectly . He left and internet started to work little bit. Though my blog and blogger were not opening . Today when my youngest son on my laptop to study he told that he has fixed the issue and i can open my blog now ,i ran to him and asked if the blogger is also opening and yes it was . I was happy for this recovery but honestly i was more happy for what my son was able to do for me .
My youngest son is different than his elder brothers and little slow in studies not because he is naive but because of the lack of interest in proper studies and that has made us little concerned abut his future . He is in 12th grade and preparing for final exams next year . Sometimes such happy surprises encourage us to think positive . I tried many times and i could not figure out what to do but he did it within some minutes this is nice indeed.
Today hubby is gone to Sukkur city for minor surgery .One of his friend (childhood friend) is accompanying him . He will stay in the hospital for one night and return tomorrow before lunch time hopefully!
I wanted to join him but he said no need because he has friend who can stay and that i have to be at home so our younger son should not miss his college or tuition .
I am missing him already with little heavy heart . I think there is no day when i don't thank my kind God that he gave me such nice human being as life partner ! Once long ago my eldest son and i were having conversation about life partner and he asked what i think of hubby. And i think my response was spontaneous ,firm and happy that He is surely among some rare and best humans on planet with his heart really kind and caring . Relationship require labor of love and he has all that care and sense of responsibility that one can wish for . What above everything else is that he is easy to live with just like a water who does not demand just nurture !
I have removed many weaknesses i had when i saw him how he handles delicate life matters with patience and sensibility!
I used to say my life has many miracle ,he is on top of all!
God bless you all! please take care and keep smiling
All the best for hubby's quick recovery!
ReplyDeleteamen thank you dear Christine
DeleteAnd good that your son fixed your computer!
ReplyDeletea happy surprise for a mother :)
DeleteI Hope your husband comes back to you quickly in good health. I am sure he must be a very nice and loving husband for you.
ReplyDeleteHugs Catherine
amen dear Catherine!
Deletehe is really sweet ,generous and loving husband thankfully!
"...delicate life matters with patience and sensibility!"
ReplyDeleteThis is truly admirable! 🎉
i think what we find most hard to forgive others specially blood relationships dear Sandi . I have seen how hubby continues to treat his family members who were unjust to us for long and for no reason at all . I don't want to speak ill of others here but whenever they need help they know who will never say no to them .i believe this is blessing that God gives on big heart and courage to do good to those who defy always
DeleteI'm glad your son was able to help with your computer. I thank him. From the way you have always spoken of your husband and the lovely glow on your face when I see pictures of you together I can see he is a special person.
ReplyDeletespecial person makes my eyes teary with gratitude dear Emma :)
Deleteit was happy surprise when i saw my youngest son fixed this for me as well :)
I hope your husband has successful surgery and recovers quickly!
ReplyDeleteIt's wonderful to read your love and praise for your husband. You are a lucky woman! I hope his surgery goes well and that he recovers quickly at home with you.
ReplyDeletewe are constantly in touch dear Debra and i think he will be home before evening hopefully!
Deletei was never miser at speaking truth about what good other have dear Debra and i think this is right thing to do .
i am indeed a really lucky woman to have him in my life .he is magnetic presence which is compelling and i think understanding and kindness is this pull that hardly let anyone out of his field
Well that's very high praise for a husband. You're a very fortunate woman to have such a great partner. However, you know that it takes two to make things really work so you are doing your part.
ReplyDeletebelieve me dear Red that i often stop myself to write more about him because it can sound weird or whatever to others but i assure you he deserves far more good words just like my mom . i have compared him to my mother so many times in my previous post because of his caring and responsible nature and specially he at the beginning of our relationship dealt with me with patience and wisdom because i was too emotional and upset most of the time due to hard environment i got in suddenly after my marriage and it made me more angry that despite all my good behavior things were troubling . Hubby was only to whom i could show my anxiety and stress .if it was not his wisdom our marriage have ended within few early years . I am feel shocked how things could have turn worst if it he would have reacted emotionally too at that time . this is why now when stormy days are gone and we are enjoying calmer season of our older life i be thankful to my kind God everyday for such blessings he bestowed upon me .
Deletei agree both attitude and behavior of both partners count for successful marriage and i am thankful that God blessed me with urge to realize what is wrong and correct my mistakes gradually .
It is wonderful that you speak postive about your husband, that is good and I do hope he gets over his operation quickly and keeps well along with you and your family.
ReplyDeleteYour youngest son will find his way in life Baili.
Take care..
thank you dear Margaret . he deserves more good words that i say actually by the grave of God!
Deletehe is home since three days now and recovering quickly by the grace of lord!
thank you for kind words dear friend Margaret !
ReplyDeletei think it will take quite amount of pages if i will start writing about hubby as he has deep dense personality rich with many beautiful virtues necessary for a successful family life .i truly am fortunate to have him in my life and i think i learnt lot from him to be a better person .i was very emotional before ,i learnt to keep balance which is essential to growth .
i am person of faith and i too hope that my younger son will do good in life eventually . he was youngest son and it is mostly my own fault to make him feel pampered and dependent in early years of his life ,it is taking long to correct my mistakes but no rush so i am trying to learn how to deal with it .what is most satisfying fact that he is a very good human being caring and helpful rest will be fine hopefully
Such sweet words for your dear husband, Baili. It makes life so much easier when we have a partner that we love and respect. I hope his surgery goes well and he is back home to you now. My youngest son took a little longer to find his way, but now he is the most successful of all four of my children. Youngest children have good negotiating skills and other virtues that they learn from their position in life. They just need a little more encouragement. Sending hugs xo K
ReplyDeletei agree dear Karen that life is easy when we can not just love our partner but also respect him as well . I think respect comes first for me because if one has humanity and goodness deserves to love truly !
