tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post4856960730538086903..comments2024-03-29T00:20:30.442-07:00Comments on Baili And I...: What I Learnt From My Second Job (final part)bailihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06498012175058870980noreply@blogger.comBlogger23125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-19541712969977086852018-11-23T10:08:41.563-08:002018-11-23T10:08:41.563-08:00I so admired the stand you took when you were offe...I so admired the stand you took when you were offered a ride by that pharmacist, Baili. I felt so angered by those others who were so envious of your promotion. And, I was so happy for you and your son to go to where your husband and his father was instead if staying with your in-laws. Evem though your son’s cut finger was a minor injury, there could have been more serious incidents if he and you remained.Beatrice P. Boydhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08281239556392874979noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-45606821550278003542018-11-20T20:14:11.523-08:002018-11-20T20:14:11.523-08:00Hi, Baili! I'm sorry that I have been absent ...Hi, Baili! I'm sorry that I have been absent for so long. Life has pulled me away from my blogging buddies, and it is taking me a long time to get back with everyone again. I really enjoyed your three-part story about your second job. It all happened because you had the courage to speak to that principal about getting a job. She was wise not to employ you where Ahsan was studying. It can be really hard on the child, especially emotionally. You were wise to be true to you and not to change to please others. I've always thought if you try to change who you are to please others then you are living a lie. On top of everything else, it would be stressful and exhausting to try to be someone you're not. It's always powerful to prove to yourself that you can be independent and stand on your own two feet. Once you realize that you can do that, it's easier to make the sacrifice of choosing to put your son first when he needed you. Thanks for sharing this lovely story ~ I could imagine it all so vividly in my mind. Take care, my friend. Just because I've been away doesn't mean that I had forgotten you. I think of you often, and I hope you, your husband, and sons are doing well! Fundy Bluehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02132147630106183853noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-10750822277824609352018-11-20T14:42:03.945-08:002018-11-20T14:42:03.945-08:00We all learn from so many different situations! Ou...We all learn from so many different situations! Our work places are so much similar all over the world! Never change! You are a great person! Magic Love Crowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14133368208464734546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-40310985223354466022018-11-20T09:06:03.564-08:002018-11-20T09:06:03.564-08:00This is a lovely story and it worked out well for ...This is a lovely story and it worked out well for you and your hubby in the long run :-)<br /><br />Workplace situations can be similar in the UK too. I suppose it is human nature and we are all different.CherryPiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11788084724907992076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-68869721307902775852018-11-20T03:38:13.552-08:002018-11-20T03:38:13.552-08:00I read your story with great interest, dear Baili,...I read your story with great interest, dear Baili, and could relate it - work environment is not easy anywhere. I think that if you are clear in your intentions, honest in your dealings, and still accept that the world is not always fair or kind, you are doing the best you can.<br />Amalia<br />xo<br /> handmade by amaliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15589172037052603746noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-44954137249429815792018-11-20T00:47:32.420-08:002018-11-20T00:47:32.420-08:00Hello dearest Baili, I have now read the three par...Hello dearest Baili, I have now read the three parts of this story. And what a fascinating story it was! It's wonderful that you gained experience and self-confidence from you work. Integrity, honesty, diligence and kind-heartedness often are not appreciated by the unfriendly and inconsiderate people and conflicts may arise. I'm happy you came out as winner.<br />Hugs and blessings!Sara - Villa Emiliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17402655388283396110noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-92194597282104221462018-11-19T21:07:37.090-08:002018-11-19T21:07:37.090-08:00I enjoyed learning about your job, Baili, and how ...I enjoyed learning about your job, Baili, and how you managed to turn a negative situation into a positive learning experience. It is a story to tell your grandchildren some day......of how you and your husband overcame your hardships and created a beautiful life all your own. Truly inspiring. Thank you for sharing. A hug xo Karen Karen @ Beatrice Euphemiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08631972741518142563noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-33119595755400085632018-11-19T19:58:10.425-08:002018-11-19T19:58:10.425-08:00Very interesting reading, baili! I would guess tha...Very interesting reading, baili! I would guess that you are not the only person who learned important lessons while you were working in that place. You'll never know how you may have changed the attitude, outlook, or behavior of some of the other women, but you were a very good example of a loyal employee, a kind friend, and a hard worker!jenny_ohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15475480579733466963noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-3381807214391598942018-11-19T16:59:19.168-08:002018-11-19T16:59:19.168-08:00I loved your story, Baili! You and your husband bo...I loved your story, Baili! You and your husband both worked very hard and you were blessed in so many ways. I am so happy for you!Marthahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07470947568183528236noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-38934889915568231042018-11-19T10:09:43.881-08:002018-11-19T10:09:43.881-08:00I really enjoyed reading about your job experience...I really enjoyed reading about your job experience Baili, I think apart from all that you learned during that time, the girls in the hall learned a lot too - that goodness shines through and that because of your hard work and honest nature, you were popular. It must have been very hard with the in law issues to also have hostility and jealousy from the girls at work. I am so glad you made the decision to go to your husband - there's strength in being together and your son(s) were safe and loved by both. I think the biggest thing that shines through in your story (and also your posts) is your unquestioning faith in God.Elderberry-Robhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14197689596360708239noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-23082602695650086832018-11-19T03:34:25.344-08:002018-11-19T03:34:25.344-08:00Gosto da forma como expõe os seu problemas e espec...Gosto da forma como expõe os seu problemas e espectativas no trabalho. Em todo o lado é igual, Baili…<br />Uma boa semana.<br />Beijo.Graça Pireshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14798220892473509748noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-51639065264028962272018-11-18T18:24:00.805-08:002018-11-18T18:24:00.805-08:00We are always learning, baili.
