I have realised that since sometime I am forgetting to post on special days like mother day or women’s day . All days are equally important and beautiful. But these two are most favourite of mine.
I picked up some nice photos for posting today and then I realised it was women’s day yesterday so I decided to post about it.
I have been contemplating about the two main and basic energies with which the universe has been created. It’s not a fantasy or fiction but reality and we see numerous examples of the display of this in everyday life in the form of good and bad whether things or humans or high and low whether mood or status . I have no doubt about it that life is created as an effort to create balance between both sides which makes the existence of anything “ successful “ truly. Otherwise the life is wasted in meaningless conflicts which make it miserable and do no good to anyone.
Why this topic on women’s day? Because I am a women and my mother was a woman of course,
Women are considered weak because of their physical frame. But here is the most exciting part that strength does come from physical size.It comes from the real thing that matters most,from inner self ,from soul!According to the law of physics nothing moves further until applied force on. Women are the ones upon whom forces have been applied since world exists. God has plan for everything from tiny to huge. He created a woman physically weak but he created circumstances to make her stronger than men . To get God’s tricky way one must open his heart because truth isn’t seen with bare eyes only.
I am proud to have mom like her as she was though seen
Mere physically weak woman but those who encountered her know she was an Undefeatable rock who stood firm against all odds throughout the life. Without her strength she would have never been able to give us life we have today!🥹
She will be my strength and inspiration always.
To be a mother,a woman is better option, God knew that well!
I want to take this opportunity to appreciate the Debra she who seek who posted a Ramadan post. To me it reflects her neutral approach to all religions. And her courage to take such step! She is an inspiration for many undoubtedly! Hats off to you my friend,you are brave and beautiful woman 🥰♥️🙏 Happy Woman’s Day to you all my wonderful female friends 🥰😍👍
Não se pode questionar a importância das mulheres.
ReplyDeleteEsse erro colocaria em risco o equlíbrio e funcinamento da própria sociedade.
Abraço de amizade.
Juvenal Nunes
Thanks for sharing your valuable insights dear Juvenal !
DeleteI really appreciate your visit and words on the subject. I fully agree that when we underestimate the importance of women we are being unfair and dangerous for our society and children specially because women have equal value for the construction of both .
What a wonderful photo of your Mom and you! And you are absolutely right -- women must be strong and resourceful in a hard and difficult world -- true undefeatable rocks!
ReplyDeleteCanada has a large and important Muslim population that has, and continues to, contribute much to our country. The first mosque in Canada was built right here in my city of Edmonton in 1938 -- Al Rashid Mosque, which is still doing many charitable works in our city, including for the poor and homeless. I am happy to wish all Muslim friends a good Ramadan.
Dear Debra thank you for insightful words,they enlightened me honestly.
DeleteEven if I knew that Canada has large population of Muslim people I didn’t know how wonderfully they are participating in the welfare of society in the country. Migrants have responsibility to reflect the values of their culture and religious creed they follow,it gives me great joy that Muslim living is your part in land has remembered it so well.
So true that women should be stronger than rest so cannot be hurt or overlooked ever.
I should have shared that photo on Mother’s Day actually but I realised sharing it on women’s day will represent the strength of my mother who turned our life towards goodness ,away from all possible bad that can have ruin our lives easily otherwise!🥹
Happy Women’s Day, Baili. You inspire me, my friend
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Thank you dear Marie , you are sooo kind my friend!!!♥️
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ReplyDeleteThank you dear Christine
DeleteHappy women's day to you. I am completely in support of this day. I worked with women all my life so know the strengths you speak of.
ReplyDeleteThanks dear Red!
DeleteI respect your thoughts and a lot !
I wish this world more like you!
Honestly,to have such positive approach one has to have a healthy upbringing I believe. I am sure you have a great mother!
