tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post6463246357882371338..comments2024-03-29T00:20:30.442-07:00Comments on Baili And I...: Query Or Irritation bailihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06498012175058870980noreply@blogger.comBlogger51125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-31475738222400272632020-02-09T14:26:42.218-08:002020-02-09T14:26:42.218-08:00I think it kind of just evolved that way - losing ...I think it kind of just evolved that way - losing touch with friends in the past. It happened more when grandkids started being born and i just found i didn't have much time for anything else other than helping babysit ..same with my friends - we went our own way so I really don't get that many calls - actually hardly any, lol ... but if I did - i agree with you it would be hard to not take them...sandyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03307968128182359860noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-37975279859428710062020-02-08T07:41:49.714-08:002020-02-08T07:41:49.714-08:00I think I would probably just say, "I can'...I think I would probably just say, "I can't think of anything," to answer the question, and then change the subject and talk about the weather or some other easy topic. If you repeat that often enough, maybe she will get the hint and quit asking you.Conniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03865193802444007545noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-61434986735700521222020-02-06T17:00:13.967-08:002020-02-06T17:00:13.967-08:00Yes, I know what you mean - that can be an awkward...Yes, I know what you mean - that can be an awkward question. There's so much to say when someone asks that, and we wonder if they want us to get into detail and tell them all and everything that's been happening in our lives, or just a quick description of what's been going on. This is a fun post today, Baili, and it looks like your readers enjoyed it too. ; )<br /><br />~SheriRed Rose Alleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02685747099912989862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-66454039082331925092020-01-28T07:48:43.428-08:002020-01-28T07:48:43.428-08:00Eu tenho uma amiga, que vive me perguntando isso!....Eu tenho uma amiga, que vive me perguntando isso!... :-))<br />Como se a vida estivesse carregada de acontecimentos extraordinários a acontecerem à nossa volta, o tempo todo!... Às vezes, em dias de menor paciência, lá lhe respondo com um... "não há novidades! Não se passa nada! E por aí? Igual, não é?..." :-)<br />Mas acho sempre a pergunta muito invasiva, e irritante... por ser perguntado, antes da gente ter tempo ou vontade de contar algo, não é? Pelo menos, eu interpreto assim!...<br />Beijinhos! Feliz semana!<br />AnaAna Freirehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06738719495133628497noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-9090436888412412592020-01-27T02:36:39.089-08:002020-01-27T02:36:39.089-08:00Talvez seja apenas aquilo que se chama uma "b...Talvez seja apenas aquilo que se chama uma "bengala" para fazer conversa… Mas deve ser irritante.<br />Uma boa semana.<br />Um beijo.Graça Pireshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14798220892473509748noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-55287659564564543582020-01-26T22:37:58.513-08:002020-01-26T22:37:58.513-08:00that is brave of you dear Sandy :)
i can't ...that is brave of you dear Sandy :) <br /><br />i can't do this because later i am not good with excuses for doing so :)<br />bailihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06498012175058870980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-60377289215832947162020-01-26T22:35:54.819-08:002020-01-26T22:35:54.819-08:00unfortunately i have almost no one around to whom ...unfortunately i have almost no one around to whom i can have conversations over my favorite topics <br />it kept me bothered for so long in past <br />but i have accepted it now <br />i try to catch the flow and be part of their talks ,that makes me feel good :)bailihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06498012175058870980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-43488096753536174292020-01-26T22:33:25.616-08:002020-01-26T22:33:25.616-08:00dear Louise how resemble we in our nature lol
e...dear Louise how resemble we in our nature lol <br /><br />either i am okay with lack of unnecessary knowledge that made me most bored person among my cousins and girlfriends back in native town and school <br />what is astonishing for them is that haven,t changed bit bailihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06498012175058870980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-73591639136540349602020-01-26T22:29:47.873-08:002020-01-26T22:29:47.873-08:00now that requires guts dear Margaret :) now that requires guts dear Margaret :) bailihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06498012175058870980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-46684530466787932562020-01-26T12:06:46.263-08:002020-01-26T12:06:46.263-08:00I don't accept phone calls, lol. Except from ...I don't accept phone calls, lol. Except from my sis or kids. I'm a loner .... . But when the kids call they say ..so what's new..." I just say same ole thing - hiking or sketching. I think I bore them.sandyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03307968128182359860noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-8988400549885837422020-01-26T05:17:52.262-08:002020-01-26T05:17:52.262-08:00I don't participate in gossip, so I try to cha...I don't participate in gossip, so I try to change the topic. I'd rather talk about interesting subjects than people :)Marthahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07470947568183528236noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-90445979741822356202020-01-25T18:10:54.247-08:002020-01-25T18:10:54.247-08:00I have to laugh, because everyone knows I'm ho...I have to laugh, because everyone knows I'm hopeless when it comes to "news." I'm always the last to know most things. My closest friend here moved to Arizona four years ago, lived in two homes there, returned to Colorado two years ago, bought a new home nearby but not in our development, and she still knows everything that's going on where I live. She fills me in, even though I don't ask. I'm perfectly okay with that ~ LOL Fundy Bluehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02132147630106183853noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-508360142588964612020-01-25T17:56:51.744-08:002020-01-25T17:56:51.744-08:00Oh yes, sticky beaks in my opinion.
