When i was little i did not know about love . All i knew that i had parents who loved me and protected me ,specially mother who kept us under her wings during all storms she had to face ,otherwise our lives would have totally different with probability of less pleasant.
My father was opposite to mom .He was delicate person who had some confusions that followed him throughout his life .Still he managed to keep in touch with his family and for this i am thankful to him. Thankful for all precious memories he left with me s daughter.
When i grew up as young person formal definition of "love" was beyond my comprehension of love which appreciated girls of my age then . My self pity which was result of weak relationships in my life (father ,brother) unconsciously kept me angry not just myself but to all i had around me .
Despite of my inability to realize what love of young age is, i felt i had ocean of love and sense of responsibility not just for my own family but for others to whom i was even unknown .May be i still cannot understand that love which i used to hold inside me ,could be my own need of love which i wanted to give all, until now.Or may be i was made to spread love because when i look back i can see how i was accepted and loved back for this quality during various runs of life.
If i had not written diaries since my childhood i could have not known that there existed a connection between me and Creator unknowingly since i got into my senses. Which i absorbed through phenomena of nature i had around me then. Now when i try to dig what keeps me as foolishly optimistic i find only memories of those accidents from which i was protected miraculously so many times.And those empowered my faith gradually.
Thinking about" love " takes me above and when i take a look at this universe or globe i find it as
"LIVING PROOF OF LOVE"
In this life you will find everything which is formed when it has joined other .No single object can achieve
"STATE OF BEING " SOMETHING"
UNTIL IT IS MIXED WITH ANOTHER "and took form to gain SOME MEANINGFULNESS!
So we can say LOVE MEANS BONDING OR INFUSION which provides base for LITERALLY EVERYTHING !
In human body SOUL IS PROOF OF LOVE ,
Scientifically it manifests itself in our right side of the brain which enable us to " FEEL " or " CREATE " (my opinion) Both abilities lead us to form relationship with others and to understand complexities of their "being".
Actually Creator has given us "REASON" and "LOGIC" both to live in healthy balanced way. People who don't have ability to "LOVE"
For them there is "REASON " to do so.
Not just " Loving " but Reasonable people also ,make family and socialize because they find it necessary for their accessibility within society . Love associate both ways whether "self love " or " love of others"
Difference between both (to me) is that love of others is very first step towards love of our Creator or origin!
Balance between both" reasonable love " and " logical love" provides healthy peaceful life on planet.
To me love is "meaning for breathing" if there is no love in life there is no life only living without soul.
Love is beauty of life and world we all know. And to keep both beautiful we need to keep have it and share it unconditionally !
Love you all!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Happy Valentines day to you my friends!
Beautiful, Baili. "...unknown God" but you do know God, don't you... "This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us..." 1 John 4:10... I love to read your posts. Kindness and love, these were given to you as gifts. Why. Why you, but not someone else we meet. It is personal. A gift to you. 😊 It is beautiful and so are you. God bless you.
ReplyDeleteI was not proud of this gift always specially in younger stage of my life dear Sandi
ReplyDeleteI was puzzled and embarrassed instead specially when despite of others rudeness would still feel no aggression but would feel ready to help if they need
I found peace with elderly people when i would serve them it was moment i would feel id something that i meant to be
It took ages to discover that i was chosen and believe me ia still in awe!
😊
DeleteHappy Valentines Day!
ReplyDeleteWhat you wrote got me to thinking about worry about people who do not seem to have any strong human connections in life. I guess that I typically think about those folks around Valentines Day.
my eldest talks about people who mostly prefer to live alone and don't tend to form connections or relationships or one can say they avoid to make commitment
Deletei am not insightful enough to have opinion for such folks ,still i think they miss true pleasures of the life ,but again i think may everyone has different definition for "pleasure "
This was such a powerful post on Love, Baili, and I will confess that I had not thought about it in the way you described. I also know that my parents loved me, although after my young childhood years, it was not shown the same way as to a very young child. Knowing what I do now, I wish there was some way to show them how much I love them. Now in adulthood, I always try to let others in my life - husband, family, friends - know how much I love and appreciate them being in my life.
ReplyDeleteYes, "love makes the world go around," as they say! Happy Valentines Day to you!
ReplyDeleteHope you had a wonderful Valentine’s Day, Baili.
ReplyDelete"Love is meaning for breathing." That is my favorite line in this post. This rings so true to me. Where would we all be if it were not for love. Happy Valentine's Day, Baili.
ReplyDeleteHope you had a happy Valentine's!
ReplyDeleteBeautiful
ReplyDeleteI hope your Valentine's Day was lovely! Thanks for all your share!
ReplyDeleteLovely.
ReplyDeleteTrust you had a lovely Valentine's Day.
I hope you had a wonderful Valentine's! Love is what the world needs more of.
ReplyDeleteQue o amor se revele para si em todas as suas faces. Gostei do texto. e dos pensamentos sobre o amor.
ReplyDeleteUma boa semana.
Um beijo.
It seems that some folks need connections more than others, and some less than others - there are all kinds of people in the world! In my extended family there have been those who have lived useful and happy lives even though they had few connections with the outside world. They seemed to enjoy being totally alone. I don't know where I'm going with this, just thinking out loud, I guess :)
ReplyDeletelucky to hear your thoughts dear Jenny :)
Deletei agree there are so many people with diversity of nature ,an individual means a lone brain with unique opinion
i believe in respecting all kind of opinions ,i think we all should be allow and respect to live by our own thoughts which shape our own observations and experiences :)
A powerful post.
ReplyDeleteI hope that you continue to receive the love you so generously spread.
A powerful post Baili, I hope you had a wonderful Valentine’s Day.
ReplyDeleteAll the best Jan
Coming back little by little...
ReplyDeleteDearest Baili...you are such a beautiful and loving Soul and, although you have had to face many challenges throughout your life, you have never lost that inner strength and faith. I am SO in awe of you.
ReplyDeleteYou are indeed a shining example to us all 😊😊
Have a wonderful day!
All my love and hugs ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Great contemplation about love and its related to the Creator!
ReplyDeleteHave a lovely day, Baili!
Faith in a God who loves us is peaceful.
ReplyDeleteLove is that iron chain that binds everybody in a positive way. Nicely thought and written,Baily.
ReplyDeleteLove is that iron chain that binds everybody in a positive way. Nicely thought and written,Baily.
ReplyDeleteLove is one of the greatest gifts of all, dear Baili. I think you are capable of always loving and forgiving because you are a special person.
ReplyDeleteI thought I'd share one of my favorite verses........
For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life. John 3:16.
Always love, dear Baili. It the thing that makes us whole. : )
~Sheri
I love your post on LOVE
ReplyDelete'Love' is the key to everything. When we knock with love in our heart the door will be opened to us xx