Saturday, February 15, 2020

Love Is Meaning Of Life!

When  i  was  little  i  did not  know  about  love . All  i knew that i  had  parents  who  loved  me and  protected  me ,specially  mother who  kept  us under  her  wings  during  all  storms  she  had  to face ,otherwise  our  lives  would  have  totally  different  with  probability  of less  pleasant.

My  father  was  opposite   to  mom .He  was delicate  person  who  had  some  confusions  that followed  him  throughout  his  life .Still  he  managed  to  keep  in  touch   with  his  family  and  for  this i  am  thankful to  him. Thankful  for  all  precious  memories  he  left with  me  s  daughter.

When  i  grew  up as  young  person  formal definition  of "love" was  beyond  my  comprehension  of  love which  appreciated  girls  of  my  age then . My  self  pity which  was  result of  weak  relationships  in my life (father ,brother) unconsciously kept  me  angry  not  just  myself  but  to  all  i had  around me .

Despite  of  my  inability  to  realize  what  love  of  young  age  is,  i felt  i  had  ocean  of  love and  sense  of  responsibility  not  just  for  my  own  family  but  for  others  to  whom  i  was  even  unknown .May  be  i  still  cannot  understand  that  love  which  i  used  to  hold  inside  me ,could  be  my  own  need  of  love which  i  wanted  to  give  all, until now.Or  may  be  i  was  made  to  spread  love  because  when  i  look  back  i  can  see how  i  was  accepted   and  loved  back  for  this  quality  during  various  runs of life.

If  i  had  not  written  diaries  since  my  childhood  i  could have  not  known  that  there  existed  a connection  between  me  and Creator  unknowingly  since  i  got  into  my  senses. Which  i  absorbed  through  phenomena  of  nature  i  had  around  me  then. Now  when  i  try  to  dig  what  keeps  me as  foolishly  optimistic  i  find  only  memories   of those  accidents  from  which  i  was  protected  miraculously  so many  times.And those empowered  my  faith gradually.

I feel  i  had  never  tried  to  find  truth  or  Lord consciously . He  himself  made  me  realize  his  existence  with  his  presence  that  he  proved  when  it  was  needed  badly! So   my  faith  or  love  of  Creator  is  based  upon serenity conceived by  things  that  have happened already , not  on  hopes   or  dreams  i  have  for  future . 

Thinking  about"  love " takes me  above  and  when  i  take  a  look  at this  universe  or  globe  i  find  it  as

In  this  life  you  will  find  everything  which  is  formed  when  it  has  joined  other .No  single  object  can  achieve  


So  we  can  say LOVE  MEANS  BONDING OR  INFUSION  which  provides  base  for  LITERALLY  EVERYTHING !

In  human  body  SOUL  IS  PROOF  OF  LOVE , 

Scientifically  it  manifests  itself  in  our  right  side  of the  brain  which  enable  us  to " FEEL  "  or " CREATE  " (my  opinion) Both  abilities  lead  us  to  form  relationship  with  others  and  to  understand  complexities  of their "being".

Actually  Creator  has  given  us  "REASON" and "LOGIC" both  to   live  in  healthy  balanced  way. People  who  don't  have  ability  to   "LOVE" 
 For  them  there is  "REASON " to   do  so.
Not  just "  Loving " but  Reasonable  people  also  ,make  family and  socialize  because  they  find  it necessary  for  their  accessibility  within  society . Love  associate  both  ways  whether  "self love " or " love of others"

Difference  between  both  (to me) is that love  of  others is very  first  step  towards love  of  our Creator or origin! 

Balance  between  both" reasonable love " and " logical  love"  provides  healthy  peaceful  life  on  planet.  

To  me love  is  "meaning  for  breathing" if there is no love in life there is no life only living without soul.

Love  is  beauty of life and world we all know. And to keep both beautiful we need to keep have it and share it unconditionally !

Love you all!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Happy Valentines day to you my friends!


  1. Beautiful, Baili. "...unknown God" but you do know God, don't you... "This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us..." 1 John 4:10... I love to read your posts. Kindness and love, these were given to you as gifts. Why. Why you, but not someone else we meet. It is personal. A gift to you. 😊 It is beautiful and so are you. God bless you.

  2. I was not proud of this gift always specially in younger stage of my life dear Sandi

    I was puzzled and embarrassed instead specially when despite of others rudeness would still feel no aggression but would feel ready to help if they need
    I found peace with elderly people when i would serve them it was moment i would feel id something that i meant to be
    It took ages to discover that i was chosen and believe me ia still in awe!

  3. Happy Valentines Day!

    What you wrote got me to thinking about worry about people who do not seem to have any strong human connections in life. I guess that I typically think about those folks around Valentines Day.

    1. my eldest talks about people who mostly prefer to live alone and don't tend to form connections or relationships or one can say they avoid to make commitment

      i am not insightful enough to have opinion for such folks ,still i think they miss true pleasures of the life ,but again i think may everyone has different definition for "pleasure "

  4. This was such a powerful post on Love, Baili, and I will confess that I had not thought about it in the way you described. I also know that my parents loved me, although after my young childhood years, it was not shown the same way as to a very young child. Knowing what I do now, I wish there was some way to show them how much I love them. Now in adulthood, I always try to let others in my life - husband, family, friends - know how much I love and appreciate them being in my life.

  5. Yes, "love makes the world go around," as they say! Happy Valentines Day to you!

  6. Hope you had a wonderful Valentine’s Day, Baili.

  7. "Love is meaning for breathing." That is my favorite line in this post. This rings so true to me. Where would we all be if it were not for love. Happy Valentine's Day, Baili.

  8. I hope your Valentine's Day was lovely! Thanks for all your share!

  9. Lovely.
    Trust you had a lovely Valentine's Day.

  10. I hope you had a wonderful Valentine's! Love is what the world needs more of.

  11. Que o amor se revele para si em todas as suas faces. Gostei do texto. e dos pensamentos sobre o amor.
    Uma boa semana.
    Um beijo.

  12. It seems that some folks need connections more than others, and some less than others - there are all kinds of people in the world! In my extended family there have been those who have lived useful and happy lives even though they had few connections with the outside world. They seemed to enjoy being totally alone. I don't know where I'm going with this, just thinking out loud, I guess :)

    1. lucky to hear your thoughts dear Jenny :)

      i agree there are so many people with diversity of nature ,an individual means a lone brain with unique opinion
      i believe in respecting all kind of opinions ,i think we all should be allow and respect to live by our own thoughts which shape our own observations and experiences :)

  13. A powerful post.
    I hope that you continue to receive the love you so generously spread.

  14. A powerful post Baili, I hope you had a wonderful Valentine’s Day.

    All the best Jan

  15. Dearest are such a beautiful and loving Soul and, although you have had to face many challenges throughout your life, you have never lost that inner strength and faith. I am SO in awe of you.
    You are indeed a shining example to us all 😊😊

    Have a wonderful day!

    All my love and hugs ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  16. Great contemplation about love and its related to the Creator!
    Have a lovely day, Baili!

  17. Faith in a God who loves us is peaceful.

  18. Love is that iron chain that binds everybody in a positive way. Nicely thought and written,Baily.

  19. Love is that iron chain that binds everybody in a positive way. Nicely thought and written,Baily.

  20. Love is one of the greatest gifts of all, dear Baili. I think you are capable of always loving and forgiving because you are a special person.

    I thought I'd share one of my favorite verses........

    For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life. John 3:16.

    Always love, dear Baili. It the thing that makes us whole. : )


  21. I love your post on LOVE

    'Love' is the key to everything. When we knock with love in our heart the door will be opened to us xx


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