Monday, June 14, 2021

Stuff Of My Life

 

Summer is on it's peak . Heat  seems to dominate  my senses sometimes during daytime specially.When i stand to cook in my kitchen sweat bursts out of my body like fountain .My eyeglasses get wet  with sweat and i clean it many times to see through.My feverish state is failed to disappeared .A wind storm came two days ago and air seems to cool down just slightly thankfully.I am so grateful for this helpful mechanism of nature for man .For some reason It reminds me scene from some movie where criminal 's head is out into water for while during investigation and then it is taken out to let him realize that he still has chance to breath if behave. Hope my analogy did not disgust you .But summer is really playing with men ruthlessly .

I am one of those who become more alert (excited ) when challenge is before. I really like challenges that make me realize how important is self growth for people. I was really dumb (still am most probably). All i learnt to better my understanding for life is only because challenges made me do this ,otherwise i might have been busy in amusing myself with entertainment .Entertainment must be part of life if in approach but not whole life because it makes one lazy. Abundance of constant entertainment do no good to us but makes our abilities dull and rusty.

Step by step challenges confronted me in my life and made me step out of my comfort zone.It was tough and annoying in the start but when i began to accept it and looked forward to utilize my energy and time for better things i was astonished to know that real victory is not having what you want t the moment but real victory is  "winning your own will and turning it towards what really matters".

I am happy i found this secret behind actual success. Extreme heat is really challenging for me.So i am trying to survive through it with my only weapon my "will power" .Will power comes after you set your motive and your interest nurtures it strongly meanwhile.My interest in life seems larger than life itself so i am fighting my battle with highest point of my will power.

I take glass of lemon water before entering in the kitchen.It strengthens me to stay strong and pay attention for what i do .Still when i come from kitchen i feel dizzy and fainting so i take one more glass of lemon water.What a relief brings this tiny little gift from heavens is inexplicable! We are loaded with blessings by Creator from toe to top .If many lives are given us to do nothing and just pay thanks for how He has blessed us ,they will not be enough. But we the humans are ungrateful creatures mostly so always complain instead of paying gratitude!

My eldest son called yesterday.We talked for more than two hours.Hubby was absent because he went to market to fix juicer so my son kept talking until his father came back.He could talk to him for more than half hour.My son told that he has got job in London so he is starting it in next month .He said he would leave for London once visa process is completed in September probably. He said if is possible he will visit to us before leaving for London. All we can do is hope that things go smooth and world make it's way out of this pandemic so along with my son all loved one can meet each other personally ,amen!

Two of my sister in laws have got into arguments and to each party is trying to involve us as they are visiting us often with pile of complains against each other. When listen carefully there is nothing to argue about just foolishness .We tried to point out this and made them cool down thankfully.I never had any interest in family politics as i think relationships are most precious thing to nurture with love and affection instead of poisoning family environment with politics and hatter which is only result of ignorance and selfishness.Relationships beautify our life and we should grow mutual understanding by being sympathetic and learn to give other benefit of doubt and forgive .It can happen when we learn to put ourselves into other shoes when they made mistake.

Summer heat , feverish state and unaccepted family visits made my learning process little slow.But i managed to finish last hundred pages of Brain and Personality by William Hanna Thomson finally.In these pages author repeated previous analysis and concluded that If our brain is left to it he keeps repeating his mechanical way of routine learning which brings no betterment in future or ever.But if we set goals for our brain and support it with our will power it makes our brain Grow and create more capability to learn.Our interests vary and make us set targets .Our brain follow this struggle throughout the life.But once we are retired and leave our brain side by adopting no new skills our brain started to decay because it is designed to work like any other machine.So never let your interest die in anything that attracts you or even not .Just remember that   machine that is holding complete charge of your body need this business ,specially one that requires more attention from your brain. 

I have started new book Story Of You By David Eagleman and it sounds promising since i had started first page and visitors arrived .I am also listening Philosophical Essays by Bertrand Russel.But i have to repeat it mostly because of that dimness of senses brought by heat.

