tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post8491413379754408448..comments2024-03-28T08:34:37.130-07:00Comments on Baili And I...: I May Sound A Strict Mother bailihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06498012175058870980noreply@blogger.comBlogger37125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-2694808865905401802022-07-03T15:52:22.807-07:002022-07-03T15:52:22.807-07:00You are a wonderful mother. Yours sons do you cred...You are a wonderful mother. Yours sons do you credit.CherryPiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11788084724907992076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-57024255099995893162022-06-19T23:10:32.363-07:002022-06-19T23:10:32.363-07:00your article amazing
ittelkom jakartayour article amazing<br /><br /><a href="https://ittelkom-jkt.ac.id/" rel="nofollow">ittelkom jakarta</a>telkohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00635613055540871202noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-27750709951592787072022-06-11T13:32:41.530-07:002022-06-11T13:32:41.530-07:00oh there were many - ...mostly to do with who they...oh there were many - ...mostly to do with who they hang out with - doing things they knew better...lots of restrictions at times...my first son was so easy and to this day his kids are also...the next three...typical teenagers, lol.. But each one has great kids, teenagers themselves who never get in trouble...I'm happy that their kids are easy for them. sandyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03307968128182359860noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-26713970788919634512022-06-07T01:57:50.850-07:002022-06-07T01:57:50.850-07:00You sound like a wonderful mother to me.
Amalia
xo...You sound like a wonderful mother to me.<br />Amalia<br />xo<br />handmade by amaliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15589172037052603746noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-30411426165086448152022-06-06T01:56:01.790-07:002022-06-06T01:56:01.790-07:00Quando uma mãe ama os seus filhos, aquilo que faz ...Quando uma mãe ama os seus filhos, aquilo que faz é por amor. Faz bem em insistir nos estudos dos seus filhos. O conhecimento é o único "poder" que conta. Você é mesmo uma boa mãe.<br />Uma boa semana com muita saúde.<br />Um beijo.Graça Pireshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14798220892473509748noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-85847282023895592862022-06-03T09:21:45.030-07:002022-06-03T09:21:45.030-07:00I think you are a very good mother. We can only do...I think you are a very good mother. We can only do so much when our children become adults. Gentle encouragement and then some firmness. DVArtisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18389131898875955178noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-83894492686081027852022-06-02T15:40:34.683-07:002022-06-02T15:40:34.683-07:00Thanks for all your wonderful comment replies, Bai...Thanks for all your wonderful comment replies, Baili! they mean so much to me. Hugs to you, my dear friend!Fundy Bluehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02132147630106183853noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-89185091213972156602022-05-31T11:49:44.431-07:002022-05-31T11:49:44.431-07:00You are a caring person and I think have been and ...You are a caring person and I think have been and still are a good mother.<br />Take care my friend, my good wishes.<br /><br />All the best Jan Lowcarb team memberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07961199165290289611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-62714166503255058822022-05-31T05:39:55.891-07:002022-05-31T05:39:55.891-07:00"Cared and "Loved" yes this feeling..."Cared and "Loved" yes this feeling is blessing dear Louise and in forth decade of my life i seriously started to realize that there is not a single thing in my life that i wanted to have and made a willful effort to get it . it seemed that someone pushed me to have this life or as they say had gifted me but for what i wonder ? what skills do i have ,nothing ,no worldly anility that can give me such nice living except my simplicity and honesty that is ridiculed by all mostly . This realization gives me curiosity and courage to learn about about that force who is certainly existing within me and around me observing me every second reading my thoughts and learning my intentions .this is one who knows me better than me and this is who decides to put me where i am today with man whom i respect and love with kids whom i want to fine human being for this world and with peace of mind for which people do so much to have .i am thankful !!!!!!!bailihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06498012175058870980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-72257878874753193842022-05-31T05:30:15.043-07:002022-05-31T05:30:15.043-07:00pushing yes i mean if he has decided to do somethi...pushing yes i mean if he has decided to do something particular and as a teenager he misses his track often it is my duty to remind him to stay in focus and try to achieve what target he has set for himself . I am against pushing otherwise kids who don't show interest in something particular that their elder think is must for them .i think this is not fair ,we should know what is the capacity of a child and what is actual reason behind his disagreement. The mental health and satisfaction matters most for me and i will never force my any kid to do something he does not want to bailihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06498012175058870980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-26705032753027689582022-05-31T05:22:58.924-07:002022-05-31T05:22:58.924-07:00your