I find this planet worth living because there live more than 50 % of total population "WOMEN" !
Since their childhood they display their basic instinct of " CREATION"
As little girls unlike boys they choose smooth ,weise and creative way of life (most of them)
They play with dolls (even i did ) they make houses for their little family and try to give them a "Happy Perfect Life"
when they grow up life come front of them like an obstacle . They leave their most loving and trustworthy family behind and enter into the complete unknown world which belongs to their husbands and in laws.
They try to survive in this absolutely new world through patience ,sacrifice and love.
Sometime they get lucky to have life partners which are kind and understandable .
Sometime she live with strangers who always try to let down her.
Here in east since the literacy rate has increased and media is showing lot about "rights of an individual" divorce rate has also raised .
Still it is not as much as in developed countries.
I love woman because she is one who try to MAKE ,ORGANIZE and RAISE the family .
According to the law of nature SHE IS ONE WHO BRINGS LIFE OUT OF LIFE AND MOULD IT IN HER BEST CARNATION !
SHE IS MOTHER !
CHILD COMES IN HER HAND LIKE RAW CLAY AND IT IS TOTALLY UP TO HER WHAT SHE MAKES OUT OF IT!
A perfect gentleman or an evil sick minded.
Oh my God where am i going ?
this is terrible that when i sit to give post usually (like always) i sit with BLANK HEAD , but when start typing my thoughts pull me here and there sometime (specially when i take my medications lol)
Trying to share with you some photos which i took in a wedding ceremony ,hope you guys will find them interesting
after entering the marriage hall the view was mind blowing (actually) noise and loud music
my youngest one took my photo
actually there were two weddings a sister and brother were getting married ,this bride was daughter in law of my friend who invited us ,her own daughter ( other bride)was still in beauty parlor
sorry blurred ,she wife of one of hubby's brother
chatting among ladies was making huge noise
she is hinna ,daughter of my sister in law
in black my sister in law (hubby's bro wife) was looking so good
this lady played main role in manipulating me in my early marriage years ,she wanted to marry my husband desperately ,but i have no ability to hate someone so i respond her lovingly
Finally other bride arrived and guests took breath of hope as dunner was getting so late because of her late arrival
i never went beauty parlor though i admire their skills to enhance the beauty of pretty faces
group of men came to get bride's signatures on marriage certificate
Finally i managed to capture her waving among crowed
this is love plus arrange marriage ,he was his classmate and boyfriend .though i did not see any groom as men's side was parted with huge curtain .
These both pics are from other wedding in my relatives ,simply and traditionally it was done when i arrived .guests were leaving after lunch . Bride's name is saba and boy is raja,both are cousins
she was looking pretty in her bridal dress
Okay lovely people time to evening pray ! and than tea, my fever is leaving slowly but flu is in touch .
Please stay RAISED AND unshaken 1
God Bless You All!!!
She is a beautiful bride! I hope you get well soon! I myself is coughing after my holiday!
ReplyDeleteWonderful, beautiful women make this world a better place. I love my partner but my women friends hold my heart in a way that makes me feel grounded and understood.
ReplyDeleteGorgeous pictures Baili....thank you for sharing your special women.
your country do weddings so beautifully!! I enjoyed this so much,,
ReplyDeleteBeautiful brides, guests and outfits! You look beautiful too and it must have been challenging to socialise with a rival in love! Thank you for sharing such a special event.
ReplyDeleteI LOVE how your mind works in your posts! :) Beautiful ladies, you included! :) Women make this world a gentler place (for the most part!) :))
ReplyDeleteWhat a fascinating and beautiful post, dearest Baili!
ReplyDeleteYou all look like queens and princesses (well, except the manipulating lady ;)), I would love to wear clothes like that sometimes.
Your post raises many thoughts. I live in a less traditional society than you, here the roles of women and men are not so distant from each other. Every society, however, works well if is formed by good and attentive people.
Hope you get well soon! Hugs!
Lovely pictures of happy events. I think it is wonderful that you are confident enough to share your thoughts in your posts. It gives me an understanding of your way of life which is different than mine. I am sure too that it helps you organize your feelings.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful photos Baili. The woman in all cultures is the one who educates in the family. I wish brides a lot of happiness and luck in their new life. Cute dresses !!
ReplyDeleteGood tuesday.
Besos..
Beautiful photos of the weddings, Baili. I hope your health continues to improve.
ReplyDeleteDear Baili - it was wonderful seeing photos from this lovely wedding. So glad you share your thoughts too...gives glimpse into how life operates in your country. Have a beautiful day. Hugs!
