Hello Precious Friends!
Hope and pray that all of you are saying warm well come to new seasons that have stepped into your part of land, Happy spring to those who found blooms around them finally !
Happy winters to those who are going to enjoy beautiful grey season ,rains ,snow and lots of interesting indoor activities who were pending since long.
Here like always in month of May temperature suddenly reached near 50 [48c] and like always short fall of electricity occurred immediately .
Life gets abruptly hard in these months [May to September]. I terribly miss my native village's climate where rains fall once or twice in a week and due to be upper hilly part air never stops and hardly gets warm .
My prayers for rains are hardly answered but two days back suddenly after many long muggy days sky covered with dark roaring clouds ,strong wind waved and it rained heavily for few hours .
Surroundings were fresh and amused . My little garden more pretty after taking bath under the shower of rain.
Finally my heart found joy and my soul felt peace .Humans ,birds and trees all got relief . I am so grateful to dear God who pour his blessing to cheer his men.
Yesterday we visited the doctor who advised us to postpone my surgery until the weather gets bearable as in such hot and muggy weather healing from the surgery can take longer time . He said that though surgery causes tiny wounds but if the weather conditions are as extreme it can get worse so we decided to wait until October . Doctor told that we don't have to worry about delay as my disease can be hold down by medicines and precautions . I kept smiling while saying "okay "
But what if this stupid bladder did not wait until October and blasted before ???
Then it will be my destiny ,i believe that death has a certain time and when it comes no excuse work .
I am fine and relaxed ,i have lived more than forty five years in this beautiful world . Had loving parents , grandparents ,teachers friends which made me glorious memories of past .
Got married to a man whom i hardly knew but God turn him as a caring friend for me. We shared 25 years of deep affection and understanding.
God blessed me with three lovely boys who mean life to me . I am fully deeply content what i have and often think with gratitude that God blessed me with more than i deserve .
So if one day suddenly i will have to say goodbye to my family and this world it will be with peace and serenity, joy and gratefulness. without any regret or sorrow : )
i find my soul swinging here if i transfer [kidding !] [ image ,google]
It is airy today .Rain 's pleasant effect is still in environment. I hope Clouds take rounds of to my city and give us break through hot long summers.
That's all for today dear friends!
Thank you again for your concerns and prays ,i am so blessed to have all of you as friends! God Bless You All!
Please take good care of yourselves !
Oh too bad you have to wait! I pray it all goes well and you don't have too much sufferings until that time. Your marriage is beautiful and your boys too! Andrea
ReplyDeleteI am not sure what type of surgery you need, but I love your outlook and your deep faith in God! Where do you live? I live in Wisconsin, USA. We are just finally getting Spring like weather. The grass is green, and flowers are blooming. For us, that means long awaited yard work! It seemed in April, all it did was rain....we are never happy where we are in this world are we? Blessings!
ReplyDeleteYou were deep in my thoughts the other day when I received a package from Pakistan. Boths sides of the mailing folder were covered with stamps portraying a man whose picture I've seen recently. I thought for a moment and remembered it was from your blog that I saw the picture of the founder of Pakistan Muhammad ali jinnah. I get my shilajit from Pakistan. I find it interesting how the different parts of the world have learned to live with their own peculiar weather.
ReplyDeleteWorld is global village isn't it my friend?
Deletei googled about shilajit to know what is this ,it made me happy that this is some kind of natural product which people used to stay healthy and how nice that my country export reliable quality of this product around the world.
So sorry you have to wait for this surgery.
ReplyDeletePraying for success in October.
ReplyDeleteI hope that you get better as soon as possible. Waiting for a procedure can be so difficult.
ReplyDeleteSorry to hear that you are moving into a period of uncomfortable weather. I hope that you see as mild temperatures as possible and that you get some pleasant rains.
Take it easy and follow doctor's orders to get safely to October and surgery.