Oh, I so love your post. So adoring this photo! I am sorry I have missed your last few post. We had a blizzard last week, but all is warm and spring now! Such a beautiful Women's post! Yes, we need each other to stay strong and stay positive in all we endure. Thank you for your comments. Thank you for being who you are. I love your rich history and culture. Thank you for sharing your beautiful creativity💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗
ReplyDeleteThank you dear friend Ellie ♥️
DeleteI am sorry for the disturbing weather! Glad to know that spring and warm weather has approached in your area 🥰
Your kind support is heart warming my friend 🥹♥️
Sending Happy Women's Day Wishes to you too.
ReplyDeleteAll the best Jan
Heartfelt thanks to you dear Jan 🥰
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Oh wow,born on women’s day must be strengthened her feminism 🤗
DeleteBirthday wishes to her dear Pedro 🙏
Happy Women's Day Baili. Lovely photo of you and your mother, you were a cutie !
ReplyDeleteThank you so much dear Margaret 🥰
DeleteSo glad you like the photo of me and my dear mom ,one of the most favourite of mine 🥹♥️
Really a wonderful post. I love this photo of you and your mom. You look like her. Just beautiful.
ReplyDeleteOh heartfelt thank you for sharing your liking for the photo dear Nichole .
DeleteMore thanks for declaring my resemblance to my dear mom, I will show this picture my sister who would tease me that I was adopted so she had all the beauty and I don’t lol
I love that picture. I know you treasure it.
ReplyDeleteThank you dear Emma !
DeleteYes this phone is closer to my heart than other old photos 🥹♥️
Happy Woman's Day, Baili! I love the photo of you and your mother. You were adorable and I can feel your mother's sheltering strength as she wraps her arm around you. My mother was like yours, an undefeatable rock. I'll be checking out Debra's Ramadan post. Debra is another remarkable woman! Hugs and love to you!
ReplyDeleteHeartfelt thanks dear Louise for lovely words 🥰♥️
ReplyDeleteYes she kept us safe and happy throughout our growing age , her strength and resilience was the only reason that made us live life we have today!
Our hearts will be indebted to her love and support which made her struggle hard in order to give us an easy ,happy and educated life unlike the environment we grew up in.it wasn’t an easy challenge to overcome but her undefeated willpower made it possible 🥹♥️♥️♥️
Hugs ,love and best wishes to you and Terry dear friend!♥️
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DeleteDear Baili, belated Happy Women's Day wishes and thank you for your kind comment today! I always visit back those that have left a comment. 😊 Otherwise I haven't been very active in the blog world recently. As I told in my post, I have tried to concentrate on my family and my mental and physical well-being. The world looks a very sad place right now. I'm also the caregiver of my mother and her condition will not get better but gradually only worse.
ReplyDeleteAlso now I must hurry to do some works. I'll visit you soon again, I promise! 🤗
Precious friend Sara heartfelt thanks for your visit and sweet words 🥹🥰♥️
DeleteI felt uplifted believe me🥹🤗♥️
Yes I read in your latest post that your have decreased online time and spending more time in self care because of different depressing facts in the world which make me feel down. This was true that whatever is happening is affecting every sensitive heart gravely!
Unfortunately common people got no control of things that are decided in parliament and assemblies . But they have to face the consequences sadly.
It’s frustrating and heartbreaking.
I don’t think people of any part of land are free from such painful conditions.
I hope your self care and crochet art helps your to feel light in some way 🤞
I am sorry your mother isn’t well, with age physical and mental issues are common my friend. I hope you will take some professional assistance which can share your responsibilities!
Best wishes and much love ❤️
Dear Baili - I love the photo of you and your mother. I miss my late Mom for her unconditional love, encouraging sweet smiles, and guiding me by her attitude rather than words throughout her life.
ReplyDeleteRegarding your inquiry, it is said that there is no cure for arthritis. As we get older, our cartilage gets worn out more and more, but we can slow the speed when we take good maintenance and build up thigh muscle. Thigh muscle can help to decrease the weight on knee. Losing weight also can help, but have balanced diet including proper amount of protein. By doing these things, it’d be possible for you to avoid surgery. I suffered “acute” knee arthritis, which was a rude awakening. Since then I’ve been careful while exercise squatting as well as walking every day. With best wishes.
