Friday, March 22, 2024

A Good Story Of Bad Incident

 

I know it's  quite an early post as i usually post once in a week not because i want to but because lack of time .The most of noon times are spent in kitchen actually .And than condition of power presence is must during my spare times. 

I want to mention that i try to keep my blog posts positive because this is my way to look at things . I believe that it is not overlooking the problem but just keeping this in mind that world needs addition of positive things and energy rather than spreading dullness .But if something is worth sharing i can't resist sharing it with friends because your encouraging comments heal my heart!

This way of keeping grave things to myself is my old habit as i mentioned few times that if i was hurt i would not make sound but bear it silently . Same is with my blogging world so sharing mostly positive things must not be taken as i don't trust my friends . There are many things honestly waiting for to share until i get strength to do so.

In short while fighting the battle of life we all try to keep smiling and cheering up each other as it is true spirit of humanity in my opinion. 

Reason to this explanation is that i shared a video in my previous post that had some controversial note at it's last some minutes and i wasn't aware of it because i decided to share it when it reached to it's quarter part almost. The rest part i watched after publishing my post and regretted it afterwards because i avoid such topics on my blog. 

My motive is to share my personal experiences and my constant struggle for growing into a better human being mentally ,physically and spiritually. Sharing links of videos with similar topic is only to convey my thoughts to my friends more accurately.

Now a very positive incident that took place when we were traveling to another city to attend one of recent wedding events . There were two cars and one huge van full of family members .I prefer to sit on van where all the women of family sit and more chance for get together is available . We were returning after attending event though ladies were fully charge and were singing and clapping enthusiastically. It was 8:40 or so and full dark night has been settled. The views of outside dimmed completely so my focus to celebration deepened .  One of my niece was sitting near van door. After crossing the long bridge van ran over some kind of bumper or what that door of the van opened suddenly . The girl was saved to fall down miraculously but her purse fell down . She did not realize it because she was yelling at her brothers and cousins that how could this happen etc . Van advanced more and then the girl realized that her bag has fallen probably when door opened . Now she started to shout "stop ,my purse has been fallen" it took while to people in the van understand the intensity of the incident . Her uncle the groom's father asked driver to stop and all boys got down from front seat including uncle . At first all tried to convince her that she must forget about bag because it was heavy traffic on the bridge and many people walking around so her bag might have been taken away by any of them. But the girl started to cry and shout louder. She said her new phone is in the bag and handful of money so they should go and check or let her go to find it.The tie wasted in argument raised the possibility of loosing the purse . All of the bros and cousins including uncle went and searched the purse for 20 minutes .I was looking at watch because i had no food there and wanted to reach home before gas leaves( our gas comes on times so we have to cook meanwhile) .They returned empty hands and tried to make her agree to leave without purse . But she insisted they should go and check again. They went and came back without her bag again. When she was sobbing and people were settling in van to leave the phone of her uncle rang ,he picked up and had 2 minutes chat with man who called from the phone of my niece and informed that he has picked up the purse from bridge and now sitting in a roadside hotel if you can come and pick up you bag. It was grand united sound of relief in the van .They go and returned with bag after 20 minute or so again. The good gesture of that kind man touched my heart as much that i felt i wasn't hungry anymore still van driver flew the van like jet on return and we were home before 10pm ,I did not have to make my dinner because it was made by hubby already .I just ate it gratefully while telling this very nice story of bit bad incident!

I love how God keep us informed that world still bear some really fine souls! God bless that man amen!

Few glimpse below that cheer me up always !









          Health Peace and Happiness to all of you friends!

34 comments:

  1. So great that the story had a happy ending. Although, I know enduring it must have been painstaking..especially, when you have such a set schedule. So glad your husband could cook dinner, too. It sounded like such a joyous occasion before the incident. I am glad you are so close knitted. It reminds me of the days near my hometown. After I finished high school I worked in a factory one summer and I met different city folks. Although, my mother was not impressed. Still, they became a family to me and they did take good care of each other with the struggles one faced.

    Thanks so much for your story. I so love these flowers, too. Hope you have a wonderful weekend. Thanks for being here.

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    1. thank you so much for the generosity dear Ellie
      even though my life has such many incidents when God turned goodness towards me through pondering and kind hearts who don't lack wisdom and foresightedness :)
      being a person who has similar mindset i truly feel happy to encounter with such souls.
      hubby used to cook a lot when kids were young and i had much to do actually .then he fell ill because of all the headache of running back and forth during our house construction and doctor forbad him to expose to heat .still he does me a favor when there is no other option and thankfully he is fully recovered now as well by the grace of God!
      i loved how you liked being around your relatives Ellie . I wasn't like this at my youth or you can say till my late 30s.but then my parents passed away and my desire to feel close to them it was easy option to do things they loved mom particularly or meet family whom they had been meeting throughout the life .it was and is comforting and healing to listen about them from various family members .
      i think you have a kindred soul who find peace in connection with all and whole around ,family is best way to it indeed. as they say nothing exists alone in the nature and everything is connected to other to form a perfect pattern in which we all are fit .to feel the joy of one's life there is only one way to me and it is "sharing" simply :)

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  2. What a nice story! It's good to know there are people who do the right thing.