   


    our summer garden ,hubby  bathes the whole garden after each strike of storm, today it looked more lovely and reminded me cool days of winters when i could look at it with more clarity of my mind.

Stay blessed with undefeated Hope which grows in the fields of Faith only dear Friends!

According to law of  attraction and science our thoughts ,feelings and actions bring related results always ,we cannot skip circle that Nature has set for us ,so  stay always fill with positive energy and goodness no matter what ,everything will return to you magically sooner or later !

Blessings to all of you! see you soon!


31 comments:

  1. How exciting Baili! my oldest son works in London... it's a fabulous place to be based and I am sure your boy is going to love being there. How wonderful too that you will get to see him later in the year if travel is allowed/safe - I am so happy for you. Betty

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    1. oh this is great that your son has job in London too dear Betty
      my son hopes that he can survive this city and our heartfelt prayers are with him.
      we hope he will be able to visit us in September or in December inshallah!
      thank you so much for prays ,same for you and your son !

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  2. That is wonderful about your son! What an exciting time in his young life. Wishing him well on this journey! Blessings to you and your family.

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    1. thank you dear Martha
      yes he is on the journey and such changes are part of it ,my heart says pray for him and all like him who are struggling to create better living ,may all mothers can see the success of their children amen!

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  3. Congrats to your son on his new Job in London! Great advice on family arguments. Unfortunately it takes time for us to see the truth of this advice. When in the middle of it, it is hard to see the good advice.

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    1. so true about it is hard to figure out when we are stuck in situation but if we have gift to sort out things with ability to observe them as whole we can still do it
      ego and selfishness is biggest issue that is main source to to give rise to such problems

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  4. Dear Baili. Try placing a damp towel around your neck before you go into the kitchen. As the moisture evaporates it should help you be a little cooler. I so hope your son is able to come home for a visit. I know you miss him so very much.

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    1. thank you dear Emma for the reminder ,i do try damp scarf during i have to put up laundry to dry ,but never doing so while working in kitchen i will definitely .
      yes i miss him and he knows it too

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  5. I hope your son can visit you before moving to London for his new job! Congrats to him and I wish him much success.

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  6. What an interesting post - first off i love your garden photo - looks so beautiful there. I'm sorry that u are having to deal with such heat. Your suggestion for lemon water reminded me that I should do that also - my husband always drinks it. We are just now starting a warm up in the mountains but we won't go over 90 degrees probably which is do-able here. lots of trees and always a breeze usually where we are. Congratulations to your son for landing a job in London. Again, always enjoy reading about what you are learning and reading - and your philosophy on what keeps one learning etc.. Good for you.

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    1. you are always so generous dear Sandy !

      our temperature is between 45 to 50 Celsius here now days so it is unimaginable to survive without such drinks believe me

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  7. Many congratulations to your son, a new job in London sounds wonderful.
    I do hope he may be able to come home for a visit.

    Take care, my good wishes.

    All the best Jan

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  8. I can’t imagine the heat there, Baili. I think Emma is right about the damp towel.

    I hope your son gets home for a visit before he moves to London. Our daughter lived there for four years. It is an exciting city. We visited her several times. I hope you can visit your son there.

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    1. my son doesn't know much about London dear Marie except it is one of the most expensive city for living ,he is concerned for residence as he does not like small congested room and better apartments are very expensive ,he is looking for since long but no success yet ,let's see
      may be in far future we will be able to visit him hopefully :)

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  9. Lemon water, lemon juice, lemon squash are always essential to me.
    Have a great week

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  10. Lemon water sounds refreshing and it's important as you well know to keep the fluids up when you lose a lot of fluid due to your heat.
    Congratulations to your son getting a new job, that's wonderful news. Hopefully he may get home for a visit before he goes, fingers crossed and prayers to hoping.

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    1. oh thank you so much dear Margaret !!!!
      you are so sweet my friend!

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  11. Your garden looks wonderful :-)

    I hope you get to see your son before he moves to London.

    For him to find a cheaper option of living might be just outside London and travel to the city each day. That is what we do in England - work in the city but not live in it.