When and if we stop...We are always learning, baili.<br />When and if we stop, life becoems very boring.<br />Have a great week!Pedro Coimbrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03833470005651536885noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-45249577181984880672018-11-17T21:28:23.480-08:002018-11-17T21:28:23.480-08:00Very interesting reading of that part of your life...Very interesting reading of that part of your life.<br />You certainly did learn a lot. One door closes and another opens.Margaret Dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14074619859060647600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-22711332331906292452018-11-17T20:08:30.392-08:002018-11-17T20:08:30.392-08:00I think you made good decisions throughout this ti...I think you made good decisions throughout this time in your life. I'm glad you were eventually able to move to a separate house, and it made your life peaceful once again.Conniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03865193802444007545noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-77151299123838273562018-11-17T17:07:14.081-08:002018-11-17T17:07:14.081-08:00It was a very long post but very interesting, so m...It was a very long post but very interesting, so many things are the same as here but a lot are different when I was first married it was the thing to move out of the family home and start your own life not alway easy to do but you had freedom now young couples often are at home because the house prices are so high. I always worked and enjoyed it but the workplace is filled with lots of things that are not fair things have got a lot better now I think.<br />Merle........ Merlesworldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00573975763012762631noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-91196842382276794802018-11-17T16:21:19.511-08:002018-11-17T16:21:19.511-08:00I think you did fine. Your kindness and honesty wi...I think you did fine. Your kindness and honesty will always work for you in the long run. Just be yourself. No one could ask for more. Other people's problems with you are just that. Their problems.Jonohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18170214396483091419noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-76817436602200509822018-11-17T11:09:27.412-08:002018-11-17T11:09:27.412-08:00A wonderful story full of many kinds of love just ...A wonderful story full of many kinds of love just as you are. There are many valuable messages here. The first is that you stayed true to yourself and others saw that. You put you family above all else and your family benefited from that. You and your husband worked toward a goal for your family. Both of you sacrificed and in the end you earned what you desired. There are many more but you know what they are. Emma Springfieldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10543689047463574012noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-4208036610946985632018-11-17T09:53:52.651-08:002018-11-17T09:53:52.651-08:00Your entire story has been so interesting, I'v...Your entire story has been so interesting, I've enjoyed each part.<br />I do wonder what she may be doing now?<br /><br />Lovely posts from you Baili.<br /><br />All the best JanLowcarb team memberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07961199165290289611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-73450605795447393492018-11-17T05:00:57.007-08:002018-11-17T05:00:57.007-08:00Thanks for sharing your story, very interesting.Thanks for sharing your story, very interesting.Christinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15720030744345215307noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-46715280448635847062018-11-17T04:48:58.110-08:002018-11-17T04:48:58.110-08:00I wonder what she is doing now.I wonder what she is doing now.Sandihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08702620069148109246noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-74904723755711723092018-11-17T04:34:23.945-08:002018-11-17T04:34:23.945-08:00Joeh raises a good point, there are many similarit...Joeh raises a good point, there are many similarities between workplaces throughout the world. <br /><br />Your entire story is so interesting. It is fascinating how some seemingly hard people can actually become soft when you get to know them. Brian Josephhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15139559400312336791noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-18622177914051016662018-11-17T01:31:50.393-08:002018-11-17T01:31:50.393-08:00You are so right dear Joe!
If you step out this ...You are so right dear Joe!<br /><br />If you step out this feeling rules the world bailihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06498012175058870980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4309826816742200785.post-74964433968404742822018-11-16T23:26:07.890-08:002018-11-16T23:26:07.890-08:00Work place situations in US are not so different. ...Work place situations in US are not so different. I guess Competition and jealousy is universal.joehhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08520161706680568508noreply@blogger.com