tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post6600700281074846760..comments2024-03-29T05:24:03.723-07:00Comments on Baili And I...: Aadila The Flower Girl (final part)bailihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06498012175058870980noreply@blogger.comBlogger27125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-85912622729435753202018-02-19T01:01:25.181-08:002018-02-19T01:01:25.181-08:00This is a beautiful, interesting story. I loved th...This is a beautiful, interesting story. I loved the thoughts about anger and fear.Edithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18060115820682797613noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-38462895654307968972018-02-03T11:05:30.878-08:002018-02-03T11:05:30.878-08:00"I learnt that anger shows that you..."I learnt that anger shows that you cannot do anything else except being angry ."<br /><br />That is so true.Sandihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08702620069148109246noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-86812341276567320652018-02-03T11:03:15.377-08:002018-02-03T11:03:15.377-08:00I really enjoyed reading this second part of the s...I really enjoyed reading this second part of the story and what a friend you met! how very wise. Sad that you both lost your mothers but you had a great friend in her to share your experience with. I will be back in awhile to read the third part. Busy morning here.sandyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03307968128182359860noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-81244746597094443612018-02-02T09:43:09.486-08:002018-02-02T09:43:09.486-08:00Aadila sounds like a wonderful person :-)Aadila sounds like a wonderful person :-)CherryPiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11788084724907992076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-62570066793252405922018-02-02T06:38:34.804-08:002018-02-02T06:38:34.804-08:00Dear Baili - your mentor sounds like a beautiful l...Dear Baili - your mentor sounds like a beautiful lady and such a great example. Hope your day is filled with all of God's blessings. Debbie Nolanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11168646638438558551noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-34155265278058745362018-02-02T06:22:54.401-08:002018-02-02T06:22:54.401-08:00For sure, dearest Baili...life is much too short t...For sure, dearest Baili...life is much too short to be anything but positive.<br />And how wonderful to know that you have found such a beautiful and kind friend...who has taught you the sad fact that many men will take advantage of a young woman who appears lacking in confidence. Gosh, how I wish someone had taught me this when I was younger...would have saved me from much heartache!<br />Yes, such a beautiful story, dear Baili...<br /><br />Sending you much Love & Hugs xoxoxoYgrainehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00300519608303898969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-49941298792578073122018-02-01T21:04:54.000-08:002018-02-01T21:04:54.000-08:00I am glad that you found a kind friend when you ne...I am glad that you found a kind friend when you needed it most, dear Baili. You must have felt so alone by your sick Mother's bed-side and vulnerable to anyone who wished to take advantage of your vulnerability. Sometimes we have to show our bravery up front so we are not taken advantage of, and it seems you had to do that with the young doctor. Your new friend showed you how to have Grace even when life is difficult. A lovely story of friendship and inspiration. Sending hugs and blessings xo KarenKaren @ Beatrice Euphemiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08631972741518142563noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-61211137012607400582018-02-01T14:53:58.668-08:002018-02-01T14:53:58.668-08:00You had a very wise friend there, perhaps a guardi...You had a very wise friend there, perhaps a guardian Angel. Yes, negative energy has to be harnessed and used wisely, i do believe. My mother used to show me to imagine an invisible barrier around me and my family and home, drawn from the moon, i still do it. It's probably visual meditation but it works :)Elderberry-Robhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14197689596360708239noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-22947075528691487432018-02-01T07:01:28.682-08:002018-02-01T07:01:28.682-08:00She sounds like a wonderful and wise young womanShe sounds like a wonderful and wise young womanSussihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06772970147884287676noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-74777961712905298152018-02-01T04:14:14.144-08:002018-02-01T04:14:14.144-08:00Hello, what a lovely lady. It is good to have a po...Hello, what a lovely lady. It is good to have a positive outlook and thoughts. I am glad she was there to help cheer you up! Enjoy your day! eileeninmdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00070309645796725309noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-3901048874972665372018-01-31T19:28:42.875-08:002018-01-31T19:28:42.875-08:00How fortunate to meet a peer with such a good outl...How fortunate to meet a peer with such a good outlook at the time.Sharonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02743921972328074980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-27639564945985604272018-01-31T17:47:57.895-08:002018-01-31T17:47:57.895-08:00How lucky you were to meet aadila and be able to l...How lucky you were to meet aadila and be able to learn these lessons from her. She clearly made a big impact on you, and through sharing these lessons here, you are making an impact on other people. Good advice on all these issues, some of which I think is especially necessary in your country because the culture still favours men. Thank you for a wise and meaningful post, baili.jenny_ohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15475480579733466963noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-54918265546741240602018-01-31T14:40:47.789-08:002018-01-31T14:40:47.789-08:00What