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    1. precious friend Kathy if we see carefully everything existing within universe provides perfect balance and harmony and only this uniformity is the reason behind the existence of life and universe here .
      looking at the earth from above we see how it is covered with both equally light and the darkness . this is an example of bigger level but if see on the fundamental level each cell of our body has both charges negative and positive so we can conclude so easily that we have God and Evil both inside us .It is totally upon our free will which side we lean over .i see mysterious hands of God working behind the scene and keeping the balance between both forces and this is really his Grace upon his people !

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  3. What a great ending, I couldn’t imagine how the bag could be recovered in such a situation and then, there it was. There are good people in this world. Thank you for the reminder, Baili.

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    1. i agree dear Marie that it seems impossible that someone can return such thing specially when circumstances (inflation during two past years is crushing the public) aren't allowing him or her to listen to the conscience .
      still we read or hear such things often in our under developing country because the one's sense of right and wrong has nothing to do with circumstance at all but it is an innate quality and irresistible to follow .And in the world of God ,He knows how to keep balance between good and bad as the pattern of existence demands here

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  4. Yes stay positive. The flowers in your conclusion are a good ending for being positive. Life is a journey. We can make it a happy journey.

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    1. staying positive helps to stay on things that can be done dear Red rather than worrying about stuff beyond our control . we can add goodness to this place called in two way first we try to save it from our personal mess that we often do spontaneously only in desire ti fit in
      secondly spread our goodness and kindness to all around us ,that is what nature want from his creatures called human as they are given higher place among other species as they share "light" of God to beautify this world and support each other as humans only

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  5. What a wonderful story! That man was very kind. I was happily surprised to hear he returned it! WOW. There is hope for us yet. 😃

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    1. so true dear Sandi ,Through such signs God show us that there is and will be hope for humanity until he decides to wind up his plan .He indeed has ways to make everything happen in order to fulfill his commands because he is Creator of this universe or so many others like it

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  6. I loved the story that you shared about the man who found the girl's lost purse. There are many good people in the world, and we rarely hear about their goodness. I love the motive behind your blog: "My motive is to share my personal experiences and my constant struggle for growing into a better human being mentally ,physically and spiritually." You are succeeding in your journey, Baili! The flowers are lovely. All of them grew in the gardens of my aunts and grandmothers. Keep putting positivity, kindness, and beauty out into the world, Baili! Hugs and love to you!

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    1. thanks for uplifting words always precious friend Louise !
      true that we hear about "goodness " far less than bad things happening in this world .lack of insight and desire for enthralling others and lust of fame make people do such stuff and they jump an hurry to share about bad they witnessed in other people .
      i often receive such comment that why don't you see how bad certain people or person were to you " but as i said i don't have to put any effort to do good to all around me . it feels like it was my reason for which i was sent on planet ,to love and support others whether it is close family or others .it makes me at peace when i try to show how much good they have in them and how that good can uplift their life . when i try to think why this is necessary only one thought comes in my mind that God has made us all unique ,some perfect ,some need help to be one .there are more who want to make others fall .so there must also be a group who support God's men and help them to feel strong and see how much they have to better their life .i am part of this later plan probably .no other explanation comes in mind honestly otherwise why would someone put so much time and effort to support others selflessly

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  7. Thank you for sharing this story ...
    Thank you too for the beautiful blooms in your photographs.

    All the best Jan

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    1. thanks for sharing your likening dear Jan

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  8. I agree with your philosophy of life. The story you told of your niece's purse is a wonderful testimony that there are still many good people in the world and that God is a God who provides. I enjoyed your beautiful flowers too. God bless!

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  9. Oh my Baili, the thought of losing ones purse and then have it found plus that your husband had cook dinner, how wonderful...the person who found the purse, what a sweet kind soul.

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    1. life is bundle of flowers and thrones dear Margaret :)

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  10. Hi Baili, This post is a heartwarming narrative that beautifully illustrates the essence of positivity and human kindness in the face of unexpected challenges. I admire how you've chosen to share moments of joy and positivity, reinforcing the idea that even in difficult times, there are always glimpses of hope and goodness to be found. Your commitment to focusing on the brighter side of life, despite the complexities and occasional setbacks, is truly inspiring. John

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  11. thanks for the encouraging words always dear John !
    to be honest there is no other way to survive through the world full of obstacles ,if one finds a hurdle on his way it will be inappropriate to stare it with cowardice and despair or keep asking for helps to others .i think a better way is to find a way to remove it or develop a skill to cross it .good thing about positivity is that it helps us to follow the later option and continue to move further because there is no other way to grow further except having positive attitude

