This is the topic upon which i thought over and over throughout my life . I born in area where the society is male dominated though , but in totality when i contemplate on the situations that women encounter all over the world
i think the whole world is MALE DOMINATED .
No matter how advanced the countries are and how modern the appearances have become it does not change the attitude of men towards women.
I am not saying that each man is Dog (sorry mr Dogs, if i insulted you) but most of them behave like them .When they look at woman their eyes seem to get wider and tongues drops on the floor like carpet under the feet of women .In rural areas you can see the symptoms CLEARLY but in Modern areas dogs i mean men are expert to hide their thrill .
Reason is so simple because men who act like this " loose control over their brains ( poor shameless creatures) and start thinking through their specific bundle of organs" instead of brain.
Physical hungers are alike to stomach hunger and is from basic human instinct but how weird that " if the Civilized looking people when feel hungry they hesitate to ask for sandwich from others or don't push themselves to snatch food from the lunch box of anyone else " .
They control their hunger and behave like good civilized people so people around them can keep respecting them.
How shameful that such well educated and finely appeared men behave like hungry wild animals when they find women front of them . Their all other senses go off!, except one "the desperation to release their water in pots which are not their's .
In my head this question arises with power that
WHY THIS HAPPEN IN MODERN COUNTRIES WHEN THEIR PEOPLE HAVE FREEDOM OF CHOICES?
THERE ARE SHOPS OF "STRESS RELEASING ORGANS TOO.
THERE IS EXPOSURE OF FEMALE PARTNERS AVAILABLE .
Then what make men to Harass or rape woman ?
First psychological reason can be that ,
" Because they know that victim is physically easy to overcome " this is what make them feel free to try.
Second reason can be ,
"they know that mostly there is no chance for punishment either "
Over the centuries women are being beaten ,burnt ,murdered and raped by such sick men but there are rare examples of women when women striked back and fought for her honour .When victims were successful in giving criminals proper punishment through law or by themselves.
In my country Pakistan Mukhtar Mai is great example of courage and bravery .
Main problem starts with " fear" that is injected in the blood of eastern women for men outside , fear is good it keeps us save most of the time but what about when it cannot?
Women must be given physical trainings as part of their studies on serious bases .There must be a separate subject for women from early stage of education to make her grow with awareness ,will power and self confidence ,
No menly government will do this because most of the rapist sit on those powerful seats and set free their followers to exploit weaker part of the population the way they want.
Women need to do this by on their own ,by connecting with each other and by founding some kind of foundation which must work for this purpose constantly .Constant falling of water drop makes hole in stone so i am sure that such regular efforts will bring positive consequences for future women.
May be this sound small and raw idea but focusing on small issues we can solve huge problems ,Each unique and huge idea sounds crazy and useless to common heads but history reveals that they brought revolutionary changes on the map of world later.
Women of this World must recognize these weak points and must work on them to make their strongest point.
Woman has ability to give birth to a man so she can turn him into a harmless social animal for sure by being a Good mother first of all .
By educating their boys that how they must treat women ,to treat women respectfully they must have respectful attitude for women and only mothers can make this happen.
Mostly we are made to think that women is not targeted if she is between the walls or she hide herself in cover while going out .Men have different ways to harass women . They harass women with cover secretly and women with bold look openly .
It does not matter how Modest she is.
It does not matter how bold she is .
What matter is " the way man look at her " to him she is only a "flesh" to attack on ".
there are numerous cases where daughters and sisters were sexually abused by their own brothers ,fathers ,father in laws ,uncles or cousins .
Almost two years back a newly married girl from neighborhood came to me. She was crying so badly and asked me to ask my husband to convince her husband to get her a separate house because her father in law was abusing her sexually .Even he removed the lock of her room's door and she was not able to sleep out of fear and terror .
That man is 77 or even more and his impression is of a very religious man who made his son divorced his first wife just because she was not covering her head properly (actually she was not allowing that bastard to get her pants off) as she was bold and daring to raise her voice against him and got divorce within three months. Second wife his son is (who came to me) an orphan and shy .whom he thought easy target .
I told her that no one can help her until she will ,i convinced her to tell everything to her husband loud and clear and protest against her father in law's dirty acts ,she did and finally today she is living peacefully in upper story of house.
This is also a fact that there are bunch of women who are easy to approach and keep tag on of "available" It increases the wildness of wiled dogs . But if they consider themselves man not dog then they should know that "man has self respect" which saves him from being disgrace like this.
If they have "self respect" they will turn their head even from the naked woman who stand in front of them with offer.
Selfrespect differentiate man from animals .Animal act according to their natural instincts but man is meant to be well esteemed ,well behaved and modified in skills of his presence in society There must be difference between both though!
My precious friends today's post is dedicated to protesters of America against Harvey Weinstein of hollywood .
Please take great care .
Believe that you are strongest and you will be because our thoughts make us what we are today.
God Bless You All!!!
