Weather seems to surprise day day .Summer seemed to spread it's hot wings just few days back and we thought here came the blistering days of early summer season this year . Hubby sealed brought the workmen to seal the bedroom for the summers so it can secure air conditioning .We washed and put away our blankets though all warm clothing was washed and packed already two weeks back.
But suddenly weather took dramatic turn and sky our small city got slightly cloudy . There felt no chance for rain but gentle spring breeze changed into light winds and days were chilly again . We are happy to have summer paused for while (may be just few days) . Seems like it rained somewhere closer part of our country and winds brought the cooling to deliver here :)
I assume that it might seem weird that i avoid to share sad or bad news from my part of land . There are two reasons for it. One that i know that news are not limited to the people who watch t.v or Radio only but available on social media as well so news find their way to all one way or another for those who are interested.
Second is reason is that i simply follow my attitude to avoid sharing heavy pessimistic stuff with blogging friends. Because i don't want to make people 's visit to my blog burdened with things that are already so much and everywhere.
Whether it is my personal life or life of the my people of my homeland when it comes to share my heart pics positive and light to share with friends . I like to keep it this way.
As they say happy times are short and less and sad times are long and more . I don't think it is true .It only feels this way because we all want joys to live longer so no matter how long it is with us it seems natural, easy and short. But when come the sad times we take them as hardship a burden that can crush us and we want to push it away so bad that even if leaves early ,it feels it lived with us for ages.
So is that a good habit or bad to keep sad things to ourselves specially when we know that "sharing ' can disturb others ( fools at heart don't want others to bother even slightly)more than "sharing" can make us feel good ?
God Bless You All
I think terribly sad, difficult emotions should be shared but only shared deeply or repetitively with trusted friends, counsellors or people whose job it is to listen and advise.
ReplyDeleteThanks dear Debra
DeleteI think I do this sometime like I have shared my very personal emotions and trauma about close family members that have been hurting me in the past and I felt growing an urge to speak out of them to friends who may read and understand and respond if feel like it. I admit that I felt better after I shared my heart with blogging friends specially because I might have been able to share them with others around me.
Oh, it seems to be a drought in a lot of places and then suddenly one hears of floods. It's very hit or miss in the weather these days. Hopefully, you can take advantage of the good ones. Truly, it is an art making the days count. All the best to your health and adventures with your family and friends.
ReplyDeleteAs we see whole planet is suffering with horrible weather conditions because of the climate change dear Ellie. I hope science keep this issue on top of her priorities and come up with solutions suitable for all.
DeleteMy strategy about life is simple. Paying full attention to today and tomorrow leave on God
Good question whether to share sorrows. It is a balance of good news and bad maybe
ReplyDeleteBalance is best rule for everything to make it work I agree
ReplyDeleteIf we hold the joyful times close they last longer. I believe in having a good attitude and a happy face.
ReplyDeleteBeautifully said Emma
DeleteCircumstances and emotions vary in our lives time to time. But it is surely on our attitude that what we preserve and what we let go
Spring weather is very changeable. High here today is minus 7 C.
ReplyDeleteI agree Red that after long gray season spring is definitely a delightful gift by Mother nature. I hope that rumor about reduction of this most beautiful season is just a rumor
DeleteWe need to share, we are not islands, but we need to think who best to share things with.
ReplyDeleteAll the best Jan
I think in New modern living most of us are scared to share their personal thoughts and feelings with others because they are afraid of being judged.
DeleteI am a keen listener I can say. I love to hear others. It makes me feel connected and sometimes give me chance to be helpful whether through words or else.
But I hardly can Speak my own heart to them not because I am afraid of being judged or anything else but when I ask myself why sometimes I feel because of my contentment that arises from my deepest connection with my God I don't feel need to do so as One who has to know, knows already
I know this is one more weird thing about me
We are already experiencing a very nice Spring in Macau, baili.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful sunlight.
Have a blessed week
Happy spring and happy sunlight Pedro. Both are favorite
DeleteAcho que há muito equilíbrio nas notícias que partilha. Quanto ao tempo que faz, anda esquisito por todo o lado. Aqui nunca mais passa o frio.
ReplyDeleteTudo de bom.
Uma boa semana com muita saúde.
Um beijo.
yes grace i try to share what i feel like honestly
ReplyDeleteSounds like your spring is not sure of itself! Here in California , we have had tremendous rain, the mountains are deep in snow. People are trapped there until the roads are plowed.
ReplyDeleteSorry for the inconvenience caused by rough weather dear Susan
DeleteSeems rain took leave from here and arrived at your part of the land
Hope its gone soon
I think it is OK to share sorrows. I think that leads to healing and more positive feelings.
ReplyDeleteI feel I am an open person dear Cheri and reason for this is that I have nothing to hide thankfully. This makes me speak my heart spontaneously as I mentioned it in my profile intro that
ReplyDelete"I write whatever comes in my mind"
I think my habit of keeping most of the things that hurt me is because of I genuinely try to avoid talking about dark heavy stuff that can spread negativity only.
I really want to share cheerful stuff, positive thoughts and encouraging words that can uplift heart of those who visit here.
I do same in my day to day life
Though I find it less disturbing to share my sadness delivered by family members such as my own siblings and sister in law and mother in law.
I think this lighter part of the life as compared to other harsh realities
I think sorrow should be shared with a trusted friend, although those are hard to come by these days. If sorrow is kept to oneself it can leas to other emotions that can make us sick of heart and body. Get it out, give it up, let it go and heal.
ReplyDeleteSharing joy and sorrow is human nature.
ReplyDeleteGreat blooms...Nice clicks baili.