kind comment reminds me a statement my husban...your kind comment reminds me a statement my husband made on the birth of my second son when he got news of another son he said " sons are creatures tough to handle " and i learnt the depth of this only when i had to deal with my younger son to be honest :) despite he is very intelligent and fine human being in terms that he is honest and respectful for everyone he meets in life ,still he is naughty and really hard to handle sometimes .what makes me at peace is he is basically a good boy which matter most for me as a mother . i wish i have read about what hurdles you went through while upbringing your sons bailihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06498012175058870980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-84198380665947458242022-05-30T19:24:45.004-07:002022-05-30T19:24:45.004-07:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Ufa88khhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12259594029966556639noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-10129167405782031342022-05-30T17:30:10.803-07:002022-05-30T17:30:10.803-07:00You are such a caring person and mother. Having ...You are such a caring person and mother. Having only sons myself I really enjoy reading about your kids from your point of view and how you do all you can to give them a sense of worth and direction, etc. I admire you. sandyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03307968128182359860noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-48223291506219960922022-05-30T10:18:07.418-07:002022-05-30T10:18:07.418-07:00Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings, ...Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings, Baili! Your sentence, "In my unplanned life it has occurred so many times that some mysterious hand helped me otherwise I would have experienced terrible damage" describes something I have experienced at a number of critical times in my life. And also at times that I didn't realize at the time were critical. When I look back it reminds me that I am cared for and loved by God, a Creator, some Being that is beyond my ability to grasp. It's pretty amazing.Fundy Bluehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02132147630106183853noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-86106823518151569122022-05-30T06:41:46.268-07:002022-05-30T06:41:46.268-07:00Hi Baili! ☺ I think it's good that you are pus...Hi Baili! ☺ I think it's good that you are pushing your son to study and I also believe the right environment will help a lot to motivate him. Education is so important. It gives people more choices and more freedom. I don't think that's you being strict, just loving and giving! ♥♥ Enjoy your trip! ♥Rain https://www.blogger.com/profile/14377719049819222133noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-70754997310666629992022-05-30T04:44:14.510-07:002022-05-30T04:44:14.510-07:00for me husband and wife both are pillars of the fa...for me husband and wife both are pillars of the family and have responsibility to support them in all ways ,here where i live husband is still considered a main bread earner and wife is to not just look after the children physically but make them healthy and secure as spiritually .i tried to fulfill my duties honestly always and thankfully my life partner shares my vision of life on most levels .<br />so true that kids vary in their ability to study .in my opinion sometimes it is matter of convincing child in right way with right words .it can work in some cases if child agrees to listen and understands what is right for him otherwise later he won't be in position to blame parents at leastbailihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06498012175058870980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-33411805514626478062022-05-30T04:36:58.999-07:002022-05-30T04:36:58.999-07:00sorry for the trouble dear Pedro ,i think refreshi...sorry for the trouble dear Pedro ,i think refreshing the page before commenting helps often bailihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06498012175058870980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-52870587608659501982022-05-30T04:35:59.488-07:002022-05-30T04:35:59.488-07:00thank you so much dear Marth ,family is everything...thank you so much dear Marth ,family is everything for all of us certainly ,devoting our life to build their futures nurtures us and strengthen us as mothers and as person :)bailihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06498012175058870980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-49191325085275326972022-05-30T02:03:34.958-07:002022-05-30T02:03:34.958-07:00this is kind of you to said so dear Louise , i cal...this is kind of you to said so dear Louise , i called myself stupid because i heard this for my self numerous time . being most boring person many that are close or rare meet say i am foolish and live in fantasy .they think the rules i follow does not work for all and i should go with flow and so on... <br />with time and with analyzations i have excepted that for people who live under the pressure of physical demands i am stupid and because i have not met one like me until now who does the same ,i mean follows the instinct simply so i can be told that i am doing right thing here i surrender to acknowledge what other think of me but without letting it hurt to what is real and dwell in the deepest core of my being . And this is that what i do works for me has worked for me until now so i have no reason to doubt my ways. I like my habit of self analyzation and i have corrected my flaws ,i tried at least and i will keep trying with faith we all need to improve as human and this spiritual earning must not stop just like we don't give up earning for physical life .