ReplyDeleteWonderful pictures. The clothing is amazing. It is so different from what women wear to weddings in the United States.
ReplyDeleteHave a great week!
Thanks for sharing this beautiful wedding with everyone in their finery!
ReplyDeleteWoman do soften the world, Baili. Hopefully more and more of them will get into powerful positions over time.
ReplyDeleteThese are such nice images. The ladies look beautiful in their lovely clothing, which is so wonderfully vibrant and colourful!
You look lovely in the photo of you :)
ReplyDeleteRed is the colour of the bride and 'bling' as I call it - very lovely.
Thanks for sharing the photos--there are so many beautiful, colorful outfits!
ReplyDeleteMy cousin married an Indian woman who is studying here in the United States, and they celebrated with a traditional wedding in India. It was so neat to see the photos!
It takes strength to raise children with their long-term welfare in mind. The days go slowly but every day we must keep the goal in mind.
ReplyDeleteWhat beautiful women - all of you.
I do hope you start feeling better soon, baili. It worries me that your fever is not going away. Take care of yourself!
More than 50% of the World population is female.
ReplyDeleteSo why are women so direspected??
Have a great week
What a beautiful wedding, Baili. Indeed, there is such comfort in the company of women.
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xo
Fotografias de casamento. Espero que a felicidade ande sempre por aÃ. Gostei do seu texto, com especial atenção ao papel das mulheres para tornarem este mundo menos sombrio.
ReplyDeleteUma boa semana.
Um beijo.
Dear Baili, thank you for sharing the weddings experience with us even in your ill state with the flu. I do hope you feel much better very soon and can get out and enjoy your garden and many other beautiful things.
ReplyDeleteSuch beautiful wedding pictures. Thank you! Women are, indeed, marvelous. I wish you better health.
ReplyDeleteHow lovely to see these wedding photographs, such a wonderful time.
ReplyDeleteI do hope you start feeling better soon, sending my good wishes.
All the best Jan
Dear Baili ..I’m sorry to hear that you have the flu ..Please take care.... Thank You for sharing all these lovely Wedding pictures.... It is always enlightening to learn from one another and that is what women do best ... ...It's so wonderful that you express yourself so freely and share your culture with everyone... It is also encouraging that not all marriages are arranged .. some are already attracted to one another as boyfriend and girlfriend( she looked so pretty and happy ) ... The wedding dresses are gorgeous... and very exotic... Such a wonderful glimpse into your world... Thank YOU ... Get well soon ...HUGS
ReplyDeletewow, this was wonderful to see - I love and wish we here in America - had clothing like in your country . Love the colorful dresses and the bride how beautiful. Really enjoyed this and your thoughts on women.
ReplyDeleteDearest Baili...my heart-felt thanks for sharing these beautiful photos - and, of course, your thoughts.
ReplyDeleteYou have taught me that East and West aren't really that different from each other.
I feel very much as you have described...and I do so hope I have been a reasonably good wife and mother.
Well, I have tried hard, and I guess that is all anyone can do really, isn't it?
What I would really have liked to be different in my life, would have been to have other females around me. I live in an all-male family (my one daughter died very young), so my voice is often lost somewhere in the ether!
Still, I have been fortunate...I have never been beaten or abused. The men in my family can be a bit dismissive of me as a woman...but they have always been kind.:)
Oh I do so hope you feel better soon.
I am sending healing thoughts and prayers your way...:))
Lots of Love & Hugs xoxoxo
Hello Baili, I hope that you are feeling better very soon. My husband was also sick all week with sinus congestion and a bacterial infection and thankfully did not share them with me. The wedding as a very beautiful event with all the dolors and fine clothes. Thank you for sharing these images as it is so interesting to see how other cultures and countries celebrate special times. My 2 nieces are both getting married this year.
ReplyDeleteLove your post, and talk about empowering women! and the wedding is absolutely beautiful - thanks for sharing with us.
ReplyDeleteBlessing!
Such a beautiful post! Gorgeous pictures!! Thank you for sharing them!! You are such a loving and caring person Baili!! I'm thankful I met you in blog land! Big Hugs!
ReplyDeleteI hope you feel better soon!
ReplyDeleteHer red dress is BEAUTIFUL!
ReplyDeleteI like that you respond lovingly to the woman who tried to cause you problems. You are free. :)
Beautiful brides, I love a wedding.
ReplyDeleteBoth brides looked beautiful, Baili! So did you!! I love the beautiful gowns, the vibrant colors, the opportunity to see weddings in a different culture. I laughed when I read, " chatting among ladies was making huge noise." Women around the world love to get together and talk, talk, talk!
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