tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post1538239946207166924..comments2024-03-28T03:12:36.021-07:00Comments on Baili And I...: How to erase the sexsual harassment ,Revolutionery Steps are Required bailihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06498012175058870980noreply@blogger.comBlogger36125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-31401028416051653232017-12-03T15:39:27.857-08:002017-12-03T15:39:27.857-08:00I think it is utterly disgusting how some men trea...I think it is utterly disgusting how some men treat women... not all men as some men have been raised properly... but some of them make me so sick, I want to say who the heck do they they think they are. I married a Russian man who was raised to think women had no choice... he learned a hard lesson with me... It is despicable how some people think the way they think... <br /><br />If I had had a son, I would have taught him to love and respect women... I raised my daughters to respect themselves and to tell the truth of how someone might treat them improperly, I will believe them and stand up for them ... xox Launna https://www.blogger.com/profile/09447311902825477772noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-33086645504672459822017-11-18T06:38:12.928-08:002017-11-18T06:38:12.928-08:00Dear Baili – This is a powerful post about deep, s...Dear Baili – This is a powerful post about deep, serious social problem. Each country is dominated by men more or less. In my country, the number of women in the decision-making position is low all among the developed countries, though there are so many respectful, kind-hearted men. It’s about upbringing. Older generation can’t change their mentality but young people who were taught about equality between men and women can share childrearing and help around the house. (It is said that a man who changes diapers will change the world.) As to the abusive men, it’s also family environment. Abused boys grow into abusive husbands. Another reason is that society hasn’t punished enough the sexual harassment. At last recently, people understand sexual molestation is a CRIME. <br /><br />Yokostardusthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10684501661629146087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-21138274651400584972017-11-17T17:28:10.086-08:002017-11-17T17:28:10.086-08:00this has all been in the news as you know, it real...this has all been in the news as you know, it really amazes me some of the men that are charged with these acts, ones you would never believe, I am blessed with a husband that respects woman, we had a daughter so I don't know what it is like raising a boy but I know it is a great thing when a mother and father can get it through their sons head not to treat women like a piece of meat to do with what they please, hopefully all this talk will get it through their minds that treating women like this can not go on any further, I am so glad you were able to talk your neighbor into speaking to her husband and that he helped her out of that situation.Conniecrafterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09266327228870948083noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-65929833611457636432017-11-17T06:11:53.802-08:002017-11-17T06:11:53.802-08:00Very well said! I've also been thinking quite ...Very well said! I've also been thinking quite a lot about this.<br />Amalia<br />xo<br />handmade by amaliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15589172037052603746noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-29243143153543054862017-11-17T01:37:08.226-08:002017-11-17T01:37:08.226-08:00Not all man are abusive. Many protects their woman...Not all man are abusive. Many protects their woman. Guess it depends on the up bringing of a family.Small Kucinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06420461345191241920noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-66151493212551735082017-11-16T19:09:56.627-08:002017-11-16T19:09:56.627-08:00What a powerful post!! Thank you!!! Big Hugs!What a powerful post!! Thank you!!! Big Hugs!Magic Love Crowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14133368208464734546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-47272712073667212582017-11-16T13:35:49.573-08:002017-11-16T13:35:49.573-08:00Some men do behave like dogs but not all. And it i...Some men do behave like dogs but not all. And it is true that women are being ill-treated everywhere. But there are many men out there who are heroes and fight for what is right and they are protectors of their womenfolks. Nancy Chanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10790364807514237397noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-66574488074984793132017-11-16T09:56:08.738-08:002017-11-16T09:56:08.738-08:00You tell it like it is sister! You are right on! ...You tell it like it is sister! You are right on! I had wonderful Uncles and men in my family that were respectful and there was equality in their marriages and in their community. But when I went out in the world I discovered they were in the minority! I have always said it is the elephant in the room.....men do most crimes, murders, wars, etc. so if 50% of the population is to blame then they should be made to clean up their messes. I have 3 sons and I raised them to respect women and I taught them to clean, sew, iron etc. so they would not have to depend on anyone else but also so my daughter-in-laws would like me! LOL! In my career I was a systems programmer but I was harassed and not allowed to do the job they hired me for as I worked with all men. I learned education has nothing to do with how they behave! They were terrible