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    1. my son would love to do it working in the city but living in countryside but he has somethings in mind like gym ,swimming which might not be possible if he lives outside the city though i will share this advice from you with him surely :)

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  13. What a lovely post. Oh lemon water is the best. Have a wonderful day.

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  14. Dear Baili, you truly are a philosopher. Many of us just skim the surface of life and of the questions that arise as we journey through it. You, however, are like a deep-sea diver. You go down into the depths, seeking the treasure that is there. I so admire you.

    This sentence in your posting--" real victory is 'winning your own will and turning it towards what really matters'--speaks so clearly to me. Martin Luther Kind, Jr., wanted us to "keep our eye on the prize." and I think he was saying the same thing as you did about victory. You have so much to teach all of us. And you do that teaching with great humility and tenderness. Thank you. Peace.

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  15. Sorry to hear about the heat in your area, Baili, and cooking under such conditions is never enjoyable. It makes us miss not being able to cook outdoors. I hope the suggestions offered by others will help relieve your discomfort.

    Great news about your son's new job and so soon after you were sharing news that he had moved into a house. Hopefully the move will be a good one in terms of housing as living in cities can be costly. I hope he will be able to visit the family. Your flowers are looking beautiful.

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  16. I hope your son can stay with you for a while before his trip to London.
    Congratulation to his achievements, and good luck for his new job.

    Enjoy your Summer Reading, Baili.

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  17. Blessings to you. Your garden actually looks lovely to me.

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  18. Nem consigo imaginar, o quanto calor deve fazer por aí... o calor sempre me preocupa, aqui no Verão. Todos os anos, antes da pandemia, costumava passar os Verões quentes, na nossa casa, perto de uma praia, numa zona bastante fresca, por causa dos problemas respiratórios da minha mãe... mas como é um sítio muito frequentado em termos turísticos, em tempos de pandemia, não arrisco, por causa da saúde dela... não sei se por aqui, teremos dias de calor extremo, neste Verão... no ano passado o Verão não foi problemático... vamos a ver como decorre este Verão...
    Grata pelas suas adoráveis partilhas, Baili! Que tudo corra muito bem, com seu filho, no novo emprego... e que ele se cuide bastante em Londres. A pandemia também ainda não está completamente controlada por lá, apesar das vacinas... tal como aqui... e um pouco por todo o lado. As vacinas retiram alguma perigosidade da doença, mas não impedem ainda contágios... no momento, tenho de novo a minha mãe, mais uma temporada, em casa evitando sair... isto não está fácil, por estes lados, quando pensávamos que com as vacinas teríamos um Verão bem menos preocupante... e afinal está quase igual, ao do ano passado, quando não as tínhamos... continuamos a evitar sair ao máximo!
    Um beijinho, e votos de muita saúde, para si e todos os seus!
    Ana

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  19. The heat makes my brain sluggish too, Baili, but I have never had to face the heat and humidity you do. I hate family squabbles, and I certainly don't want to be pulled into them. It's sad when silly things drive family members apart. A friend of mine is heartbroken because two of her brothers who live on the same street aren't speaking to each other because of politics (Trump) and Covid vaccinations. She has repeatedly tried to encourage them to get together again, but so far no luck. Relationships should be more important than other things.

    I'm so proud of your son landing a job in London. I know he took a huge leap of faith to do a Masters in Germany, to leave everything that was familiar behind and go for it. That is not an easy thing to do! And now he gets to experience another new culture! You must be bursting with pride for him! 👏👏👏! 🥰

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  20. i don't know if it is age which is making heat or more cold weather unbearable dear Louise because i think summer was never pleasant here specially in this city belong to Sindh province .
    i agree that relationship should be the very first priority in life specially when it come to family and friends ,i really hope that your friend 's brother can realize this too .
    people normally feel so proud on such occasions but my hearts goes down with deep deep deep sense of gratefulness dear Louise .What my son could achieve until now seems like miracle to me to us all.i am truly stunned with kindness of my creator who keeps his promise that he will show the way who walk for right path. Success of my son is gift of my Creator to me who guide him and strengthened him with his undefeated support and led him where we could not think of otherwise!

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