tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post8016729817671848439..comments2024-03-29T05:24:03.723-07:00Comments on Baili And I...: I am not fantasizing death i think ,some blooms bailihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06498012175058870980noreply@blogger.comBlogger29125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-31037795042817866342023-02-18T15:37:10.713-08:002023-02-18T15:37:10.713-08:00and those flowers - good to see color - we're ...and those flowers - good to see color - we're still seeing white as in snow this coming week once again.sandyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03307968128182359860noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-60127703685407201762023-02-18T15:29:55.121-08:002023-02-18T15:29:55.121-08:00The events happening in the world in your part..a...The events happening in the world in your part..and . The Turkey earthquake, a huge toxic spill in Ohio that for some reason seems to be downplayed by the media - because consensus with those in the know say it's very toxic in land and water. Anyway, Spread the light - great suggestion. The world needs our reminders and love. sandyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03307968128182359860noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-86212616589573910082023-02-15T09:41:57.726-08:002023-02-15T09:41:57.726-08:00Your flowers are beautiful Baili! ♥ I agree, live ...Your flowers are beautiful Baili! ♥ I agree, live life to the fullest. I try not to dwell on death, the inevitable, I just hope I am strong until the end and don't suffer too much. I try to focus on everything good I have here and it makes me have a zest for life, not to miss out on anything! But I also believe that life goes on after death, but in a different form! ♥♥Rain https://www.blogger.com/profile/14377719049819222133noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-22038583988716104022023-02-14T09:40:18.408-08:002023-02-14T09:40:18.408-08:00thank you ashok thank you ashok bailihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06498012175058870980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-70889552703156087222023-02-14T09:39:52.546-08:002023-02-14T09:39:52.546-08:00precious friend Louise i agree that noone know wha...precious friend Louise i agree that noone know what will happen when soul will leave the body so i too since have realized this fact try hard to live each moment as alive and productive so i won't leave with regret that i wasted such precious gift .<br />i believe that i myself was not scared of death as such but because i grew up seeing mom crying for my elder brother time to time so a word death would bring pain ,burden and darkness to my heart .it might have last longer if i would have not seen my grandmother dying so peacefully .i realize that memory enlightened me about death and as time passed i was less concerned about death but terror of being buried under tons of soil and in dark airless place kept me haunted for many years yet when my parents died the trauma i felt was about the "departure " rather than their death because i had accepted it as natural inescapable phenomena till then. now since some years i believe that if i know i am gonna die within week or so i will hardly get disturb and one thing i am pretty sure that i would leave smilingly .<br />as a loving wife of loving husband i can so well relate how you terrified and helpless you would have felt when you saw Terry going through in such uncertain and miserable condition dear louise! it was your love who made you as alert ,attentive and active so it became possible that he got medical help on time,a minute late could have cost much .love is victorious always because it leaves no loose end ,hats off to you ,bravo ! <br />in my thoughts always you both and all sweet friends!bailihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06498012175058870980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-46720273022683271272023-02-14T09:22:42.664-08:002023-02-14T09:22:42.664-08:00i totally agree with you dear Karen that once we s...i totally agree with you dear Karen that once we see death as certain part of reality and not just threat or scary thing to give us nightmare we are able to realize the true importance of the time we have as "life" we can make better choices and wiser decisions as you said you want to leave here a good legacy . like you i remained troubled throughout my life with pain and suffering life offers my friend .after shedding tears for years curiosity took over and i wanted to learn "reason" behind things which led me further to fall in love with learning itself . Now i feel every single day adds to my knowledge a little bit that helps to understand what ,how and why ? to some more extent .such as when i learned that quantum physics reveal lot about how universe and everything works on the fundamental bases i felt that is quite a blessing to know at this part of age that diversity of circumstances which keep life up and down for us are installed within the veins of universe .things are complicated if speak mathematically but i can translate it the main point here simply and it is that universe seems to be created as "a constant state of war" from largest scale of such as push and pull war between dark energy which has been declared as reason behind the slow pace of universe otherwise it would have whoosh away to tiniest scale where war between strong nuclear force and weak force keeps the proton and neutron tied all scientists find is constant struggle or fight that keeps the things the way we see them around as matter and everything else .so my point here is that as tiny part of this huge scenario we are hardly exception though as human our emotions make us most strong and most vulnerable here at the same time.