and I loved my work but they took the joy out of everything I had worked for. Anyway, I have been through the mill in my life with men and I loved my uncles but I haven't met men like that since. I am a strong woman but if you speak out you are a 'man hater' or a 'lesbian' of which I am neither but if I was there would be nothing wrong with that either as this is supposedly a free country. This is coming out now in Hollywood and politics but it has gone on for years especially with women who work outside the home or are professionals. I live alone now and I am retired and I am extremely happy but even the male neighbors here harass me. But I speak up and out and I will never allow myself to be bullied. I have more guts than brains! LOL! In the U.S. they think they are 'free' and the best country but there are other countries like Iceland for one that are truly equal and respectful and I'm sure there are others. I was born here in the U.S. but I am not proud of my country any more. Our 'leaders' are of low morals and values and an embarrassment to us. Thank you for this post as I have few women friends as they think I am 'too liberal' and outspoken....LOL! I am proud to know you and glad to hear a woman speak her mind and not try and sugar coat things to be 'popular' or a peace maker. In my mind, peace at any price is not peace! You go girl! Sam I Am......https://www.blogger.com/profile/17358633233189452832noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-55722671048180096142017-11-16T07:50:35.128-08:002017-11-16T07:50:35.128-08:00Hi Baili! Thank you so much for your visit and le...Hi Baili! Thank you so much for your visit and leaving me such a lovely comment! I'm glad you stopped by because now I have found you. You have an amazing blog where I can learn about you and your culture; and you're so positive!!! I'm happy to know you have a loving and wonderful husband who loves you and respects. Have a wonderful day!Oliva Ohlsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16722683280571154936noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-82490865153698000222017-11-16T07:41:35.523-08:002017-11-16T07:41:35.523-08:00this has been going on since the beginning of time...this has been going on since the beginning of time. unfortunately for me, i know the problem intimately. i am always baffled why men feel superior to women...why there is so much abuse. it's not new, it is not about money....<br /><br />when a woman is abused, she is embarrassed, withdrawn and feels like no one will believe her. when others come forward, she is empowered by their bravery and feels like she has the strength in numbers to do what she has never been able to do for years!!<br /><br />it stays with you for life and you are never really the same!!!Debbiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16823369215793154260noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-80516985231932470802017-11-16T06:22:07.916-08:002017-11-16T06:22:07.916-08:00I found this post really interesting, dearest Bail...I found this post really interesting, dearest Baili. And, yes, I too have suffered this kind of harassment quite a few times in my life.<br />However, there does also appear to be a trend now for some females to "jump on the bandwagon" and use the term "abuse" in order to have revenge on a man for any slight reason (or, indeed, to obtain money)...and that is bad news for all those women who are genuine victims of real abuse...in that they are no longer taken so seriously. (Coincidentally, I have just posted this very subject on my blog!)<br />Yes, this is such a difficult subject...and attitudes need to change really urgently...if we are ever to have genuine equality between the sexes.<br /><br />A brilliant and insightful post, my dear Friend!<br />Thank you so much.:))<br /><br />Big Hugs xoxoxoYgrainehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00300519608303898969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-5714388880217018442017-11-16T01:36:56.450-08:002017-11-16T01:36:56.450-08:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10450404228662992502noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-64412897726519873032017-11-16T01:18:09.705-08:002017-11-16T01:18:09.705-08:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05711267956133346997noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-89759224967681444142017-11-15T22:25:26.926-08:002017-11-15T22:25:26.926-08:00This is such a sad thing, Baili. Women and childre...This is such a sad thing, Baili. Women and children are always living in fear. I pray for the men of this world who need to be enlightened and for all the victims of their predatory behavior. I don't think there is any woman on earth who has not been subjected to being harassed and worse. You are right that Mothers must educate their sons. But Fathers must set a good example for how to be an honorable man. Hopefully, shining a bright light on these behaviors will heal this broken world. Hugs xo KarenKaren @ Beatrice Euphemiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08631972741518142563noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-64539952756045414332017-11-15T15:44:34.762-08:002017-11-15T15:44:34.762-08:00What a powerful post you have given us dear Baili
...What a powerful post you have given us dear Baili<br />Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us here<br /><br />All the best JanLowcarb team memberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07961199165290289611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-5670047328442464442017-11-15T10:36:46.143-08:002017-11-15T10:36:46.143-08:00Attitudes and behaviours need to change.