Yoko
Dear Yoko ♥️♥️♥️
ReplyDeleteI am really grateful for you responding my query! Thank goodness so much 🙏🥰
I am doing exercises recommended by therapist online.the video was shared by my sweet friend Sue♥️ it is helping me lot honestly thankfully!
I think your sharing has add into my knowledge and I will definitely look forward to follow everything you have mentioned here👍🙏♥️
Thank you once again,you are very generous indeed 🥹♥️
what a lovely photo of you and your mother! You are both so beautiful. Women are stronger in so many ways, not physically but understanding and the ability to soldier on through hardships. Women can focus on many things at once (women are like spaghetti and men are like waffle boxes. Our brains connect to other thoughts and merge them together. Men focus on one thing at a time.)
ReplyDeleteBig big thanks for sharing your beautiful and inspiring words 👌♥️
DeleteI fully support your thoughts and share them with you absolutely. Yes that I meant what I said in the post but I lack such clarity and awesomeness to put them as together as wonderfully 😊
Men remain committed and connected to world where their brain learn to deal with issues that are less linked to emotions. They are better in strategic situations and analytical approach whereas women have to go through various emotional phases and deal with numerous inner conflicts in order to adjust to their specific environment. confrontations of both are different totally whether women stuck in household or working in outside world which differentiate the way both approach to similar situations.
This is why women can sense unusual things faster than men , this is the gift they develop in their battle for survival .
Only creator knows the best and only He can turn a coal into a diamond. He shows his absolute authority , knowledge and skill to deal with his creations in best way!
To build up an inner strength he applies pressure so his creation can awaken and make its way through odds towards the better end. When you plant a seed beneath the ground you are not cruel but you want him to start it’s journey to flourish as “whole “ so one day he can reveal to himself and to all what he got!🥹🥰
What a beautiful reflection on the strength and resilience of women! It’s true that real strength doesn’t always come from physical size but from within, and women prove this daily. Your words about your mother are especially moving—what an incredible woman she must have been. Happy Women’s Day to you and to all the amazing women out there. I just shared a new post you are invited to read: https://www.melodyjacob.com/2025/03/devils-pulpit-finnich-glen-liars-spring-outlander.html. Have a lovely Thursday.
ReplyDeleteThank you dear Melody for generous visit and supportive comment!
ReplyDeleteMy mother like most people the women suffered because they the men she had in life whether brothers or husband. But she remained pure and beautiful from within as an innocent child, loved everyone around her regardless of race ,clour ,class and religion. She believed in God and that he has created everything to support and connect with each other. Despite she never saw the school but her insight about life and everything was inspirational 🥹🥰😊
Her Best gift to her children is a good upbringing and positive approach towards life in everything. I pay thanks to God who blessed me with a great mother like her 🥹🥹🥰♥️
Hello Baili, Happy Woman's Day to you!
ReplyDeleteIt is wonderful you had a mother who was an inspiration for you. Great post and photo of you and your Mom. Take care, enjoy your day!
Thank you dear Eileen !
DeleteYes i count having a good mother among Most precious gifts of God 🥹
Mothers are foundation of a family,they have to be extraordinarily blessed and strong to grow a family who are healthy mentally and physically 🙏🥰
Nice thoughts on strength, it's not always physical, you're right, women have inner strength. I hope you are enjoying spiritual harmony through Ramadan, sadly it's not something the religious observers in my town share with those of us who are not from their culture/faith, if anything it highlights how they don't want to integrate with our community and they shut us out. I can't see how the UK will ever be strong until those who have come here learn to embrace those of us who welcomed them in.