Deletethis is grace of good God that he is recovering well .
wow reading about you youngest child makes me really amazed and happy my friend !
i can only imagine how it fills your heart with tranquility .i wish and pray and i am sure mine will do well as well even we are not in hurry
hugs to you too
Hi Baili, Thank you so much for your kind welcome back after my 3-month blogging break. It brings a smile to my face to read your post tonight. I love what you said, “Relationship require labor of love and he has all that care and sense of responsibility that one can wish for.” Baili, you have wisdom greater than most humans I know. 😊 You and hubby are both lucky. I hope he comes home after surgery and all is well with quick recovery. God bless you and thank you for sharing your blog! All the best to you! Hope to see you again soon on John’s Island. 😊 John
ReplyDeletei am sure your break was full of fun and peace dear John
Deleteglad you are back and we will be able to take wonderful virtual tours of Seattle .
heartfelt thanks for kind generosity ! your words honor me !
i don't know whether it is wisdom or not but i have always been most interested in relationships with family ,friends ,people and everything around and i think this is where my heart gets reason to find beauty and depth in life .i have tried my whole life to fulfil all my duties as daughter ,sister ,wife ,mother ,daughter in law ,sister in law and so on . despite i am introvert these all relationships give me joy to attend and bring smile to my soul that enlighten life truly .
with hubby everything is special ,i don't want to put my heart here but i really love him not because he is good and responsible husband but a pure human free of flaws that take away virtue and goodness from one's personality . He has neat heart and want to do good to all around him .this is such a comforting feeling for me because for me it matters most .
God bless you and lovely family tooo amen
A lovely post Baili. Very heart warming. You have a wonderful family. Good wishes to your husband in his surgery. And your youngest son will find his way. These sons absorb everything around them without us knowing, and then there will be days they will surprise us with joyful things.
ReplyDeletethank you dear Denise !
Deleteyou are really kind my friend!
hubby is feeling lot better and is having abundance of guests who are visiting him after surgery .
i wish and pray for my youngest son that may he find his path soon and take his studies more seriously amen
People have all kinds of abilities and interests, it's true! And sometimes when they have many interests, it is hard to pick just one to study. I'm so glad your son could fix your problem!
ReplyDeleteWishing your husband a speedy recovery. Your story sounds similar to mine - my good husband knew much more than I did about diplomacy and many other life skills and I learned those things from him over the years. It makes me very happy to know that you are in a warm and generous relationship!
thanks for kind sharing your heart dear friend!
Deletemany years ago (32 to 36 ) when i was denying to accept any marriage offer from families who were wealthy and well settled i had nothing in mind nothing particular . I was just waiting for confirmation bell that my heart could give but i hear none at all . But some years later when hubby (wasn't hubby then of course a cousin only whom i had met hardly during family visit just caught glimpse only few times while he was busy in reading or ironing once yes) proposed i despite refused at once but i knew at heart that he is the one for whom i can take risk of relationship because of the feeling i had felt every time i could look at him never left me. I am happy despite my refusal hubby convinced me and then my mother and we could spent life together .although there were so many hardships but what kept us at peace was that we had each other . I am thankful for life i could live with him !
i don't want to stop as once start millions of things come in mind but next time hopefully
i am eager to learn i was since i always . but what i learnt from hubby gradually through his nature and behavior is golden gift that makes my life shine little bit not just exist as human being
What a wonderful life/love story, baili. Your heart knew :)
Deletei agree with last line because i can understand "love" thing a little bit (probably) as everything is energy so are we and probably when certain kind of energy meets to it's own kind it feels attraction ,yea we can say this is the thing
DeleteSorry about your husband, I hope he is home soon. You have a lovely family and your youngest will find his way. He had two good parents to help him. Sorry about blogger too. Geeessss.... Have a nice day today.
ReplyDeletethank you dear Nichole .
ReplyDeletehubby is home and feeling better already by the grace of God!
oh yes my youngest will be figuring out what interest him most and will definitely choose his path eventually hopefully
So pleased that your son was able to help with your computer.
ReplyDeleteSending my good wishes for your husbands speedy recovery, hope he is fully recovered very soon.
My good wishes.
All the best Jan
your comment is published dear Jan .thanks for good wishes same here my friend!
DeleteMy comment seemed to disappear!!!
ReplyDeleteI hope it came through ok.
All the best Jan
Hello,
ReplyDeleteI wish your hubby a speedy recovery from his surgery. I am glad your computer could be fixed. You have a wonderful family. Best wishes, have a great week ahead.
All the best for your husband's surgery. I hope he recovers fast!
ReplyDeleteI really liked reading how you feel about your husband, Baili, as it is clear to me and I am sure many others that you have a special bond of friendship, love, caring. It was also good that your son could help with the computer issues.
ReplyDeletethank you for taking time from your buy schedule and dropping by dear Dorothy
ReplyDeletei appreciate your kind words ,i think our relationship was special since beginning which we realized in three decades gradually .this is really amazing and cozy feeling indeed .