a beautiful person!! I'm glad you were t...What a beautiful person!! I'm glad you were there to learn from her. I think you are probably very much like her but she's right - you can exude that confidence knowing who God made you to be. You are one of God's creations and you deserve basic respect! :)Happy Elf Mom (Christine)https://www.blogger.com/profile/15047347624037697311noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-66729859042857606212018-01-31T08:11:18.427-08:002018-01-31T08:11:18.427-08:00It is good to have someone to cheer you up and to ...It is good to have someone to cheer you up and to encourage you.Nancy Chanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10790364807514237397noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-81443576302627237312018-01-31T07:42:21.552-08:002018-01-31T07:42:21.552-08:00What an inspiring story, Baili! Sometimes in life...What an inspiring story, Baili! Sometimes in life we are fortunate enough to meet people like Aadila,<br />and they leave an indelible mark on us. You learned powerful lessons about anger, fear, and courage. Her picking of flowers shows her compassion, but her observation about healthy people outside the hospital not having time to look at them is insightful and sad. Life is a gift, and it should never be taken for granted. Thank you for this compelling reminder, my friend! <br /><br />I have always wondered why some men are gentlemen and others are pigs. I think it comes down to individual choice and lack of accountability for some men's despicable behavior. Fortunately there are many loving, honorable, supportive men in the world, and this gives me hope that things will change for the better. I have experienced sexual harassment many times, but I have overcome it. I think some men are intimidated, even threatened, by strong and confident women. I'm hoping that the "Me Too" movement and other events happening in the US will have an impact on American men behaving badly. Our world has many problems, and women have great potential to help solve its difficult problems. Sending you love and hugs, my friend! Fundy Bluehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02132147630106183853noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-16405999953141556502018-01-30T19:46:39.658-08:002018-01-30T19:46:39.658-08:00"if you come out of your nest you ..."if you come out of your nest you have to prepare for such behaviour from most of men around"<br />I don't accept such statement <br />O woman can't do what she wants because men are perverts??<br />No, no, no!Pedro Coimbrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03833470005651536885noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-49673629703516767402018-01-30T19:17:21.123-08:002018-01-30T19:17:21.123-08:00A beautiful, wise, friend you made! A friend who t...A beautiful, wise, friend you made! A friend who taught you so much! I am so sorry for the loss of both your mothers! Magic Love Crowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14133368208464734546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-17605104865766392242018-01-30T18:16:59.042-08:002018-01-30T18:16:59.042-08:00Aadila sounds like a lovely soul. I'm glad you...Aadila sounds like a lovely soul. I'm glad you got the chance to meet her!Marthahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09262406079948479112noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-18938565257383221932018-01-30T17:58:30.729-08:002018-01-30T17:58:30.729-08:00Wise things Aadila taught you. Was she a Dr. also...Wise things Aadila taught you. Was she a Dr. also?<br />I was taught many things when I trained and this helped me greatly, helped me to stay strong and teach others to do so too. It's amazing how strength comes when needed.Margaret Dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14074619859060647600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-9745922358752147882018-01-30T13:47:01.111-08:002018-01-30T13:47:01.111-08:00What a lovely friend you made!What a lovely friend you made!Christinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15720030744345215307noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-13930718647858395432018-01-30T13:04:32.678-08:002018-01-30T13:04:32.678-08:00That's a very nice story Baili. So glad you me...That's a very nice story Baili. So glad you met her and learned so much from her!Rain https://www.blogger.com/profile/14377719049819222133noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-40842567335505112652018-01-30T12:29:44.410-08:002018-01-30T12:29:44.410-08:00A lovely friend with a lovely spirit entered your ...A lovely friend with a lovely spirit entered your life when you needed her. She helped you open your eyes to the world around you and made you ready to open your heart when you began your family. She strengthened herself by befriending you. She was a remarkable woman.Emma Springfieldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10543689047463574012noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-46321949552916654402018-01-30T11:02:16.434-08:002018-01-30T11:02:16.434-08:00a beautiful story...a smile can change everything!...a beautiful story...a smile can change everything!!!Debbiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16823369215793154260noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-2346395759689793622018-01-30T08:11:14.763-08:002018-01-30T08:11:14.763-08:00Aadila sounds like a wonderful and wise young woma...Aadila sounds like a wonderful and wise young woman!Debra She Who Seekshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01845703092794695023noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-51280347881540141432018-01-30T07:21:16.657-08:002018-01-30T07:21:16.657-08:00Another wonderful post. Sometimes people's out...Another wonderful post. Sometimes people's outer strength is contagious. Sometimes people that we encounter for short periods of time really make an impact and stay with us. Brian Josephhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15139559400312336791noreply@blogger.com