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  12. Your happy attitude is a blessing in life, for yourself and for everyone around you. Oh my goodness, thank you so much for telling what happened.How wonderful the kind man found the purse. Such honesty and kindness is very uplifting. A happy ending! Fantastic and so very pleased for you all. Your flowers are a delight! Many blessings to you and your dear family, and have a very happy week ::)

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    1. thank you for kind comment dear Denise !
      it is our attitude that build or destroy our life otherwise most of us have similar life and stuff .what decides what use we gonna make of it shapes our destiny .
      my belief is that the life i have is gift given by Divine and so is everything about it. so whatever is in my part i must be make best use of it . It will be my effort to show gratitude and exist harmlessly .rest i leave on God .
      the good deed that did will find it's way back to him someday because this is how things work within nature .
      many blessings to you and loved ones!

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  13. Never keep what doesn't belong to you.
    I have learnt that lesson and passed it to my daughters.
    Have a great week

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  14. a wise man never repeat his mistake dear Pedro
    your daughters are fortunate to learn a good lesson from their parents

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  15. Uma história bem contada, com um final feliz. Gosto destes seus textos positivos. Para negativo já basta o que se passa no mundo.
    Uma boa semana.
    Um beijo.

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    1. true that whatever is happening in the world is enough to break our hearts dear Grace . focusing on positive give us strength to move further

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  16. I'm so sorry for the difficult incident with the girl losing her purse, but so very thankful that it was found, and that you didn't have to delay any longer! How sweet of your husband to have dinner ready for you! I agree, I don't share much personally on the blog, but try to keep it positive - there are always things in our lives that are hard to deal with, but with the Lord's help, we can do it! I always appreciate your outlook - and like you, my flowers bring me such joy. We are looking forward to spring blooms here very soon! Blessings to you :)

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    1. thanks dear Marilyn for dropping by and sweet words !
      how true that no matter how we differ on various levels( geological ,economical etc)from each other the pattern of our life is same on broader scale ,we all have to go through so many unwanted issues throughout the life when at the same time life is offering us many joys . it is on us upon which we focus more and choose to share with others . i am not against sharing issues of my life but i believe first i have to learn how to face and resolve them .then it will definitely have positive note and worth sharing
      blessings to you too friend

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  17. A lovely uplifting story.

    The end of the video in your last post may have been a little political. But the message shared is supposed to be positive and uplifting. We are all one and the same and we should focus on that so we can break the perpetual cycle of conflicts with others.

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    1. thank you for encouragement dear Cheri !
      i fully agree that to physical sight we may seem separated , shelled in different bodies but if see or ponder carefully with soul 's insight we actually are tip of whole divine consciousness . When harmony between physical and spiritual worlds is disrupted the signs of disease appear whether it belongs to soul or to a body . the more we are positive and connected the better is life on our planet

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  18. Hello, Baili, your story about the lost purse reminds us that this world is filled with little, nameless act of love and kindness. That’s why we can keep going positively despite all the worrying events around. If you didn’t share this story with us, it would have been unremembered. Incidentally, I’m proud of this; lost items (wallet, cell phone, etc.) are almost returned to owners in Japan.
    The summer-like your garden looks cheerful and comforting. I’ll be enjoying full arrival of spring in a week or so after the unusually cold March. Take care.
    Yoko

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    1. thank you dear Yoko for kind words
      i agree that nature has her own ways to make this world work .
      despite the bad things happening in the world are highlighted most that effects collective mind of the people negatively .Nature keep us updated how kind and generous people withered in the world spreading their light amidst of this darkness .
      this is great that most of lost stuff is returned to owner in your part of the land. even though our country is considered poor or middle class probably we always have been reading or listening such stories from various sources that show that poverty is not the reason for keeping other's things but the greed is and not everyone here is greedy by the grace of God !

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  19. I appreciate that you always try to share positive things in your posts, Baili, as that is not always the case with other bloggers. The world, unfortunately, is filled with so many sad stories of people who do not do the right thing every day and so this story as a good example that there are those who do. I can well imagine your niece being so upset at the loss of her purse and its contents. If the same or something similar happened to me I would feel much the same. It was uplifting to read that the man who found the items did contact her and that can really restore one's faith in the goodness of people because I do believe there are many more kind people then not.

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  20. your last line is precious dear Dorothy!
    i too believe that in the world of God there are more peace and goodness loving people than those who have negative approach .
    i have lost my hand bags two to three times in my life ,once the purse was stolen instantly by woman standing behind me in a row when i put the bag on counter while waiting for medicine and fixing my shawl .
    second i forgot it in the bus after my marriage ,i can relate how bad it feels specially when one is far way from home and has no money for ride .

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  21. You are such a positive, wonderful woman. I love reading what you have to say. I think there are more kind people around than we think. The world highlights the bad and so our minds go there first. I really love the photos of the flowers.

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