Don't care...Oh yes, sticky beaks in my opinion.<br />Don't care for people asking that question at all, usually I put my guard up.Margaret Dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14074619859060647600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-76067925799652169252020-01-25T03:34:04.609-08:002020-01-25T03:34:04.609-08:00*smiles*...I am totally with you on this subject, ...*smiles*...I am totally with you on this subject, baili!!<br />I, too, never really know what to say in situations like these...because I never believe people could possibly be interested in anything I may have to say...plus, I dislike gossiping about other people, because I think that is unfair.<br />Social interaction is rather difficult for shy people like us, I guess. That is where blogging is really useful...we can express our feelings and thoughts...hopefully without offending anyone! ;))<br />Thank you for another wonderfully thought-provoking post, my dear friend. You never fail to get me thinking! :))<br /><br />All my Love & Hugs xxxxxxxYgrainehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00300519608303898969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-46936550132276412442020-01-24T18:00:12.238-08:002020-01-24T18:00:12.238-08:00I think she just wants to be with/talk to you.
T...I think she just wants to be with/talk to you. <br /><br />The question is her way of starting a conversation she could just as easily started talking about the weather or some other trivial point.<br /><br />I often start a conversation with someone I haven't spoken to for some time with 'How are you? Then I would go on to ask them what they had been doing recently (meaning holidays, family life, work, anything that fires their passion).<br /><br />I often feel that what I do is boring to others but friends are always interested and listen to what I have to say. It goes without saying, I always listen to what others want to say to me.CherryPiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11788084724907992076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-5477253619155532922020-01-24T09:15:08.310-08:002020-01-24T09:15:08.310-08:00Baili I am the SAME...I never know what to say. A ...Baili I am the SAME...I never know what to say. A few years ago, I was out shopping and I bumped into a girl I knew from high school. Can you believe she said to me "So what have you been up to?" and we hadn't seen each other since 1985 lol??? How on earth do I answer that, my initial response was "not much" lol....it seems to futile. How are you supposed to answer 35 years of "what I've been up to" in a 2 minute conversation? I ended up just saying "oh you know, working, living..." she said "oh cool" then we parted ways. It's so silly.Rain https://www.blogger.com/profile/14377719049819222133noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-65223565432343390102020-01-24T06:33:18.493-08:002020-01-24T06:33:18.493-08:00Always remember, if they will gossip to you, they ...Always remember, if they will gossip to you, they will gossip about you.Sandihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08702620069148109246noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-31749618967466724642020-01-24T06:32:01.242-08:002020-01-24T06:32:01.242-08:00Ooh... 🙁
It is sad, though, even if it is told i...Ooh... 🙁<br /><br />It is sad, though, even if it is told in a funny way. It's good that you don't have those things to say, because other people's feelings could be hurt.<br />Sandihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08702620069148109246noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-34378066751314096852020-01-24T00:15:17.143-08:002020-01-24T00:15:17.143-08:00and truth is hard to tell Salman ,well sometimes w...and truth is hard to tell Salman ,well sometimes when you doubt you can can hurt someone's feeling bailihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06498012175058870980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-81018972157778853602020-01-24T00:14:16.900-08:002020-01-24T00:14:16.900-08:00it means Mrs C is also not into gossip dear Joe
...it means Mrs C is also not into gossip dear Joe <br /><br />otherwise you must have known that how long reply to this question can be if is asked to "right " person lolbailihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06498012175058870980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-67450535018350403962020-01-24T00:12:16.802-08:002020-01-24T00:12:16.802-08:00may be i will be when grown more old dear Pedro :)...may be i will be when grown more old dear Pedro :)bailihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06498012175058870980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-14285349031160037352020-01-24T00:11:41.215-08:002020-01-24T00:11:41.215-08:00oh that can be trouble dear Red :)
some times you...oh that can be trouble dear Red :)<br /><br />some times you have to extend your limitations ,specially when one of the partner is interested in your "fun side :)<br /><br />hubby and me both are boring lol<br />hubby talks mostly about politics ,history and current affairs while i am completely "nature lover and spiritual words attract me most"so when it comes to talk we both try to manage to be a good listener bailihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06498012175058870980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-18932897421894502462020-01-24T00:07:59.814-08:002020-01-24T00:07:59.814-08:00 easy reply dear Christine :)
what matter, does i... easy reply dear Christine :) <br />what matter, does it work ?bailihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06498012175058870980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-18105866650302046822020-01-24T00:06:05.615-08:002020-01-24T00:06:05.615-08:00haha
hope she gets you soon and does not repeat it...haha<br />hope she gets you soon and does not repeat it :)bailihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06498012175058870980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-63976723516511617532020-01-24T00:04:50.564-08:002020-01-24T00:04:50.564-08:00yes it does if repeated often dear Marie
thank y...yes it does if repeated often dear Marie <br /><br />thank you for asking ,i know i am being late for visiting blogs of my precious friend like you :) <br />i don't know how days are running so quickly and it is being hard to blog regularly <br />still i am trying honestly <br />may be long summer days will stretch time for me bit more :)bailihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06498012175058870980noreply@blogger.com