It is a t...Attitudes and behaviours need to change.<br />It is a terrible time we all now live in. So sad.<br />Sending love to you dear Baili xPrunella Pepperpothttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16933999009764009722noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-13618393285340251772017-11-15T10:11:40.269-08:002017-11-15T10:11:40.269-08:00Dear Baili, I'm so sorry about the girl who wa...Dear Baili, I'm so sorry about the girl who was being abused by father-in-law, that's terrible. She was just newly married, and that should have been a happy time for her. She came to you, and it sounds like you helped her in many ways. I'm glad she is living peacefully in another house. Thank you for sharing your innermost thoughts today, dear one.<br /><br />~SheriRed Rose Alleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02685747099912989862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-15414393321266560092017-11-15T10:06:04.776-08:002017-11-15T10:06:04.776-08:00Oh...and my dogs aren't offended ;)Oh...and my dogs aren't offended ;)Rain https://www.blogger.com/profile/14377719049819222133noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-21058096484179614762017-11-15T10:05:42.227-08:002017-11-15T10:05:42.227-08:00Baili my dear, this is a very disturbing post, but...Baili my dear, this is a very disturbing post, but very important. In the age of women's liberation, I also believe that we are still living in a male-dominated society in every respect. But not just that they have the highest salaries etc...many men still are very misogynistic. I see it daily. Sorry to men in general, I'm not bashing because I'm sure many women are horrific as well. I'm speaking out of my own experience living where I live. I remember going to an Italian restaurant once with Alex. In Montreal, a very metropolis supposedly advanced-thinking city. The host was an old Italian guy. Completely ignored me, only talked to Alex and gave Alex the menu first, when I wanted to order, he ignored me and said "What will it be sir?"...Alex said, "my girlfriend and I have changed our minds." and we left. Alex always puts me first, and for that I'm grateful, but I find he is the minority. I agree with Martha that they need to learn to be good people and it starts with their upbringing.Rain https://www.blogger.com/profile/14377719049819222133noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-45886601134442603272017-11-15T05:36:11.728-08:002017-11-15T05:36:11.728-08:00This is a very important topic and beautifully wri...This is a very important topic and beautifully written. Men can behave better if they are raised to, if they are held accountable and if our culture expects them to. The first step begins at home, of course. Parents have a huge influence on their children.Marthahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09262406079948479112noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-20321132218612244302017-11-15T03:37:57.467-08:002017-11-15T03:37:57.467-08:00Wonderfully written, Baili. A subject that grows ...Wonderfully written, Baili. A subject that grows worse as time goes on. It is a sign of end times along with plagues, famines, earthquakes, violent weather, etc. The magnitude of all these things are killing our earth. Carol Blackburnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02744965568317454970noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-84456883464588036962017-11-14T23:20:57.211-08:002017-11-14T23:20:57.211-08:00great blog.thanks for sharing it.
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But also female (Demi Moore).
I have ...Mostly male.<br />But also female (Demi Moore).<br />I have to confess I'm getting kind of suspicious with all these situations.<br />For many years there was nothing but silence.<br />All of a sudden everyone is or was a sexual predator?<br />Smells like $$$, lots of $$$Pedro Coimbrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03833470005651536885noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-87898079395724753712017-11-14T18:34:36.357-08:002017-11-14T18:34:36.357-08:00Very well said Baili, you have some excellent idea...Very well said Baili, you have some excellent ideas on educating women today to protect the women of tomorrow, small ideas to accomplish big things, you are a very smart woman.<br /><br />I had a commenter on my blog point out that rape is not necessarily about sex but more about having power over their victim, it is sad that the powerful take advantage of the weak.<br /><br />Respect as you pointed out is a big problem, no one seems to respect each other anymore, and the men who respect women will protect them rather than abuse them, teaching our children to respect themselves and each other will help raise a generation that respects women.<br /><br />Excellent post my friend, you have some great ideas.Jimmyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00079471254681821763noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-63557686942225167622017-11-14T14:43:35.873-08:002017-11-14T14:43:35.873-08:00It is such a horrific thing that you speak of Bail...It is such a horrific thing that you speak of Baili! It is true that here in America many women are protected from such evil things, but there is no doubt that it is a problem. The advice you gave your friend who visited you was wise, and I'm so thankful that things have gotten better for her. I truly don't know what the answer is, but it is good to talk about what to do about it. Marilyn @ MountainTopSpicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00600290895531484438noreply@blogger.com