<br />i also agree that we have no control over most of things here .all we have in hand is the present moment and our way to make best of it .and yes pray is another one of the best things bailihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06498012175058870980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-12994196166862556722023-02-13T22:24:46.484-08:002023-02-13T22:24:46.484-08:00The thought of death makes me want to appreciate t...The thought of death makes me want to appreciate the time I have and the people I love. I am at the age now when I want to leave a good legacy behind, so that motivates me to live my best life. I struggle to understand why there are such horrible disasters and wars, accidents or murders, and I grieve for those who are suffering. I don't think we can ever know why things happen or when, so I try to live with the idea that I only have control of this moment and try to find peace by being kind and helpful whenever I can. Your flowers are so pretty, Baili. I'm sure you find peace whenever you are in your garden. Sending hugs xo KKaren @ Beatrice Euphemiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08631972741518142563noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-34282302090857519432023-02-13T16:17:51.532-08:002023-02-13T16:17:51.532-08:00Your flowers are lovely, Baili, and such a joy to ...Your flowers are lovely, Baili, and such a joy to see. I've thought a lot about death throughout my life. My hope is that I will be reunited with my loved ones. No one really knows what will happen, so I try to appreciate each day as a gift. As for being buried, the thought of that really bothers me. I've decided I want to be cremated so I can be "free." Meanwhile I try my best to focus on kindness and love. <br /><br />Today is 675 days since Terry almost died suddenly. If he hadn't been exactly where he was, in the hospital literally going through a procedure to save his life, he would have died. I count the days, because each additional one with him is precious. (That doesn't mean it's all sunshine and roses. We still have disagreements; we're human ~ lol). Hugs to you, my special friend! Wishing you many more happy days!Fundy Bluehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02132147630106183853noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-37184502473018634352023-02-13T09:08:55.180-08:002023-02-13T09:08:55.180-08:00Thoughtful post Baili.
Lovely collection of flower...Thoughtful post Baili.<br />Lovely collection of flowers!ashokhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07151604896442505084noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-86792874460183244122023-02-13T03:35:35.664-08:002023-02-13T03:35:35.664-08:00i appreciate word "natural" so much dear...i appreciate word "natural" so much dear Grace .natural because death exist along life with harmony in this universe .even when i think further i feel that life arouse out of death and reemerges in it eventually .so thinking about death is normal though abnormal and unnatural is avoiding the topic because it reflects our cower .bailihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06498012175058870980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-83860376330098063612023-02-13T03:24:23.601-08:002023-02-13T03:24:23.601-08:00"beautiful sometimes" well said dear Ped..."beautiful sometimes" well said dear Pedro ,may our fate can be among such times that are nice bailihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06498012175058870980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-13275051790736330072023-02-13T03:22:58.073-08:002023-02-13T03:22:58.073-08:00thinking about death is healthy (again ,another s...thinking about death is healthy (again ,another sign that harmony with nature brings peace of mind) dear Jenny because it make us connect with reality that is present to serve some good like everything else in this world. we could have been unaware of our deaths by any certain kind of way if nature wanted so.but we see and observe death everywhere from falling autumn leaves or bitterly injured bird to death ,crushed insect under our feet accidently . we see people dying around us everyday including those whom we love most and hardly imagine they can leave us like this even when we burry them in ground and sprinkle soil over them death is before us with all it's vigor . we hardly like to imagine that we can be here too any time as well . i believe that death is known to us so we can beware instead of being afraid of it. fear restrain death to take place in our thoughts and occupy it's correct value so we can move further after facing it and after making peace with it. for people with positive approach great good that death thought do is to exist harmlessly and beautifully while taking all along. so i agree when time come regrets are handful bailihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06498012175058870980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-79819319605479985292023-02-13T01:42:15.635-08:002023-02-13T01:42:15.635-08:00Sim, o melhor é vivermos cada dia como se fosse ún...Sim, o melhor é vivermos cada dia como se fosse único e aproveitarmos intensamente cada segundo. É natural que pensemos na morte porque ela faz parte da vida e o que vai ocorrendo pelo mundo não nos deixa esquecer. Um excelente e inspirador texto.<br />Uma boa semana com muita saúde.<br />Um beijo.Graça Pireshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14798220892473509748noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-80937723473563144532023-02-12T18:37:38.727-08:002023-02-12T18:37:38.727-08:00Lessons from Nature, baili.