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry you have to wait for your surgery. The wait can be difficult but the time will pass. Until then, take care of yourself and enjoy all there is to enjoy.
ReplyDeleteThat is good news about the rain. It refreshes the earth and all that inhabit it.
My Dear Baili
ReplyDeleteSorry to read you have to wait for your surgery... that can't be easy, but you must take Doctors advice. While you wait you must take care of yourself and try to enjoy the coming months.
I pray that the weather is not unbearable, and that you do see more rain.
You have been blessed with three wonderful sons and a man who cares for you ... 25 years is wonderful.
Thinking of you and sending good wishes to you.
All the best Jan
I am sorry to hear that you are ill, just take it easy and look after yourself. October isn't so very long away in the greater scheme of things.
ReplyDeleteYour post shows the beauty of your soul :-)
Thank you for this update. It sounds like you are taking it all positive. May the best be with you.
ReplyDeleteI hope the treatment regime works out properly and that you make a rapid recovery.
ReplyDeleteYour joy in the rainfall made me smile...to know how to appreciate blessings like this, I wish I could do this as freely as you do! God is good.
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry that you have to live with such worry until your surgery. You have your mind set in a very good way. I pray all goes well, Baili.
Jane x
Thanks for the update. I hope all is good with you.
ReplyDeleteGreetings from London.
Praying.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry you have a health worry. I do agree about heat and surgery can be disastrous. I've heard of many who wait until winter for surgery so the blood thickens. I will pray for you. At 45, you have much to live for.
ReplyDeleteMy mother lived in the mountains about 200 km from where we live now. It was a much cooler climate. Our summers are very harsh and this one will be no exception. Take care, Ann
Beautiful cloudy sky! It's great that you had a little refreshing rain. :-)
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry, that you have to postpone your surgery. Waiting is bad…
Take care! Have a lovely new week! :-)
Wish you all the best! xx
ReplyDeleteThinking of you and praying for a quick wait time for surgery.
ReplyDeleteYour optimism and patience are a good example for the rest of us, baili! I hope you are not too uncomfortable in the heat while you wait for October to arrive and your health to improve. I would not survive in 48C temperatures, I am sure of it - you are amazing.
ReplyDeleteIf your gall bladder needed operating on straight away the Dr. would do it regardless of the weather.
ReplyDeleteAs you say, what what you eat and hopefully you will be ok till October when the operation will take place.
You will be alright :)
The weather is certainly warm there at 48 degC and with high humidity as well, rather uncomfortable for every one.
Take care
thank you Margaret ,
Deleteactually main problem is that electricity is not stable when cooling systems is used by most of people .
instead of developing their system authority shuts down the light of whole city ,light gets off after four hours for tow hours and these times are most terrible .
I am relying on my God's decision more than doctor because it always works for me
Hey here in my place I am facing the same weather... :)
ReplyDeleteso sorry to hear that you have to wait. You are in my thoughts!
ReplyDeleteQue melhore rápido é o meu desejo. Por aqui a Primavera ainda não aqueceu...
ReplyDeleteGostei muito das fotografias.
Uma boa semana.
Um beijo.
Baili, I am so sorry that you must wait for surgery but I am sure that the doctor knows what he is doing. I wish you a comfortable wait with more cooling rains.
ReplyDeleteYour post was very touching. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers 💮
I am sorry that you have to wait! I will keep you in my thoughts dear Baili!
ReplyDeleteoxo Susi
Baili, your posts are always so uplifting, even when it seems you are going through some difficult periods like with the weather, electricity shutdown, and now yiur delayed surgery. So, that today when yiu seemed a bit depressed (understandably) by the delayed operation, it is up to us, your friends to say we will be thinking of you and keeping your health in our thoughts and prayers. And as another commented, 45 is a young age and while you have many joys in your husband and sons, there are more to come.