<br />i am saying though i don't want to say to often that my faith and connection with Creator seems to restrain me from making plans and it is same since always . Now at this part of life i can feel everything happened for reason and things seems to have an astonishing pattern for me . In my unplanned life it has occurred so many times that some mysterious hand helped me otherwise i would have experienced terrible damage . This sounds unreal but i know it happened and many time . My faith has deep roots on these grounds i mentioned many times here dear friend . so i just live in moment and totally on the Creator's .No planning just facing what comes to me with courage and positivity i think .<br />Nature has created us with intelligence and with sense of "right and wrong" though the things have turned out we deny that Nature has such rules and they are worth following . For nature we are uniformed creation i think and she want us to act in harmony and not selfishly . we are facilitated with everything we need in thousands years back and will be needing in far far future .we are given not just perfect physical figures to survive but mind and soul the realize and live the beauty of life as well and still we think it is random and meaning leass,each of us is acting for his own interest and is crushing whoever comes to his way . Nature does not like it . If we are not ready to accept her terms and conditions she has no mercy for us as well unfortunately because it is about "give and take" actually .we are not responding to her kindness with gratefulness and humbleness but carelessly and with cruelty . This is going to cause everything we are today .<br />we too hope weather will be bit better than here though not much positive news about it . thank you so much for taking precious time and sharing thoughts that make me feel as i am heard by someone and it gives me strength to share my heart :) yes having love in life is like creator has completed me . it happened in many years that i realized it eventually that we were made for each other .i am truly happy you to experienced same feelings.without love life s empty ,hung in space with no clue of anything at all bailihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06498012175058870980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-50740914213990508202022-05-30T01:42:17.370-07:002022-05-30T01:42:17.370-07:00Você é uma mãe cheia de amor por seus filhos. Soub...Você é uma mãe cheia de amor por seus filhos. Soube sempre o que era melhor para eles. A educação é imprescindível, como sempre acreditou. Tudo do melhor para si e sua família.<br />Uma boa semana.<br />Um beijo.Graça Pireshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14798220892473509748noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-76406723113100079612022-05-30T01:22:52.323-07:002022-05-30T01:22:52.323-07:00here government schools provide free education unt...here government schools provide free education until tenth grade dear Red and then govt collages give free education for more two years (12 grade) . further studies are upto parents and students themselves ,everyone tries to pursue according to his limit . we had nothing when our eldest son got scholarship in Fast Karachi . he had free studies and was provided monthly help by govt authorities .we feel thankful what he could achieve with this help bailihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06498012175058870980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-43200164062651966412022-05-30T01:18:10.873-07:002022-05-30T01:18:10.873-07:00according to my belief dear Kathy everything has r...according to my belief dear Kathy everything has reason . i often in past grieved that what i am made for ? today my Creator has started to reveal the answer for me i suppose bailihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06498012175058870980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-80217877901258924712022-05-30T01:15:32.517-07:002022-05-30T01:15:32.517-07:00thank you dear Eileen , yes we all want our childr...thank you dear Eileen , yes we all want our children to have happy healthy life ,healthy in term of balance they create on all levels of their living which leave them no regret at the end bailihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06498012175058870980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-11991395302747484342022-05-30T01:13:25.621-07:002022-05-30T01:13:25.621-07:00for me biggest pleasure is that my children feel f...for me biggest pleasure is that my children feel free to make choice dear Sandi ,my only demand is whatever they choose to do ,do it in a right way with serious attitude because time does not wait for anyone to wake up and realize what has he lost already . for them i am just reminder nothing else .<br />With education we can earn both the "light" for soul and the money for physical needs . if we fail to do so the half success will never be able to provide perfect peace i believebailihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06498012175058870980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-49977110818921600622022-05-30T01:07:53.848-07:002022-05-30T01:07:53.848-07:00i am trying to do my job honestly dear Christine t...i am trying to do my job honestly dear Christine thank you bailihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06498012175058870980noreply@blogger.com