Monday, November 29, 2021

We Have To Wait

                                               


We were preparing to receive our eldest son after three long years but  last Sunday my eldest son called and looked bit stressed . I thought it was tiredness of his long trip to Sintra town but he told that his HR informed him last day that company is going through some kind of huge changes in first two weeks of December  (not allowed to mention) so it will be better for all employees to remain present physically meanwhile. He informed that he cancelled his seat while ago though not completely .He has open ticket now and he will rebook the seat when things are finalized .He also mentioned that he has to book before a month or two because tickets are too expensive due to covid thing .

We felt quite sad as we were very happy to have hope that he will be home within a week. My senses dimmed for while but i composed myself immediately when i realized that his sadness must be graver than ours as he was away from home since three years and looked quite low when mentioned all this . He said he was all ready to fly home and did lots of shopping for this purpose too though he has to wait now!

I ,we buried our sorrow inside our heart and try to comfort him with positive conversation smilingly. I still think of him if he is more disturbed than us !

All parent want their children to be happy in life ,we have no issue until he is doing fine in life and moving further to achieve his dreams ! Our prayers and best wishes are with him each moment!

We are trying to get out of this tense feeling asap and i  hope we will feel better in few days . Life is beautiful no matter what ,every day has new surprise for us and we must keep this in our mind though being parent it is most difficult task i think!

It is good to have many photos of children as they can sooth  soul of desperate parents to  some extent .

     were dreaming of such happy family time together ,i hope the day will come soon by the grace of Lord! image is taken in 2017 when my son was preparing to leave for Germany .


it was first time for us to part from our son for  one possible year and he was going to foreign country which made us really anxious and sensitive ,we took many such photos ,my son came to visit us after one year as he promised but then covid took over the world and like us so many parents and relatives starved for their kids and family unfortunately ! i heard Britain had banned some countries once again specially from asian lands ,this is worrying for parents like us . 



 I found this lovely quote online ,how true ! In this whole world i since beginning never ever longed for any worldly joy but "family" in which i can give my love like farmer water the fields and gardens ,in return i always wanted to see them flourish in this world with all i tried them to brought up with!

I have no wish to harvest because i am not a businesswoman but a mother who's veins have fluid of love for her children and who's breathes are dense with prays for their children ! all i want them to be healthy ,happy and successful in life ,amen!

Hope i did not make you sweet friends sad ,please don't be ,you know me i am positive and i will feel better soon :)

blessings to all of you and all you love !

14 comments:

  1. That's too bad! I hope all is well with his employment and that soon he'll be able to come for a good visit with you at home!

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  2. Dear Baili, I know that you and your family are heartbroken over this latest delay in seeing your son, and that is to be expected. There is no one who would not feel the same way, so do not have any concern over sharing this sadness. And, as you said, your son is just as disappointed and maybe even more so as he had bought gifts for his family. In these uncertain times, anything can and does happen it seems. You can share it with your blogger friends and we do understand. I hope that all will work out in time and your family will be reunited once again, my friend.

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  3. I can only imagine your disappointment. You son will be in your arms soon though…I hope!

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  4. You must be so disappointed. Hopefully he will return to you soon. He is disappointed too I'm sure. The quote you found is so true.

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  5. My dearest Baili, I feel for you and all the family, you must all be so disappointed.
    However, this time shall pass and I am sure his homecoming will be even more special.

    My good wishes.

    All the best Jan

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  6. I can understand your disappointment so completely, baili. And I share your love of family and wanting only for our children to be happy, healthy, and successful in life. I hope your son's job is secure and things will work out so that he can visit you as soon as possible. Hugs, my dear friend.

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  7. It's tough for everybody when plans fall through.

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  8. With the new variant, Omicron, reuniting with our loved ones is going to take longer, Baili
    Have a great week

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  9. Oh Baili, I feel for you and your family, such disappointment.
    Hoping it sorts itself out.
    Our border has been closed to several countries too for 2 weeks at this stage.

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  10. That's a beautiful quote at the end of the post Baili. With this new Covid mutation the UK is stopping a lot of nationalities from travelling and we ourselves are now told to wear masks in public again. I hope your son will be staying at work for good news in the restructure of his company and that he will be able to visit you soon - it's good that he has reliable friends and will not be alone.

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  11. I know how much you miss your son and I am sorry for you and your family's disappointment. I pray that you and your family will get to be with him before too much more time passes.

    Our son will be coming home to visit for the first time in a little more than two years for this Christmas. I cry from happiness when he arrives back at home, and then I cry from sadness when he leaves again. After this Christmas, it will probably be a long time until we see him again, because he will be moving to another country.

    Take care.
    Susie D.

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  12. Imagino a sua tristeza, Baili! Estava plenamente convencida de que já estaria com seu filho junto de si! Imagino que tudo possa também de alguma forma estar relacionado com a nova variante, que está a assolar a Europa, que está a causar transtornos ao nível de funcionamento de muitas empresas de novo, em breve, e já estar a dificultar muitas deslocações, por causa de testes mais apurados e mais dias de quarentena necessários para quem viaja...
    Sei que em Inglaterra, tudo está um pouco desorientado, por causa da vacinação, do número de casos a subir em espiral, e do impacto na economia se houver sectores da economia que tenham de parar para conter este novo surto da pandemia, até haver reforço nas vacinas... pois em Inglaterra optou-se por vacinas que não estão a responder da melhor forma à nova variante, e haverá muita gente por lá que não é muito colaborante em aceitar vacinar-se ou aceitar um novo reforço de outro tipo de vacina...
    O que importa, é que seu filho está bem e feliz... e embora o mundo esteja a passar uma fase atribulada, há-de passar! E no limite, se ele não tiver possibilidades de vos vir visitar, talvez depois vocês o possam visitar a ele mais tarde! Há que manter o otimismo, e pensar que para tudo nesta vida há sempre solução...
    Mas entretanto, temos de nos conformar, que estamos de novo noutra fase problemática da pandemia! A minha mãe, já levou a terceira dose da vacina, mas já está mentalizada que irá passar todo o Inverno em casa, pois o Dezembro e o Janeiro, prevêem-se de novo tão problemáticos como os do ano passado, perante a nova variante, que de momento, não aparentando ser muito perigosa, escapa contudo a algumas vacinas... e isso é que está a causar receio mundial, para o futuro, caso haja ainda uma nova mutação de novo de maior perigosidade...
    Um beijinho! E votos de tudo a correr o melhor possível! Infelizmente, mesmo com vacinas, a pandemia não está ainda tão ultrapassada quando se gostaria... e o mundo ainda não sabe muito bem, em que sentido a pandemia irá evoluir... daí que muitas sectores da economia estejam a postos para mudanças de ultima hora, se tal for necessário, para os meses mais próximos...
    Amanhã, estarei por aqui de novo, vendo as restantes publicações, que se me escaparam na pressa dos dias, mas que a minha disponibilidade hoje, já não permite!
    Beijinhos
    Ana

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