ReplyDeleteDear Baili – I haven’t experienced 48 degrees C. I think only rain can soften the heat, not air conditioner, which makes the outside air higher because air conditioner move heat from inside to outside of the house. That’s why the temperature of urban area is higher. Wish more rain in your district.
ReplyDeleteSorry to hear about the postpone of your gallbladder surgery. I think I can understand your sinking feeling, but to be positive mentally keeps you healthy physically. I hear surgical removal of the gallbladder is the time-honored and safest treatment of gallbladder disease. You don’t have to be concerned about it, but after the surgery you need comfortable healing time in not bad weather as your doctor decided. If ever something wrong happens on your health, the doctor will do surgery promptly regardless of the weather. Everything will be all right in October. I’ll keep my fingers crossed for you.
Yoko
I am glad you got some rain, it is a blessing from above. But was sorry to hear that you'll have to wait for the operation, take good care of yourself in the meantime!
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xo
Your photos are beautiful! I cannot take the extreme heat and humidity that we get here sometimes in Montreal. I will keep you in my prayers in regards to your health and surgery. Hugs.
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ReplyDeleteWe must enjoy all the moments of joys that life brings us.
Good luck to you
It is wonderful to get the refreshing rain, Baili. I looked at your previous post and saw the beautiful traditions, food, art and costumes of your culture. I had to read back a bit to find out why you needed surgery, too. I will be praying that all will be well with you and that you are not in too much discomfort while you wait. Hugs xx Karen
ReplyDeleteThank you for your comment on my Ocala blog. I see here that you are having issues with your bladder and assume it has to do with cancer. My wife has bladder cancer, and had her bladder removed 4 1/2 years ago. Her scans last month were clear so we're grateful for that. Best wishes to you ... you can live without a bladder if it has to go.
ReplyDeleteSo nice that you got some rain! I trust all will be well with you as you wait for your surgery. Beautiful photo of the swing - great place to hang out I would think.
ReplyDeleteMy friend, I am sure you will be fine! I am sorry your surgery will be delayed! Your post today, was very touching! I to believe, that when your time is up, it is up. You are a wonderful person! Big Hugs!
ReplyDeleteIt's a good idea to postpone the surgery till October, when you can recover in greater comfort, I think. Best wishes to you.
ReplyDeleteAll the best for your surgery.
ReplyDeleteTake things as easy as you can and hopefully the time will pass quickly with more lovely refreshing rain. Hugs xx 🐨
ReplyDeleteGlad you got some relief with the rain fall. We know what the situation is like when there's no rain in Italy. Piped water from the mountain streams is shared around the villages - one day on and one day off. Water is precious to keep healthy and clean, but we have to be careful not to waste it. We don't have piped water, but a well instead. We drink bottled water and go up into the mountains to collect pure mineral water from the mountain stream at specially constructed fountains. It's a joy when the rain comes although it's never enough in the summer. Prayers for your health.
ReplyDeleteThank you dear Linda for your kind words and specially for letting me know about the system of water supply in your area.
ReplyDeleteIt is blessing my friend that our city has good system of water supply and even when there is no rain fall for months people get water properly.
I'm sorry to learn that you need surgery, Baili. I hope that your hot weather season passes quickly for you and that the medicines you take carry you through to the time you can have your surgery with less risk. I was immediately thinking of the dangers of infection in the heat. If for some reason your bladder "blasted" before October, I have no doubt that you and your doctor would deal with it appropriately. I admire your deep faith and how uplifting you are even when confronted with a challenge. You are surrounded by the love and support of your family. I will keep you in my thoughts and friends, dear friend!
ReplyDeleteThank you dear Fundy Blue.
DeleteI am waiting for the October patiently with strong belief that if there is life for me in future nothing can snatch it .God Blass you my friend
Hi Baili - it sounds like the doctor has some good sense ... especially if the surgery can wait. In the mean time take care, do all the things that help you and ease any challenges - with thoughts. You are so blessed with your beloved husband, children, your parents and extended family and friends - all the best - Hilary
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