Wednesday, January 11, 2023

Mustard Green Dish, Carrot Sweet Dish And An Invitation


Hey lovely people! 

Hope and pray that all is good at your end. 

Its been a while we have returned from Karachi. Though constant business keep mind and body occupied and short days make routine quite a task sometimes. Winter is season of mustard green here(sarson k saag, local term) which is very popular among all equally . image below is from google just to give you idea . i have made this dish twice until now which is quite time and energy consuming but turned out so well thankfully. 




                       and i cooked this very favorite sweet dish of the season too and each time i sent it to all in law family members living 20 minutes away which praised it thankfully . making gajar ks halwa is also very tiring ,from washing carrots to pealing and slicing them into thin tiny pieces and then cooking  which take one and half hour almost is quite a job but result is super delicious and rewarding indeed.
 
   this is family of  Anum (in yellow on right second) who is one of the best friends of eldest son since eight years. She also came from Germany to meet her family while our son and we were in karachi . She invited us at dinner which was remarkable . Actually it was second time they invited us. At first it was four years ago i think . it was nicer to meet her mother specially who was great company. despite of her challenging life (her husband married to another woman from whom he also has children) Anum's mom brought her children up by herself .though she has complete financial support from her  husband but she has been living an emotionally devastated life since one and half decade .but one can hardly notice from these shining faces and cheerful sweet smiles that they have complications around. i loved this positive spirit about this beautiful family .who does not have problems in life but when we learn to face these problems right from the face with understanding that every problems has solution along ,all we need to have faith and never give up . we had amazing time there and i think those laughter will echo for long in my memories bty Anum has two younger sisters and one brother ,brother lives in Japan since many years. She is strikingly mature ,brave and responsible daughter and sister.  



dear friends that is it for today. i am visiting you all and hope you are getting my comments too. looking for longer days when i can post the way i want to .
health peace and happiness to all of you and to all you love!












24 comments:

  1. Anum sounds like a wonderful young woman!

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  2. There are a lot of courageous women in this world, raising families on their own and doing great jobs. Love that last photo!

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  3. The mustard green dish looks amazing, as does the carrot dessert! It is definitely a labor of love, but so glad that everyone enjoyed it! So sad to hear about the difficult circumstances of your son's friend's family. But what a beautiful girl she is, indeed. Many blessings to you dear Baili! Wishing you a wonderful Happy New Year!

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  4. First, I want to thank you, Baili, for your kind comments on my recent holiday posts. hey were very much appreciated. It looks like your son's friend, Anun, has a very special family and her mother is to be congratulated for bringing up her children so well despite her sadness.

    You are right in what you wrote that many of us have problems and difficulties, but the important thing is how we face them -- with despair and frustration or hope and faith. It seems that Anna's mother choose wisely.

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  5. Your dishes look delicious! What a lovely gathering, I am sorry to learn of their circumstances but you are right, have faith and never give up.

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  6. Thank you for sharing these dishes, they do look and sound good :)

    A fabulous family and friends group photograph, so nice to spend fun-time together.

    Enjoy your January days.

    All the best Jan

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  7. Anum's family is lovely. She has a very caring mother.

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  8. You had a great family gathering that brought back many good memories.

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  9. I pray her children will be protected from any harmful effects of his absence. He provides for them and that is a blessing. Perhaps in his heart there is love for them despite these choices. I pray for healing for their mother and joy. For you too, Baili, that this story would not leave heaviness in your heart, but that you would think of their smiles instead of their woes. Bless you. 💙

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    1. Dear Sandi injustice is disturbing no matter on what level it happens. Anum, s, mom is strong mother no doubt yet she is a woman who wants to see her home as sweet home full of love and care. Though her self respect does not allow her to express her distress but her grief can be seen on her face and in her eyes. Therefore my respect for her strength is to avoid mentioning her pain here

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    2. The Lord bless her and keep her; the Lord make His face to shine upon her and be gracious to her; the Lord lift up His countenance upon her and give her peace. This is Aaron's blessing for Israel from Numbers 6:24-26.

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    3. Thanks for the moral support dear Sandi

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  10. The food looks delicious... Good to see a family reunion

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  12. Happy New Year Baili. Thank you for your sweet visit to my blog. Your dishes look so good. As for the family and friends picture...such happy faces. Thank you for sharing what is happening in your world. Hugs!

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  13. Wonderful foodie post. Thanks for sharing about friends and family too. Happy Weekend! Oh, and thank you for your comment too!

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  14. It was good to meet this lovely family through your blog, and what you said is right: life has to move on, however difficult the circumstances. The thing you say about the sweet dish sounds like making carrot halwa, which my aunt will do well. Keep writing and have a good weekend

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  15. É sempre bom manter bons relacionamentos, sejam de que natureza forem.
    Abraço amigo.
    Juvenal Nunes

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  16. So good to read you again and see these photos - beautiful family picture and your food sounds and looks good. I haven't been visiting blogs until recently so soon i will catch up here. thanks for your wonderful comment on my blog. I loved it.

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  17. Gostei das fotografias, principalmente das da sua família. Obrigada por partilhar.
    Uma boa semana com muita saúde.
    Um beijo.

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  19. Thanks for sharing the delightful, joyful photo of Anum and her family with yours. Such kind and generous hospitality! Your dishes look delicious, Baili. I can certainly relate to the tediousness of washing, peeling, slicing, and dicing carrots into tiny pieces. I try to add more vegetables to a number of dishes by finely dicing carrots, and/or celery, peppers, and onions. Sometimes the chopping can be calming, and sometimes it can make me crazy. The task is the same. It's my mind and attitude that's different ~ lol! Hugs to you, my precious friend!

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  20. The food looks delicious.

    It looks like you all had a fund get together with your sons friend.

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