ReplyDeleteHeartfelt thanks for beautiful words dear Betty ♥️
DeleteI really appreciate you mentioning that how muslin community living is your part of land keep itself closed and away . This is sad and unfortunate honestly. I can imagine their concerns being from society in which not everyone but some people think that such harmony can affect their religious views negatively.which I strongly believe is wrong. I believe that everyone should trust his faith and how deeply it is held by them. I am reading our holy book Quran everyday since one and a half decades almost. Quran doesn’t prohibit people from embracing those who are different in their perception. But it admires to go ahead and mix with others so you can have opportunity to inspire them with the enlightenment of your own character and how beautifully you carry your religious beliefs along with others. According the Islam all religion were one and only religion at first which brought message of one Creator who created everything and blessed it to flourish according to it’s perception to create harmony and harmless co existence with other creations .It’s only power seeking people who took over and torn the religion and divided it into sects and different religions unfortunately. In whole holy book Quran it’s said clearly and obviously that no one with empty and shallow words or rituals will get the shelter in God but only those who have loving hearts,care for humanity , and believe in equality of everyone will please the Divine and will be provided with ease in life and afterlife.
My eldest son also feels sad when he observes in London what you have mentioned here . I think the aggression and opposition of other nations will disappear once Muslim people living in foreign countries will stop distancing ourselves from those whom land is offering them shelter.
Nice thoughts on strength, it's not always physical, you're right, women have inner strength. I hope you are enjoying spiritual harmony through Ramadan, sadly it's not something the religious observers in my town share with those of us who are not from their culture/faith, if anything it highlights how they don't want to integrate with our community and they shut us out. I can't see how the UK will ever be strong until those who have come here learn to embrace those of us who welcomed them in.
ReplyDeleteA belated comment on Women's Day and I agree that women are stronger than men in so many ways other than physical strength. Thanks for sharing the photo of you and your mother. It is obvious how much of your wisdom was gained from her. From what you have posted before, she was a wonderful women, like yourself.
ReplyDeleteMany thanks for sharing your lovely thoughts dear Dorothy 🥰
ReplyDeleteIt’s love and support of my blog friends which makes me feel like I can share my thoughts and feelings with them 🥹🥰♥️
I was fortunate to have a wonderful woman as a mother who was inspiration for all women around her . Her ways to approach life was healthy and positive which enriched our lives with confidence in faith in God and in ourselves.
Dear Baili,
ReplyDeleteThis is such a heartfelt and powerful reflection on womanhood, strength, and balance in life. Your perspective on the two fundamental energies shaping the universe is thought-provoking, and the way you connect it to the resilience of women is truly inspiring. The idea that real strength comes not from physical size but from the soul resonates deeply, and your tribute to your mother beautifully captures the profound impact of her strength and love. Women have indeed faced immense challenges, yet they continue to rise with grace and resilience. Thank you for sharing this moving piece—it’s a reminder of the quiet, yet undefeatable power that women carry within them.
John
Dear John heartfelt thanks for insightful words 🙂
ReplyDeleteIt’s always a pleasure to hear your valuable thoughts on any matter discussed in the post because it not just uplifts my mind but adds tremendous depth to my simple words as well.
Women indeed remained in kind state and war throughout the history and even today they have to struggle for basic human rights in many parts of the land sadly. I don’t know whether there suffering will end completely in far future or difference in their physical appearance will continue to make their lives challenging no matter what.
Tribute of my few simple words can never be enough for what my mother faced to give her daughters a better life in conservative circumstances back then.
As for as my analogy I used for the women.it’s because when I ponder on the life and universe as whole and how they are fair display of two strong energies,it makes me believe that law of physics work similarly everywhere in the universe. Such as earth is covered with light and darkness equally. Seems like everything free huge to tiny is divided into two forms and energies which keep fighting against each other to take over . What will prevail or succeed is decided by only one thing and that is true innate wish of the owner of the body . This is how maybe evolution happened. But still i firmly believe that things are not as simple as they appear. We understand what is allowed by creator actually. Not further than that.
Ser mulher, ser mãe. Como não celebrar isso? As fotografias antigas são bonitas.
ReplyDeleteUma boa semana.
Um beijo.
What a beautiful and strong woman your mother was. I really enjoyed reading you.
ReplyDeleteSuch a heartfelt and inspiring post! Your reflections on faith, family, and balance in life are truly meaningful. Wishing you and your loved ones continued health, peace, and happiness. Also, congratulations to your husband on his upcoming retirement—30 years of dedication is truly admirable!
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