Beautiful sometimes, c...Lessons from Nature, baili.<br />Beautiful sometimes, cruel in others.<br />Have a great week.Pedro Coimbrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03833470005651536885noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-59105378235004752312023-02-12T18:11:03.759-08:002023-02-12T18:11:03.759-08:00I completely agree that thinking about death is he...I completely agree that thinking about death is healthy when it leads us to live every day the best we can so we have few regrets when our time comes. I have been called morbid for thinking this way but I think that person just didn't understand the concept :)<br /><br />Your flowers are so lovely. It will be many months before we have those here, so I enjoyed seeing them!jenny_ohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15475480579733466963noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-14921158678858030252023-02-12T09:36:40.281-08:002023-02-12T09:36:40.281-08:00I agree dear Margaret
I remember when I was little...I agree dear Margaret<br />I remember when I was little and women would in gathering would mention death with humour and sometimes topic would take serious turn and after acknowledging the mortality an unavailable part of the life conversion would end as "we should try leave behind something good"<br />Now mostly people seem to lose their imagination that make topic literal and fearsome so they try to avoid talking about it which adds only an unconscious terror in life about our death sadly bailihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06498012175058870980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-90384548194762020122023-02-12T09:29:07.973-08:002023-02-12T09:29:07.973-08:00How nice about your father dear Red. As I mentione...How nice about your father dear Red. As I mentioned death of my grandmother was something that lightened the word "death" for me in term of "fear of my own death" that would haunt me in lonely moments for while. I realized that dying is not as bad but leaving for somewhere else from here. That was whole new concept for me. I started to feel little comfortable with death thoughts because of which my readiness for death prevailed and it made life quite better. Fear is grip a cave which hold you captive and dims your ability to think clearly. After getting out of the cave world is better place to spend some time bailihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06498012175058870980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-48462467886502596482023-02-12T09:19:42.650-08:002023-02-12T09:19:42.650-08:00This is weird when people deny the presence of som...This is weird when people deny the presence of some divine principles in the scenario of life and universe because today scientists have found out that there is no such thing as empty space in this world but we are existing within waves and ocean of particals that play basic roll in existence of universe and everything in it. Each research conclude about everything that serves certain goals here. When every single thing has come with a purpose then how we can think that life is just random incident. From beginning of universe and life, from natural selection to genetic mutation nothing seems "random" so having "faith" is our first step towards "gratitude for all the blessings we have. Then carrying this faith with ultimate honesty so no law of nature must be spoiled by us is second step to showing respect and surrender to the divine force who is watching us every single moment and remembering the death who stands firm and tall at the last for is third step that can make us avoid horrible mistakes in life bailihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06498012175058870980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-8192935766439096702023-02-11T20:12:46.987-08:002023-02-11T20:12:46.987-08:00Death is a reality that comes to us all. It's...Death is a reality that comes to us all. It's the path to the way we die and it's worth thinking about at times not often though.<br />The flowers are beautiful.Margaret Dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14074619859060647600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-30663113020147839752023-02-11T18:01:09.976-08:002023-02-11T18:01:09.976-08:00We have to come to terms with the end of our life....We have to come to terms with the end of our life. We mourn for our own death while we are alive. People accept their end and are ready to die. My dad was ready to die about 5 years before he died. However, may people do not have the time to think about their own end .Redhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17996243850279671523noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-71511574829248789202023-02-11T13:43:14.417-08:002023-02-11T13:43:14.417-08:00We must do our best to embrace each and every day ...We must do our best to embrace each and every day with thanks.<br /><br />The blooms you shared here are lovely to see.<br /><br />My good wishes.<br /><br />All the best JanLowcarb team memberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07961199165290289611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-84081297489946445852023-02-11T11:18:48.597-08:002023-02-11T11:18:48.597-08:00Lovely blooms!Lovely blooms!Christinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15720030744345215307noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-36919665791407083262023-02-11T09:47:36.972-08:002023-02-11T09:47:36.972-08:00Baili - facing death is part of living. Faith in ...Baili - facing death is part of living. Faith in Jesus is what brings me true reassurance that even when my time here on earth is done...I will just have began to live in heaven. Without faith in Him I would have no hope at all. Hugs sweet friend.Debbie Nolanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11168646638438558551noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-46886392269210793152023-02-11T09:27:56.895-08:002023-02-11T09:27:56.895-08:00So true because it feels so hard to convince ourse...So true because it feels so hard to convince ourselves that this really short life is barely less than a mini play within whole big show running since billion trillion years and will go on for eternity.<br />But those who dare to accept this inevitable reality live content and meaningful life bailihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06498012175058870980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-52109193338496600952023-02-11T09:20:58.768-08:002023-02-11T09:20:58.768-08:00I agree that death though must not be our concern ...I agree that death though must not be our concern but a reminder for us so we can remember that at the end of the short row of life death is standing still for us and there is no other way to escape from it. This realization can be saddening at the beginning but once we make peace with it our focus will be on right things and we will rearrange our priorities for sure bailihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06498012175058870980noreply@blogger.com